How do you protect yourself against getting scammed?

[Harvey Dowd]

I am new to this board, so if this topic is already covered or needs to go in a different forum, please point me in the right direction. However, I want to...

I am new to this board, so if this topic is already covered or needs to go in a different forum, please point me in the right direction. However, I want to know what is the best way to spot a scam, especially if she is asking for a high deposit?

In my opinion, some of the Ad Boards now are filled with more scams than legitimate ladies. And while she may have reviews some of those seem fake too. Plus, it seems that legitimate ladies have banded together with a "No Review Policy" because some of the reviews were too graphic and detailed about the date in their opinion. The reason I ask is that there are some ladies I've been wanting to see, but their deposit and lack of reviews make me hesitant to reach out to them because I'm not sure if they are legitimate.

So, what are the ways to protect yourself against getting scammed?

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[oc.businessman.33]

Search bar of the fourm, type scam, and there should be plenty of post on this topic.

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[PorkysReturn]

i rely heavily on agencies, cause then you have someone to contact if things go left

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[king-sama4u2nv]

Honestly, there are a dozen different ways to make it so you don't get scammed. Some people like @PorkysReturn stay within the vicintiy of agencies. Others are fine to go independent as long as there's information to back it up. We have more then enough rules and regulations you can follow to make it so that you don't get scammed, but it really comes down to you. How much you trust and what common sense you have that tells you this provider isn't for you.

Thought if I had to pick how I keep from getting scammed, I just go by what's kept money in my pocket. Research! You can find anything on that person. Ask your community no matter where it is. The community doesn't have an answer for you then maybe that provider isn't for you, so you move on to the next. Plenty of sweet as fish in the sea.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

Reading between the lines, sometimes an absence of reviews is saying she lacks good reviews for a reason.

Also sometimes I don’t write negative reviews because she could find out it was me if she doesn’t have a lot.

Backing up the main point, researching and learning from other’s experiences so that you don’t have to first hand.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I’d say the major guarantee is to work with @trystagency there has been a few times with members of this forum he has had to step up, I’m sure there is others as I’m sure a lot of his clients are not on this forum where he has stepped in and covered any financial loss to a client… there is the one and I’m to tired to find the thread some one wanted to see one of the girls on his roster came all the way from England I think and she got ill, he not only covered the deposit they paid but also any airfare and hotel fees… don’t get me wrong I’m not saying he will protect you if, you’re an ahole there was a fake “Braylin brand scammed me thread” and before her reputation got ruined he went above and beyond to prove the fake screen shots+fake Apple Pay to her…


I do personally know of my own experience with him, that on my first time using him there was a small banking error (I would not have the funds due to it being a savings account and atm withdrawal limit) he was willing to trust I would not ruin my reputation and be like “square up with me tomm when you can withdraw from an atm again”… also I should mention I was a first time client so he was willing to risk a few hundred bucks to both keep a girl happy and a future client

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

From what I’ve been told from girls as well that not all agents are ethical.

Getting the vote of confidence for Tryst from the community means a lot.

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[Townbizz54]

Agencies make this more simple
every single girls i speak to has Said nothing but good things about mr tryst.
He has helped me arrange a lot of complex things with moving parts and understands that shit happens sometimes
He also realizes that building and maintaining a client base with good customer service is the key to this business as most girls have 3-5 year window but us clients wil be around much longer. This is lost by the other agency’s.

If you can handle trinity’s personality, she’s not as bad as people say she’s never done me wrong so where I leave it. But she can be difficult at times and even for her better clients you still need to walk on egg shells with her.

Alluring intros is solid

Lita/lourdes can go fuck herself. But her shit is legit and I’d say it’s the 2nd best agency overall. But I will not give that count another cent.

If want to do the independent route. You’ll need to be prepared to send a deposit which is always risky. You can definitely avoid that but you need to have multiple outstanding references and usually have to do an incall

If you’re going on private delights or sites that you need to learn how to research ads
1 how many reviews; how recent was the last one, how reviews written I don’t look at a girl with less than25 with 5 within the last 6-9 months
2how many post/ads in how many city’s does she have up. Girls in la post in NorCal all the time.
3what comes up when you google her number.

Once you learn those 3 things it’s pretty easy to weed out the obvious scams.
Then it’s all about the interaction

If you send the correct first message it should look like this. Friendly and direct. Don’t bull shit with a million questions.

Hey hooker, hope youre having a great day, I was wondering if you’re available this evening around 8pm for an (incall or outcall in location) I sent my screening on pd. Hope to hear from you soon.
Username
Name you want her to call you/age/race

If she can’t respond more that 2 words move on don’t look back.
If she can’t respond put together a thoughtful message back. Continue the conversation
If she asks where you are. Roll your eyes cus she didn’t read your message and move on.

When she brings up a deposit be prepared to risk or shift away from it. I find that offering to pay for an uber works with most legit providers otherwise I offer multiple reference of Giles I know will response quick and give me a good reference.

I usually send this regarding deposit.

I understand you reasoning for requesting a deposit, however just as there are bad clients who have made that something you request, I have had too many bad experiences with sending them in the past and that is something I simply do not do. I hope that is something you understand and if that prevents us from moving forward I respect your decision and wish you the best. However I would be more than happy to call you an uber, and any of these girls are available for a reference. They all know me by my name and number. I actually just spoke with girl 2 and she is available right now if you would like to reach out now.

List 3 girls with
Name
Phone number
Link to add/reviews and personal website if she has one.
Date of the last time she saw you

Leave it at that and respect her response.

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[connman]

A few simple tips:

1 - Use a reputable agency when possible.
2 - Never send a deposit unless you are 100% sure. If you do, never send an amount that hurts if you lose it.
3 - Do some research which includes reaching out on forums such as this.
4 thru 100 and MOST important - Think with your big head.

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[connman]

Lita/lourdes can go fuck herself. I will not give that count another cent.

I have met Lita and agree .

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[shion]

I have met Lita and agree .

What's the pro/cons of dealing with Lita?

Her as a person? Verification? Too many hoops to jump through? Not holding models accountable?

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[connman]

What's the pro/cons of dealing with Lita?

Her as a person? Verification? Too many hoops to jump through? Not holding models accountable?

I haven't worked with Lita in years so I won't comment on the service other than to say she always delivered. I was talking about her as a person, she is a bitch.

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[Townbizz54]

Here is the deal with lita/ Lourdes
Yes their shit is legit
No there not gonna steal the 1k retainer they make you send to sign up. Just know who you’re gonna see when you reach out

But she is a fucking cunt. All the hate trinity gets, the end of the day you can work around it if you know how. Lita and her multiple personalities aka her assistants is different
lita thinks she’s fucking god because she has some big names that are exclusive.

She won’t talk to you about anything other than
Name of girl
Time and Date
Location

Luckily there is always another path and Mr tryst is good at recruiting

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[DarkWolfX22]

I got scammed once. I should known better. It was from listcrawler too ontop of that. I got to her place, and paid for BB/BBJ. 250 plus 200. After that we puts the condom and was like waiting a minute. She gave me that look. Luckily, I was able to get my money back by working two jobs. It was a small setback..

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[dob18]

Think with your big head as noted above, but also know that scamming can happen after a date as well. I've let my little head take over and listened to many a sob story which turned out to be BS and I was out X dollars because "I thought there was a connection". Not to say that that can't happen, it absolutely can.

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[shion]

Think with your big head as noted above, but also know that scamming can happen after a date as well. I've let my little head take over and listened to many a sob story which turned out to be BS and I was out X dollars because "I thought there was a connection". Not to say that that can't happen, it absolutely can.

You're telling MY story

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[Swytypy]

You're telling MY story

He’s telling all of our stories.

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[connman]

He’s telling all of our stories.

My stories al have Happy Endings

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[Hallu33]

I've never been "fully" scammed, but the most common one is fake, photoshopped or old photos. My first experience was with a woman 10 year older than her pics, with prob 10 kg more, and she didn't even put on make up. She was enthusiastic, but she still lied. My second time, I promissed myself I'd leave if photos were too old. This time, she stole pics from an OF model (not that famous of a model so I thought it was genuine). I stayed coz the girl looked sexy, but she wasn't the best. So from now on, I never go unless I saw genuine reviews from a trusted forum. On websites, the reviews are 90% fake. Like really fake. Either from the provider/agency, or rewarding some customer to write fake reviews. And some of these guys even roam forums like this... not saying this is the case here, but the french one I'm on, there's literally a thread on this, people being banned for writing (obvious) fake reviews etc...

Some customers don't mind going in "first" when new girls pop up on websites, and then just turning around if they don't like what they see. If it's an agency, they'll get blacklisted, but they don't care, coz an agency putting out fake pictures will collapse anyway. Coz then we're warned on forums and we don't go and warn others. So yeah, unless you've been doing this for a while, I believe you should never go in unless you've seen reviews you completely trust. I also once saw a model doing custom vids on her telegram, for like 30-50$, at least you can check her current shape and see if she's your type... In fact, I was hesitant at first, and this video sealed the deal for me. But this sytem isn't the norm at all.

Of course all of this applies to "normal" girls, with no deposit. For VIP/pornstars, with the deposit system... even easier to get scammed coz you assume the deposit is needed...

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[shion]

It comes through trial and error...aka experience.

There's a " milf" on OF that you can tell she not only filter her pics but her waistline.

I see the difference when her profile pops up on dating apps.

I can do dated pics or a few pounds but some chicks are literally Dr Jeckyll/Mr. Hyde when it comes to pics and person.

That's up to the discretion of the Client and the Client ONLY whether to stay or not.

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