Yes, providers do judge us. And honestly, I don’t even blame them — it’s their right.
I wanted to test this myself one day, so I ran a little experiment.
I had a confirmed in-call booked with an Asian provider. Got the address, everything was set. I decided to show up looking like.. well, to not give the best first impression, on purpose: old Adidas sweatpants, a random dirty cap, and a pair of sneakers I had worn almost every day for the last 10 months. They were beat to hell.
I got there 10 minutes early. The building had huge windows - you could see everything. I texted her that I was outside. No answer. 5 minutes passed. 15 minutes. 30 minutes past the booking time… still nothing. Radio silence. Never heard from her again.
Now, I’ve been in this hobby a long time and I’ve never been turned down by a provider (at least not that I know of or can remember).
But that day I’m 100% sure she looked out the window, saw me standing there looking like a bum, and decided “Nope.”
I’ll never do such an experiment again. Money well spent for the experiment though (Uber fourth and back.)
From that day on I always dress to impress. No slop. You’re paying good money, you might as well look like someone she actually wants to open the door for.
So let’s talk about it honestly:
To the pornstars that we have in here - do you actually judge a client hard based on how he shows up at the door?
Gentlemen; have you ever been ghosted or turned away because of how you were dressed? Or do you think appearance doesn’t matter as long as you’re clean and respectful?
If it was the other way around and I was the provider, I too would judge from the window.
