While there are almost never bad surprises when seeing pornstars, it can be the complete opposite with regular providers. I’ve been unlucky 4–5 times this...
While there are almost never bad surprises when seeing pornstars, it can be the complete opposite with regular providers. I’ve been unlucky 4–5 times this year—the latest being this morning—and I walk away every single time. I turn around right at the door. That’s something I only learned later on in my hobbyist life.
No matter what country you’re in, the local directories are riddled with fake profiles. Photos are often heavily photoshopped, and ages are set 10+ years younger than the provider actually is. Most of these directories claim to have a system to “verify” providers, but it must be weak, because it clearly doesn’t work as intended.
To make a long story short: it’s perfectly okay to walk away when the girl doesn’t match her pictures—and to leave without paying. You haven’t received a service. Just be upfront, or politely excuse yourself with something like,
“I forgot the cash in my car, it’s in the parking lot,” and leave.
For all the new gentlemen, I recommend reading my own
Guide for First-Time Hobbyists.
