This entire video was a walkthrough of what a successful man has to deal with. From start to finish, it was an in-depth example of what a man faces when he reaches a certain financial bracket. Robert broke down the ins and outs, giving his own opinion on why men at that level are seeing more providers than civilian women.
This is Robert Clancy. He’s a type of guru who focuses on making sure men live their best lives without being taken advantage of by women. He has numerous videos on his TikTok account covering scenarios ranging from power dynamics in relationships to finding a “high-value” woman. After going through some of his videos, I found them to be very informative without coming off as too condescending. Robert is basically saying things most men already know, but hearing it out loud hits differently. I don’t agree with everything he says, including this video, though a lot of it does bear some truth.
In the beginning of the video, Robert breaks down everything a man does for his civilian date—from the thought process of planning, to paying for the Uber, to the date itself. He goes through all of this with the idea that a man is seeking a sexual experience, only to often fall short of that goal. He also talks about the emotional labor both parties go through, saying men often shoulder more of it than women. By “emotional labor,” he means the effort of simply being present and performing the version of yourself you want to project when meeting a woman. His point is that being with a woman—financially and emotionally—takes real work.
From my point of view—and this is just me—as a man born in the ’90s, I was raised to treat women with respect until they give a reason not to. I was taught to pick up the check at dinner, open car doors, stand up when a woman leaves the table—the list goes on. Is all that draining? Hell yeah. But it’s also the polite thing to do. Now, whether the woman is an escort or not, I’m still going to put the same thought into the date. I don’t see a reason not to. Sure, I doubt some providers will care, but I do. I can’t bring myself not to make sure a woman enjoys her time. She should feel special regardless of her profession.
I’m not saying Robert is wrong. I’m just saying there are two sides to this. As emotionally and financially draining as women can be, it really comes down to how a man chooses to approach it—and Robert’s video does help frame that. No one is denying it’s often easier with providers, but they deserve the same level of emotional attention a civilian woman does. At the end of the day, they’re human too.
