What's the problem, here???? 🤔

[shion]

Me: I would like to see you on this date for 2 hours

Provider: I do require verification and a deposit.

Me: Will do

Me ( after sending DL with address...

Me: I would like to see you on this date for 2 hours

Provider: I do require verification and a deposit.

Me: Will do

Me ( after sending DL with address blocked out and selfie): If everything cool with Verification?

Provider: You haven't finished.

Me: Making sure the verification was good before sending deposit. ( Mind you, she hasn't sent me her Cash App)

** No response from Provider **

Me: Are we cool with Verification?

** Still NO response **

WHAT HAPPENED HERE, FELLAS???

She just ghost.

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[Swytypy]

How long have you waited for a reply? Maybe she’s driving, somewhere without Wi-Fi, with another client, etc.?

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[shion]

This is has been back and forth all day.

At THIS writing to you....No Response

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[king-sama4u2nv]

Did she ask for anything else for the verification process? drop the DL should be more then enough, but so many providers are different. Some want LinkdIn, Job ID, etc. I'm thinking she wants you to drop the deposit, but if you're waiting for verification: why would you?

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[billybob]

1 day is nothing, these girls are a mess there’s a reason why they are in this line of work. If they dont have an assistant they can be sporadic with emails.

I would recommend just waiting for her to respond if you message her too many times sometimes it doesn’t go well.

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[tj853]

1 day is nothing, these girls are a mess there’s a reason why they are in this line of work. If they dont have an assistant they can be sporadic with emails.

I would recommend just waiting for her to respond if you message her too many times sometimes it doesn’t go well.

This is probably the best approach, but I gotta admit, it's not looking good OP... Hope it works out for you.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

1 day is nothing, these girls are a mess there’s a reason why they are in this line of work. If they dont have an assistant they can be sporadic with emails.

I would recommend just waiting for her to respond if you message her too many times sometimes it doesn’t go well.

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[shion]

Did she ask for anything else for the verification process? drop the DL should be more then enough, but so many providers are different. Some want LinkdIn, Job ID, etc. I'm thinking she wants you to drop the deposit, but if you're waiting for verification: why would you?

Full Disclosure: she asked for Work ID.
I leave my ID at work!!!

I sent her a copy of my DL with my address blurred out and a selfie.


I have no problem with a deposit but I don't know what her CashApp is. She hasn't sent that info.

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[oc.businessman.33]

She is waiting on your work ID. Do you have a verified LinkedIn profile? Ask her if that will do?

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[shion]

She is waiting on your work ID. Do you have a verified LinkedIn profile? Ask her if that will do?

I have a LinkedIn profile from years ago.

Don't know about being Verified
Never heard of that

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[oc.businessman.33]

I have a LinkedIn profile from years ago.

Don't know about being Verified
Never heard of that

I have an up to date active LinkedIn profile. If you are verified working for an organization next to your name there is this:

My work ID doesn't have any identifying information so I typically send them a screenshot of my LinkedIn profile and a shot of my business card.

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[ZeeBellaire]

I have an up to date active LinkedIn profile. If you are verified working for an organization next to your name there is this:

My work ID doesn't have any identifying information so I typically send them a screenshot of my LinkedIn profile and a shot of my business card.

This ^

I have a friend who is a provider, and I can tell you firsthand that most will not respond if you send them only part of what they ask for on their site or ad. In this case, if she asked for a work ID and you just assumed a DL with address masked out would be good enough and just sent it to her without mentioning anything about not having a work ID - it’s possible that she is just ignoring you or not making it a priority to respond. These woman get so many time wasters reaching out to them that they don’t bother doing anything if they only get part of what they have asked for.

If it were me, I would have explained in my first response that “I don’t have a work ID, but happy to discuss alternate verification options you may have. In the meantime, here is my government issued ID, and a link to my LinkedIn. Let me know if you have any questions. Looking forward to hearing back.”

Basically, be proactive about it and they are most likely to make responding a priority.

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[geot215]

Some bitches are just ignorant and stupid no further explanation needed lol

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[Swytypy]

LinkedIn can verify you in 2 ways. First is to send an email to your work address with a link for you to verify it’s you. Once you verify you work for a company with a known domain name that matches the org you say you work for, that’s one verification complete. The other is to go through Clear, which LinkedIn directly links you to, and once you follow their steps, they validate the second verification behind the scenes in a day or 2 with nothing else needed from you.

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[Swytypy]

Verifications on your LinkedIn profile | LinkedIn Help

Verifications on your LinkedIn profile

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[shion]

Verifications on your LinkedIn profile | LinkedIn Help

Verifications on your LinkedIn profile

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I sent her my un-Verified LinkedIn addy.

I guess she saw I was prior military cuz now she's asking for a copy of my " veterans card"

Mind you, she's doing a tour.

I had scheduled something for next Wednesday.

Maybe she's hurting for bookings.

I'm starting to lose interest.

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[Administrator]

I sent her my un-Verified LinkedIn addy.

I guess she saw I was prior military cuz now she's asking for a copy of my " veterans card"

Mind you, she's doing a tour.

I had scheduled something for next Wednesday.

Maybe she's hurting for bookings.

I'm starting to lose interest.

Ask for her ID, see what kind of reaction you get..lolol
This is why it is always better to go through a (reputable) agency that does all of this for you and the provider (the good agencies really do earn their keep).

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[shion]

Ask for her ID, see what kind of reaction you get..lolol
This is why it is always better to go through a (reputable) agency that does all of this for you and the provider (the good agencies really do earn their keep).

Another thing that's a turn off is this whole " I gotta crawl before I ball" perception.

Like I gotta prove myself to her to get with her.

My DL wasn't good enuff.....My LinkedIn wasn't good enuff.....now she's asking for Military Identification

Like she's making me work to get the pussy.

This is just verification.....she still expects a Deposit????!!!!!!

Spirit, the Deposit should be waived considering all of the added verification, she requesting.

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[oc.businessman.33]

Another thing that's a turn off is this whole " I gotta crawl before I ball" perception.

Like I gotta prove myself to her to get with her.

My DL wasn't good enuff.....My LinkedIn wasn't good enuff.....now she's asking for Military Identification

Like she's making me work to get the pussy.

This is just verification.....she still expects a Deposit????!!!!!!

Spirit, the Deposit should be waived considering all of the added verification, she requesting.

Ask for her ID, see what kind of reaction you get..lolol
This is why it is always better to go through a (reputable) agency that does all of this for you and the provider (the good agencies really do earn their keep).

I agree with the admin. This is why it is always better to go through a reputable agency like The Tryst Agency.
But to advocate for the provider, don't view what she is asking for as "crawl before you ball". She is just trying to protect herself. You are a STRANGER. She knows nothing about you. Everything she is asking for is to try and determine if you are law enforcement, someone with a criminal record, or abusive history.
This extensive screening will always occur for you when you do not have updated identifiable information. Hope this helps.

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[shion]

I agree with the admin. This is why it is always better to go through a reputable agency like The Tryst Agency.
But to advocate for the provider, don't view what she is asking for as "crawl before you ball". She is just trying to protect herself. You are a STRANGER. She knows nothing about you. Everything she is asking for is to try and determine if you are law enforcement, someone with a criminal record, or abusive history.
This extensive screening will always occur for you when you do not have updated identifiable information. Hope this helps.

Update!!!!......

I sent her a picture of my vet card.

Was supposed to seen her today but she never got back to me...after all of that.

I look at her schedule....it appears she didn't even come through my city as previously planned.

2 hours of work and $$$$ left on the table.

A Lotta of these females need to handle their business a little better. Ijs

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