Thoughts on this - is the provider taking advantage ?

[tinman]

So I have been seeing this famous (but retired) pornstar provider whom many would consider her to be legendary or downright stunning ( even today). I first...

So I have been seeing this famous (but retired) pornstar provider whom many would consider her to be legendary or downright stunning ( even today). I first met her through an agency but have gone direct since 2024. I have been seeing her consistently almost once al month and each time for 2 hours. About a year ago she even opened up to let me creampie for extra 1000 which I am told she does not open up the menu to others unless she likes you a lot. The sex has been phenomenal but here is an issue that has been bugging me - she tries to spend more time talking than having sex. For instance - she wants to talk for over 45 min to an hour before she is “ready” to provide as I need to get her in the mood and relaxed enough ( bullshit). For the most part in 2024 when I had to pull out and shoot on her body she always tried to get me off with her mouth or another round until I am drained ( sometimes I came 3 times in 90 min).

However since July of last year I have noticed that she wants to spend more time chatting and drink than getting into the session and during sex I felt like she just want things to be over with. As soon as I finished the first round she would make an excuse and get into the shower and get all dressed up ready to leave when there is still time left. Honestly I was still horny and can use another BBJCIM but she would give me this look that we are done and time is up….

You would have expected that being a regular of hers and putting in 6000 to 7000 each time would have earned me a better treatment but her service quality seems to be on the decline ever since she opened up the creampie menu. She is a great gal and I like her a lot as a person but I am starting to feel like she is trying to take advantage of my good nature and personality by trying to earn the money just for being there to talk instead of fucking. At one point in our 2025 sessions when I tried to make a move after talking for 50 min she yelled at me and said keep it in your pants and I am not ready ( literally pushed me back) and we ended up having 30 min sex out of 2 hours …

She used to be a fantasy of mine and being able to finally see her has been a dream come true and I can honestly say that we have really grown to like each other a lot as we chat all the time over text over random things when we are not seeing each other.
Yet in my last session with her last week she exhibited a similar behavior almost illustrating to a point with me that she does not want to do this anymore as the pornstar fuck my brains out vibe she used to provide is no longer there and if this is a job for her she wants to be done with it asap.

I am really thinking about not seeing her anymore but wondering what the best way to end this. I have made a few excuses not to see her when she is in town ( so I get to use the budget for other ladies). As @Sexaddict wrote in one of his recent posts - enough is enough with some bullshit and I believe this is one of those bullshit she has been pulling. If she does not want to work and just want to talk I am not spending 2500-3000 an hour to talk with her.

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[lvg99]

I think you already know the answer. She is putting in minimal effort just to get the money. No reason to continue seeing her.

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[zm7000]

I think she is taking advantage of your consistency. You are dropping a serious bag everytime and she knows you will keep coming back. You aren’t getting a special repeat client discount, still paying the full rate for a declining experience. Only thing you’ve unlocked is the right to pay a 1k upcharge for a creampie.

In my opinion it’s time to cut ties. I wouldn’t casually text anymore, that’s just going to make it harder for you. If she is giving you the full court press to book again then I’d speak up and say it’s been fun but that is not something you are into anymore.

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[Sexaddict]

Don´t see her anymore. That's bottom line - block her now.

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[oc.businessman.33]

The first rule of recovery is acceptance.

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[tinman]

Thanks all. I think I know the answer but good to hear from others.

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[Peter North’s Disciple]

So I have been seeing this famous (but retired) pornstar provider whom many would consider her to be legendary or downright stunning ( even today). I first met her through an agency but have gone direct since 2024. I have been seeing her consistently almost once al month and each time for 2 hours. About a year ago she even opened up to let me creampie for extra 1000 which I am told she does not open up the menu to others unless she likes you a lot. The sex has been phenomenal but here is an issue that has been bugging me - she tries to spend more time talking than having sex. For instance - she wants to talk for over 45 min to an hour before she is “ready” to provide as I need to get her in the mood and relaxed enough ( bullshit). For the most part in 2024 when I had to pull out and shoot on her body she always tried to get me off with her mouth or another round until I am drained ( sometimes I came 3 times in 90 min).

However since July of last year I have noticed that she wants to spend more time chatting and drink than getting into the session and during sex I felt like she just want things to be over with. As soon as I finished the first round she would make an excuse and get into the shower and get all dressed up ready to leave when there is still time left. Honestly I was still horny and can use another BBJCIM but she would give me this look that we are done and time is up….

You would have expected that being a regular of hers and putting in 6000 to 7000 each time would have earned me a better treatment but her service quality seems to be on the decline ever since she opened up the creampie menu. She is a great gal and I like her a lot as a person but I am starting to feel like she is trying to take advantage of my good nature and personality by trying to earn the money just for being there to talk instead of fucking. At one point in our 2025 sessions when I tried to make a move after talking for 50 min she yelled at me and said keep it in your pants and I am not ready ( literally pushed me back) and we ended up having 30 min sex out of 2 hours …

She used to be a fantasy of mine and being able to finally see her has been a dream come true and I can honestly say that we have really grown to like each other a lot as we chat all the time over text over random things when we are not seeing each other.
Yet in my last session with her last week she exhibited a similar behavior almost illustrating to a point with me that she does not want to do this anymore as the pornstar fuck my brains out vibe she used to provide is no longer there and if this is a job for her she wants to be done with it asap.

I am really thinking about not seeing her anymore but wondering what the best way to end this. I have made a few excuses not to see her when she is in town ( so I get to use the budget for other ladies). As @Sexaddict wrote in one of his recent posts - enough is enough with some bullshit and I believe this is one of those bullshit she has been pulling. If she does not want to work and just want to talk I am not spending 2500-3000 an hour to talk with her.

Just think about what you said there: 6-7k each time. I do pretty well in my job but at 3k an hour, you have my full attention and I’m pretty much doing whatever you want the entire time.

I’d drop her. Stop responding to her altogether. Put her in her place. You’ve been more than generous. Maybe she’ll come to realize that she was being an idiot and apologize for how she behaved and you can get back to how things were. Or maybe you just move on and find something better and perhaps cheaper. But either way, the current situation isn’t working out and you know it. At this point she’s just riding the gravy train.

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[Peter North’s Disciple]

Don´t see her anymore. That's bottom line - block her now.

I don’t think block her. Just ghost her for now. Stop responding. She might realize she was being stupid and apologize and make up for it. Window of opportunity is still there. But don’t fold and go back to her without her first realizing the error of her ways.

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[shion]

So I have been seeing this famous (but retired) pornstar provider whom many would consider her to be legendary or downright stunning ( even today). I first met her through an agency but have gone direct since 2024. I have been seeing her consistently almost once al month and each time for 2 hours. About a year ago she even opened up to let me creampie for extra 1000 which I am told she does not open up the menu to others unless she likes you a lot. The sex has been phenomenal but here is an issue that has been bugging me - she tries to spend more time talking than having sex. For instance - she wants to talk for over 45 min to an hour before she is “ready” to provide as I need to get her in the mood and relaxed enough ( bullshit). For the most part in 2024 when I had to pull out and shoot on her body she always tried to get me off with her mouth or another round until I am drained ( sometimes I came 3 times in 90 min).

However since July of last year I have noticed that she wants to spend more time chatting and drink than getting into the session and during sex I felt like she just want things to be over with. As soon as I finished the first round she would make an excuse and get into the shower and get all dressed up ready to leave when there is still time left. Honestly I was still horny and can use another BBJCIM but she would give me this look that we are done and time is up….

You would have expected that being a regular of hers and putting in 6000 to 7000 each time would have earned me a better treatment but her service quality seems to be on the decline ever since she opened up the creampie menu. She is a great gal and I like her a lot as a person but I am starting to feel like she is trying to take advantage of my good nature and personality by trying to earn the money just for being there to talk instead of fucking. At one point in our 2025 sessions when I tried to make a move after talking for 50 min she yelled at me and said keep it in your pants and I am not ready ( literally pushed me back) and we ended up having 30 min sex out of 2 hours …

She used to be a fantasy of mine and being able to finally see her has been a dream come true and I can honestly say that we have really grown to like each other a lot as we chat all the time over text over random things when we are not seeing each other.
Yet in my last session with her last week she exhibited a similar behavior almost illustrating to a point with me that she does not want to do this anymore as the pornstar fuck my brains out vibe she used to provide is no longer there and if this is a job for her she wants to be done with it asap.

I am really thinking about not seeing her anymore but wondering what the best way to end this. I have made a few excuses not to see her when she is in town ( so I get to use the budget for other ladies). As @Sexaddict wrote in one of his recent posts - enough is enough with some bullshit and I believe this is one of those bullshit she has been pulling. If she does not want to work and just want to talk I am not spending 2500-3000 an hour to talk with her.

Bravo!!!!!

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[tinman]

Just think about what you said there: 6-7k each time. I do pretty well in my job but at 3k an hour, you have my full attention and I’m pretty much doing whatever you want the entire time.

I’d drop her. Stop responding to her altogether. Put her in her place. You’ve been more than generous. Maybe she’ll come to realize that she was being an idiot and apologize for how she behaved and you can get back to how things were. Or maybe you just move on and find something better and perhaps cheaper. But either way, the current situation isn’t working out and you know it. At this point she’s just riding the gravy train.

I think I will drop her from being my regular - it had come to a point she does not even arouse me anymore and she had let herself go as far as keeping up her physique or appearance ( gaining weight). After being able to creampie her I don’t even watch her porn anymore.

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[Nahdude]

i feel like other guys here have mentioned the theory of the ATF decline. She probably think she has you hooked, the money is why she thinks that. Once a month for 6K? So you are paying her 70k a year? You should be treated like a king. Still this why i dont like the direct number thing sometimes cause the games can begin.

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[BenDover69420]

Always trust your gut instincts bro. 90% of the time they won’t fail you. She knows she has you wrapped around her finger and is basically dangling you by your penis because you’re a consistent client and you’re going to keep paying her. Also the fact that she’s basically skimping time out of you when you paid for an hour basically confirms that she views you as pathetic. The creampie ain’t worth it man. Drop dat hoe like a bad habit!

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[Lewinmsu]

Is she actually retired now? Is there a risk that you are her meal ticket? She may try to blackmail you. She likely thinks she is entitled to the money just to talk to you.

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[tinman]

Is she actually retired now? Is there a risk that you are her meal ticket? She may try to blackmail you. She likely thinks she is entitled to the money just to talk to you.

LOL yes she is retired.

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[Vanperb]

She used to be a fantasy of mine and being able to finally see her has been a dream come true and I can honestly say that we have really grown to like each other a lot as we chat all the time over text over random things when we are not seeing each other.

Never meet your heroes... or your fantasies apparently.

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[Tywin22]

Fact she hasn't lowered her rates or stopped clock-watching after all this time should tell you everything you need to know.

As others have said she's taking advantage of your kindness and deep pockets, you're giving her well-above market rates for subpar service. If she wanted to talk so much she should have been texting off the clock ie daily or on days where you don't see each other, much less for half the booked time.

Don't sweat it too much, even regular providers are guilty of this behaviour, and don't compromise when you can see things aren't adding up. It's important to get what you pay for, your time is just as valuable as theirs.

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[TaylorVixxen]

So I have been seeing this famous (but retired) pornstar provider whom many would consider her to be legendary or downright stunning ( even today). I first met her through an agency but have gone direct since 2024. I have been seeing her consistently almost once al month and each time for 2 hours. About a year ago she even opened up to let me creampie for extra 1000 which I am told she does not open up the menu to others unless she likes you a lot. The sex has been phenomenal but here is an issue that has been bugging me - she tries to spend more time talking than having sex. For instance - she wants to talk for over 45 min to an hour before she is “ready” to provide as I need to get her in the mood and relaxed enough ( bullshit). For the most part in 2024 when I had to pull out and shoot on her body she always tried to get me off with her mouth or another round until I am drained ( sometimes I came 3 times in 90 min).

However since July of last year I have noticed that she wants to spend more time chatting and drink than getting into the session and during sex I felt like she just want things to be over with. As soon as I finished the first round she would make an excuse and get into the shower and get all dressed up ready to leave when there is still time left. Honestly I was still horny and can use another BBJCIM but she would give me this look that we are done and time is up….

You would have expected that being a regular of hers and putting in 6000 to 7000 each time would have earned me a better treatment but her service quality seems to be on the decline ever since she opened up the creampie menu. She is a great gal and I like her a lot as a person but I am starting to feel like she is trying to take advantage of my good nature and personality by trying to earn the money just for being there to talk instead of fucking. At one point in our 2025 sessions when I tried to make a move after talking for 50 min she yelled at me and said keep it in your pants and I am not ready ( literally pushed me back) and we ended up having 30 min sex out of 2 hours …

She used to be a fantasy of mine and being able to finally see her has been a dream come true and I can honestly say that we have really grown to like each other a lot as we chat all the time over text over random things when we are not seeing each other.
Yet in my last session with her last week she exhibited a similar behavior almost illustrating to a point with me that she does not want to do this anymore as the pornstar fuck my brains out vibe she used to provide is no longer there and if this is a job for her she wants to be done with it asap.

I am really thinking about not seeing her anymore but wondering what the best way to end this. I have made a few excuses not to see her when she is in town ( so I get to use the budget for other ladies). As @Sexaddict wrote in one of his recent posts - enough is enough with some bullshit and I believe this is one of those bullshit she has been pulling. If she does not want to work and just want to talk I am not spending 2500-3000 an hour to talk with her.

OMG! That is called being entitled! I know a lot of PS, myself included, that would love to have someone like you who is a regular once a month for 2 hrs! In my opinion it gets better and better when you have someone that becomes a regular, not worse! In my experience, once I have been with someone at least twice thats when it starts to become really fun! Both of us our more relaxed and we definitely start to get in sync! She sounds entitled. Pretty soon she will just be trying to jack you off while she answers emails on her phone! Time to move on!

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