There really is fierce "competition" when it comes to finding and keeping ATFs.
Sure, there are plenty of gentlemen who visit a provider two or three times and move on a new woman, but the real competition comes from the guys who keep returning, again and again - trying to “win her over” and become one of her so-called “VIP” clients.
When you finally find a provider that you truly connect with and she enjoys seeing you just as much - that’s damn rare. These women don’t come along often. Because believe me, for every provider, there are easily 10+ admirers all quietly competing for her time, her attention, and, in some cases, her affection.
I’ve heard stories in the past of providers cutting down their "VIP" or "Favorite client" list simply because there’s an endless stream of guys trying to become that guy - the one who gets priority, the one who can book last minute, or the one who gets a slightly different and more affectionate treatment.
It’s a subtle, unspoken rivalry between gentlemen who will never meet - but they all have that one provider in common, the love for her.
That’s why it’s oh so important to hold on to an ATF when you find that one. Don’t take her for granted. I made that mistake - dropped all my former ATFs, thinking I could always find new ones. Huge mistake.
Also, when looking for an ATF, I´d recommend these tips that I gave (after 11 years in the hobby, what I´ve learned along the way).
Sure, there are plenty of gentlemen who visit a provider two or three times and move on a new woman, but the real competition comes from the guys who keep returning, again and again - trying to “win her over” and become one of her so-called “VIP” clients.
When you finally find a provider that you truly connect with and she enjoys seeing you just as much - that’s damn rare. These women don’t come along often. Because believe me, for every provider, there are easily 10+ admirers all quietly competing for her time, her attention, and, in some cases, her affection.
I’ve heard stories in the past of providers cutting down their "VIP" or "Favorite client" list simply because there’s an endless stream of guys trying to become that guy - the one who gets priority, the one who can book last minute, or the one who gets a slightly different and more affectionate treatment.
It’s a subtle, unspoken rivalry between gentlemen who will never meet - but they all have that one provider in common, the love for her.
That’s why it’s oh so important to hold on to an ATF when you find that one. Don’t take her for granted. I made that mistake - dropped all my former ATFs, thinking I could always find new ones. Huge mistake.
Also, when looking for an ATF, I´d recommend these tips that I gave (after 11 years in the hobby, what I´ve learned along the way).
