The dating scene in 2025 is… truly something. I’m talking Tinder, dating apps, and even sugar-style platforms. As I mentioned, I’m looking for an ATF — and honestly, why not look for one through dating instead of the usual provider route? Ideally, someone who enjoys the benefits and reciprocates with connection, chemistry, and the “good stuff.”
Over the last two weeks, I’ve had four different women in my apartment.
I start screening potential ATFs - if you can call it that - by making sure we align on certain values and worldviews. Even when we do, it’s still… interesting. But that’s part of the fun. I’d rather have a woman with personality and substance than someone who offers nothing except presence.
Now, about the four: two Danish, one Honduran, and one Finnish. Out of all of them, I connected most with the woman from Honduras.
The two Danes were just… too vanilla. The energy wasn’t there. They had that fake feminist attitude, mostly projecting resentment toward men. That doesn’t work for me.
And honestly, Danish women (outside of professional providers) tend to be pretty basic sexually. I’m Danish myself, so I say that from experience - not judgment.
The Finnish woman had a great body, but there wasn’t much engagement. The chemistry didn’t evolve, and the conversation was vague.
South American women, though?
Beautiful on the outside and often just as beautiful on the inside. The mindset, the warmth, the alignment on the things that matter - it hits differently.
So let’s see how things go with the last one. There’s potential there.
I do still have the Brazilian woman - the number of her as I mentioned earlier.
Over the last two weeks, I’ve had four different women in my apartment.
I start screening potential ATFs - if you can call it that - by making sure we align on certain values and worldviews. Even when we do, it’s still… interesting. But that’s part of the fun. I’d rather have a woman with personality and substance than someone who offers nothing except presence.
Now, about the four: two Danish, one Honduran, and one Finnish. Out of all of them, I connected most with the woman from Honduras.
The two Danes were just… too vanilla. The energy wasn’t there. They had that fake feminist attitude, mostly projecting resentment toward men. That doesn’t work for me.
And honestly, Danish women (outside of professional providers) tend to be pretty basic sexually. I’m Danish myself, so I say that from experience - not judgment.
The Finnish woman had a great body, but there wasn’t much engagement. The chemistry didn’t evolve, and the conversation was vague.
South American women, though?
Beautiful on the outside and often just as beautiful on the inside. The mindset, the warmth, the alignment on the things that matter - it hits differently.
So let’s see how things go with the last one. There’s potential there.
I do still have the Brazilian woman - the number of her as I mentioned earlier.
