Some ‘Regular’ Providers Make It Easy to See the Red Flags Early..

[Sexaddict]

I’ve already written before about major red flags to look out for...

I’ve already written before about major red flags to look out for when choosing who to see, and another post about what to pay attention to when picking your next ATF - the one that could turn into something more.

Now, here’s a little real-world example that really drives the point home.

A local buddy of mine - a fellow hobbyist too, has seen the same provider three times over the past two weeks.
All of the sessions were one-hour sessions. They barely know each other.
During the third visit, they exchanged phone numbers because, as he put it, "it could lead to more."
I told him to be cautious.

And what do you know - today he gets a message from her, asking for money outside of a session.

Of course, he’s not giving her a single cent, and he’s not even sure she’ll be back in town anyway.

The takeaway?

When a provider you’ve only just started seeing begins asking for cash, “help,” or “favors” outside of bookings - that’s your cue to walk away instantly. Block and move on.

Some so-called regulars make it really easy to spot the red flags early .

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[tinman]

I learnt that the hard way with a PS ..

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[jakedragon]

it coud lead to more was my biggest mistake and lesson learned

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[DRAVES]

I’ve already written before about major red flags to look out for when choosing who to see, and another post about what to pay attention to when picking your next ATF - the one that could turn into something more.

Now, here’s a little real-world example that really drives the point home.

A local buddy of mine - a fellow hobbyist too, has seen the same provider three times over the past two weeks.
All of the sessions were one-hour sessions. They barely know each other.
During the third visit, they exchanged phone numbers because, as he put it, "it could lead to more."
I told him to be cautious.

And what do you know - today he gets a message from her, asking for money outside of a session.

Of course, he’s not giving her a single cent, and he’s not even sure she’ll be back in town anyway.

The takeaway?

When a provider you’ve only just started seeing begins asking for cash, “help,” or “favors” outside of bookings - that’s your cue to walk away instantly. Block and move on.

Some so-called regulars make it really easy to spot the red flags early .

Absolutely agree. When a provider asked me for an advance, not nearly this much, for some headphones I agreed. But then when she said she didn't feel comfortable meeting in my place any longer, after she lied about not being able to find parking, I blocked immediately and moved on. Once the favors start, it's hard to make it stop.

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[shion]

Absolutely agree. When a provider asked me for an advance, not nearly this much, for some headphones I agreed. But then when she said she didn't feel comfortable meeting in my place any longer, after she lied about not being able to find parking, I blocked immediately and moved on. Once the favors start, it's hard to make it stop.

Not comfortable meeting at your place but comfortable enough to ask you for money.

That's not a Provider tactic......that's a common chick tactic to begin with.

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