It’s 2025, about to roll into 2026, and sex workers having counselors doesn’t sound strange to me at all. I didn’t know what to make of this at first, but the more I looked into it, the more I saw a sex worker who’s found her passion in helping others like herself. This doesn’t directly help us as clients, but with how sex workers are treated in this industry, having someone to lean on can make a difference. We do the same thing here, just in our own way so expecting that from our providers only makes sense.
Queens of the Underworld was founded by Romina Jordan, a former sex worker. She was a stripper who went through what strippers go through, noticing that a lot of what she was dealing with, her coworkers were too. Whether we know it or not, many of these women are dealing with their own demons in their own ways. You have 304s out here seeing client after client, falling deeper into depression or the pressure that comes with the work, while we as clients either don’t see it or choose not to. I’m not specifically calling out 304s, since this can happen to high-end providers just as much as NSFW content creators. Some find their outlet, while others just sit with it which can do more harm than good. Jordan seems to give those people the outlet they need in a number of different ways.
Queens of the Underworld: Sex Workers Meditate Too, written by Shawna Kenney, talks about what Jordan specializes in teaching sex workers how to deal with the stress of the job through meditation. With the kind of work Jordan does, she’s trying to offer outreach to others dealing with what she once had to face alone. Even though Jordan isn’t a professional psychologist or counselor, that actually helps keep her down to earth with the people she’s trying to reach. In the article, Jordan is quoted saying, “Once I started realizing that I’m more than just a sex object or something to jack off over and started getting courage, my life started changing.” That’s something not many providers or sex workers have realized yet, but it’s slowly becoming more apparent through guidance from people like Jordan.
With classes and peer support being what little Jordan can offer, she’s still doing her best to reach as many sex workers as she can. She teaches not only coping techniques to survive the mental toll of sex work, but also physical safety practices. With her background in sex trafficking prevention, she also goes through safety techniques and exit plans for less-than-ideal situations. With all the attacks that have happened to providers this year alone, it’s become clear that teachings like these are needed.
What Jordan is doing with Queens of the Underworld might seem small in the grand scheme, but it’s the kind of change that starts from the inside. She’s not trying to reinvent sex work she’s trying to make it safer, healthier, and more sustainable for the people in it. The reality is, the same way we as clients rely on each other for insight and understanding, sex workers need that same sense of community and care. What Jordan offers isn’t therapy in the traditional sense it’s empathy, experience, and a reminder that even in an industry built on fantasy, real support still matters.
Queens of the Underworld
Queens of the Underworld was founded by Romina Jordan, a former sex worker. She was a stripper who went through what strippers go through, noticing that a lot of what she was dealing with, her coworkers were too. Whether we know it or not, many of these women are dealing with their own demons in their own ways. You have 304s out here seeing client after client, falling deeper into depression or the pressure that comes with the work, while we as clients either don’t see it or choose not to. I’m not specifically calling out 304s, since this can happen to high-end providers just as much as NSFW content creators. Some find their outlet, while others just sit with it which can do more harm than good. Jordan seems to give those people the outlet they need in a number of different ways.Queens of the Underworld: Sex Workers Meditate Too, written by Shawna Kenney, talks about what Jordan specializes in teaching sex workers how to deal with the stress of the job through meditation. With the kind of work Jordan does, she’s trying to offer outreach to others dealing with what she once had to face alone. Even though Jordan isn’t a professional psychologist or counselor, that actually helps keep her down to earth with the people she’s trying to reach. In the article, Jordan is quoted saying, “Once I started realizing that I’m more than just a sex object or something to jack off over and started getting courage, my life started changing.” That’s something not many providers or sex workers have realized yet, but it’s slowly becoming more apparent through guidance from people like Jordan.
With classes and peer support being what little Jordan can offer, she’s still doing her best to reach as many sex workers as she can. She teaches not only coping techniques to survive the mental toll of sex work, but also physical safety practices. With her background in sex trafficking prevention, she also goes through safety techniques and exit plans for less-than-ideal situations. With all the attacks that have happened to providers this year alone, it’s become clear that teachings like these are needed.
What Jordan is doing with Queens of the Underworld might seem small in the grand scheme, but it’s the kind of change that starts from the inside. She’s not trying to reinvent sex work she’s trying to make it safer, healthier, and more sustainable for the people in it. The reality is, the same way we as clients rely on each other for insight and understanding, sex workers need that same sense of community and care. What Jordan offers isn’t therapy in the traditional sense it’s empathy, experience, and a reminder that even in an industry built on fantasy, real support still matters.
Queens of the Underworld
