You know you can choose to not participate in these activities, in which case you don't need to worry about any provider blacklisting you at all. And I totally agree no one should put up with that type of behavior and rudeness, but if you try to use the self-respect card and fight back against it...you're going to potentially be fighting against a tidal wave at this point.
You do know that it's not just groupchats either right? Richelle Ryan in particular is very notorious for exposing clients (full name uncensored at times) for the entire world to see. I am also in 3 providers' close friends IG stories, and they never bother to censor anyone's name at all.
Like I said previously, if you go to a restaurant and repeatedly get bad service, then you can choose to leave and never go again. Like this hobby, you can choose to invest your money into the stock market, real estate, whatever asset that will accumulate you wealth over time, over this. I promise you nobody here is stopping you from doing this.
No, you'll never lose the self respect card in any battle. I've done a few " 1 and Dones" with Providers because the service was mechanical, too many restrictions or lack of PH.
I honestly don't belive Providers expect a lot of repeat business from the same guy especially if he's out of town but that's just me.
Another thing , there are a Lotta reason why guys get into the hobby, one is because they can get love n affection without putting with the vanilla women who have attitudes like Ryan's. We've see guys put up with shit from women just to fuck.We put up with their attitudes , mood swings, etc...just to get some later on. This is why a Lotta guys become hobbyists....to get away from women with Ryan's attitude.
There's no valid reason to enable that type of attitude in the hobby. We're paying for ass, not attitude.
As I said , you shouldn't put up with the disrespect from a rude Provider.
Hold the same standards with a Rude Provider, just like you would with aa restaurant with bad service, go found a better one.
If Ryan is notorious for this type of behavior, why are would anyone continue to date her....just for some contacts????
Are you guys being blackmail by her? If you stop $eeing her, she will exposed you??
Don't you understand, you're enabling her behavior to treat you like that?
Vote with your wallet....is she treats you like

....No more dates!!!!
There are plenty of other Providers with contacts other than Ryan.
Don't get on here and complain about a Provider’s rude behavior but continue to condone it, everytime you choose to see them.