I’ve come across “menus” like this a few times, and I have to say there’s nothing more off-putting a provider could do. This is me being honest—just speaking my truth. From the perspective of the average client, this type of presentation doesn’t make them eager to book a provider.
No shade to the provider in question. I’m sure she’s a nice person and has found clients willing to pay for everything on her list. More power to her. But I genuinely struggle to understand the thought process behind providers who structure their services this way and think it’s acceptable—almost as if it’s the client’s responsibility to handle their personal expenses.
I get that there are different arrangements in the hobby. Whether you call it a sugar baby (SB) dynamic or a personal agreement between two people, that’s its own thing. But this kind of setup just seems strange to me.
I’ve touched on this topic before—financial domination as a kink. It’s a real thing, with some women dominating clients financially as they pay for everything from bills to extras. But I honestly don’t understand the appeal for the clients involved. What satisfaction are they getting out of this kink? I feel like I’m completely missing the mark here. And you know what? I’m okay with that. Because while this might make some people incredibly turned on, it doesn’t move me an inch.
Just my two cents; respectfully of course.
