Talking with Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions) was one of the best conversations I've...
Talking with Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions) was one of the best conversations I've had. She was so shy and free in our interview that I was surprise as how much we got through. Even though Phoebe is fresh in providing, she's been in the industry long enough to enjoy herself and find out more about what makes her sexually tick. The interview paints a picture of all that. Enjoy,Pervs!
What can you tell us about Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions)?
Oh, okay. Well, I grew up in the Bay Area, San Francisco. Camming was my first job, and that was when I went to college in downtown SF. I went to the Fashion Institute. I went there for a year, and I dropped out and moved to LA so that I could start my life and, you know, experience things I had never experienced before, being an eighteen-year-old.
Was being an adult performer something you always wanted to do?
It was always something that even some of my friends wouldn't believe if I told them I do porn. I was very open with sexuality when I was in high school. I never actually thought I was gonna do porn. I always joked that I would want one partner that I would wanna film with, and that's it but turns out I'm her and I'm doing it. I think it's been about five years or so.
So what exactly attracted you to becoming an adult performer?
The freedom. That's the number one. Being financially free. Before porn, I had only fucked two or three people, and I was really excited to, you know, become a slut and experiment and try new things out.
King: Okay.
Phoebe: That was a big part of it too. Not having much experience and just wanting to have fun.
To have that freedom you’d think making content for Onlyfans would be easier than shooting professionally. So, why shoot professional scenes then making your own content?
I think for me, I need a balance because I definitely don't like people telling me what to do. At the same time, I need the stimulation of going to a set.
King: Oh, okay. So you need that validation of, "I'm getting money this way," instead of the uncertainty of OnlyFans where you might get money one month but not the next.
Phoebe: Yeah. And having different varieties of things to do, different ways of making money. It is fun to do different things. I did OnlyFans for a little bit, and I was so fucking bored. Going on set is an experience. It's different every time, and it can be so fun to socialize with your coworkers, create that chemistry, or build on that chemistry, and have fun.
King: Okay. You sound like you really enjoy what you do.
Phoebe: Yeah, I enjoy it.
So, prior, you went by a different name, Elle Voneva. Why the rebrand? What's the difference between Phoebe and Elle?
I think I was just going through a huge shift in my life where I felt like I was becoming a whole different person. When I said my name out loud, it just didn't feel right. It felt weird and foreign and not me. I knew I wanted to change it to something that felt more like me. I've always liked the name Phoebe, and I love Phoebe from Friends.
King: I thought so.
Phoebe: Yeah. And when my name was Elle Voneva, I was kind of embarrassed by my last name because I just made it up on the spot during a call with my agent. I said so many things, and we just settled on that. But later, I realized it felt weird. I do really like my new name, Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions). It feels more right.
King: No, it definitely does work. It's very unique.
Phoebe: Thank you. I wanted to go with a unique route.
King: Makes sense. A lot of people in this profession have similar names, and it can get confusing. So, you are extremely versatile in your scenes.
You've done BG, GG, threesomes, and a lot more. Since you mentioned you had only been with a few people before starting in the industry, would you say you were holding back before? Have you always been this sexually adventurous?
Well, when I was younger, I was very quiet and extremely shy in high school. I found most of my fuck buddies were with people I met on Tinder, none of whom went to my school. I started using Tinder when I was about sixteen or seventeen. I was busy with college prep and other activities, so I wasn't focusing much on my sexual side, even though I was very hormonal.
King: Okay. So it was like you were holding back. You couldn't really be yourself at that time, so you just waited a little longer.
Phoebe: Yeah, I don't think people from my school would think I'm a slut, but I kind of was.
Are you all natural?
No, I got my boobs done.
King: I thought so. They look pretty natural, which is a good thing.
Phoebe: Thank you. That's what I was going for. I didn't go too big because of that. I also have less scarring.
Did you decide to get the enhancements before or after you joined the industry?
It was in the middle. I joined the industry when I was eighteen, and then COVID hit. I took a three-year hiatus, and that's when I got my boob job.
What's something you can't wait to do on camera?
I think I can't wait to do a reverse. Fuck, I forgot what it's called. A reverse gangbang? Is that what it's called when it's just me and a bunch of guys that I get to fuck and have all to myself?
King: No, that's just a regular gangbang, actually. Haha!
Phoebe: I can't wait to do a regular gangbang. Haha!
King: I figured that's one of the only things you haven't done.
Phoebe: Yeah, it's weird. I've done orgies, but not a gangbang.
Who came first: the provider or the pornstar?
The porn star. I recently started providing maybe about three months in. Maybe a bit more.
King: Wow. You're fresh.
Phoebe: Yeah, I'm fresh. I finally know what I'm doing now.
That adds more questions. With you being as shy as you were, what made you decide to start providing?
How do I say it? Well, I was always afraid of the safety aspect. But one of my close friends started a little earlier than I did, and she inspired me. I want to retire soon, as young as I can. I want to make a lot of money, and it's a new experience. New experiences teach you things.
King: The money is good….
Phoebe: Yeah, the money is good. And the fun too. I'm really grateful for the clients I've met. A lot of them are really lovely, which was unexpected, so I'm grateful.
Would you say you enjoy shooting scenes more or being a provider more?
I have to say being a provider, honestly. I feel more appreciated by my clients. They make me feel lovely and cared for.
King: Right.
Phoebe: They're like the best boyfriends I've ever had. Haha!
What's your favorite sex position?
My favorite is like doggy, but lying down. I forgot the name of it, but it's from the back.
King: I know exactly what you’re talking about because almost every porn star I've interviewed has said the same thing.
Phoebe: It's either that or missionary with the right dick. If it curves up, then it's missionary. But if it's straight or curves down, it's more that kind of doggy.
King: So, your favorite position depends on the dick.
Phoebe: Yeah.
What's something you enjoy doing outside of your one-hour sessions? If a client wanted to take you out, where would be a great place to take you?
I do love fine dining, a beautiful restaurant where I can dress up, but interactive dates are my favorite. I love going for golf. Even the arcade is pretty fun too. It really breaks the ice, and it's easy to create more chemistry. Even, like, I've always wanted to do dance classes as a date.
King: So simple, basically. Something simple that you can do together.
Phoebe: Yeah, I like interactive things.
Would you say you are a size queen?
You know, I thought I was, but I've been fucking more smaller dicks. And now, at least at this time of my life, I prefer that. Because it can be a lot when you're fucking a lot of big dicks, and you get vaginal cuts, which is not fun. So, I really appreciate the average size six right now, but I think I go through phases.
King: Okay.
Phoebe: Sometimes I want a really big one, but I know I have to prepare for that.
How do you make a client comfortable in one of your sessions?
I try to keep a calming personality, especially if we just met and we're in a hotel room. A lot of times, I get clients who I am their first escort. I try to make them feel very comfortable with my presence, my calming presence. I love physical touch and breaking the ice with, you know, just touching their arm softly and gazing into their eyes. And then maybe giving them a small kiss on the cheek. I also love creating the mood with music.
What gets Phoebe excited? What gets her wet?
I love it when my partner really cares about my pleasure. That's the ultimate thing for me. When they make sure to kiss my body first and then go down on me. I really appreciate it when they go down on me for a really long time. It's hard for me to come from receiving orally, but I've had some amazing orgasms with some of my clients that I've never experienced before.
King: That says a lot coming from a porn star.
Phoebe: Yeah. On camera, you can get kind of nervous, and it's more so for the look of it. You also make it look good, and you're not really focusing on your pleasure. But when you're one-on-one, your guard goes down. And I'm focusing more on my space to experience the pleasure. I feel good to do that.
King: It sounds like you're a very sensual type of lover.
Phoebe: Yeah, I am. But I can go both ways. I like being fucked hard too.
What's a turn-off in a client to you?
Bad hygiene is number one. Luckily, I've never experienced someone with bad breath or really bad hygiene, but that's always been a big turnoff. And an inflated ego.
King: I've heard some stories of some guys being a lot. That's what they were doing.
Phoebe: Yeah. Luckily, I haven't met a lot of those people, but yeah. Inflated ego and bad hygiene.
What's something that you yourself enjoy doing with a client, whether it's role play or fetish or something like that?
Honestly, I mean, at least at this time in my providing career, since I've only been here for, like, three months, I would say I just love the pillow talk and cuddling, talking about whatever comes to mind, and getting to know each other, creating a chemistry. That's always been my favorite in relationships too. I just love to talk.
King: It may be only three months, but you're talking like you've been in for a full year or more.
Phoebe: Thank you.
So you said you're trying to retire early. Does that mean you're going to retire from being a porn star and a provider, or just being a porn star?
I mean, from everything. My goal is to not work. I know it's not anytime soon. And it's not something that my fans have to be worried about because it's definitely not anytime soon.
King: Alright. Because I know some people would very much be freaking out if they heard that right now. I know a couple that would have been freaking out for sure.
What would you say is the best way to reach you if a client is interested in booking?
The best way to reach me is through my website or social media. I have all my booking information listed there.
X: @PhoebeKalib
IG: @PhoebeKalib
What can you tell us about Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions)?Oh, okay. Well, I grew up in the Bay Area, San Francisco. Camming was my first job, and that was when I went to college in downtown SF. I went to the Fashion Institute. I went there for a year, and I dropped out and moved to LA so that I could start my life and, you know, experience things I had never experienced before, being an eighteen-year-old.
Was being an adult performer something you always wanted to do?
It was always something that even some of my friends wouldn't believe if I told them I do porn. I was very open with sexuality when I was in high school. I never actually thought I was gonna do porn. I always joked that I would want one partner that I would wanna film with, and that's it but turns out I'm her and I'm doing it. I think it's been about five years or so.
So what exactly attracted you to becoming an adult performer?
The freedom. That's the number one. Being financially free. Before porn, I had only fucked two or three people, and I was really excited to, you know, become a slut and experiment and try new things out.
King: Okay.
Phoebe: That was a big part of it too. Not having much experience and just wanting to have fun.
To have that freedom you’d think making content for Onlyfans would be easier than shooting professionally. So, why shoot professional scenes then making your own content?
I think for me, I need a balance because I definitely don't like people telling me what to do. At the same time, I need the stimulation of going to a set.
King: Oh, okay. So you need that validation of, "I'm getting money this way," instead of the uncertainty of OnlyFans where you might get money one month but not the next.
Phoebe: Yeah. And having different varieties of things to do, different ways of making money. It is fun to do different things. I did OnlyFans for a little bit, and I was so fucking bored. Going on set is an experience. It's different every time, and it can be so fun to socialize with your coworkers, create that chemistry, or build on that chemistry, and have fun.
King: Okay. You sound like you really enjoy what you do.
Phoebe: Yeah, I enjoy it.
So, prior, you went by a different name, Elle Voneva. Why the rebrand? What's the difference between Phoebe and Elle?
I think I was just going through a huge shift in my life where I felt like I was becoming a whole different person. When I said my name out loud, it just didn't feel right. It felt weird and foreign and not me. I knew I wanted to change it to something that felt more like me. I've always liked the name Phoebe, and I love Phoebe from Friends.
King: I thought so.
Phoebe: Yeah. And when my name was Elle Voneva, I was kind of embarrassed by my last name because I just made it up on the spot during a call with my agent. I said so many things, and we just settled on that. But later, I realized it felt weird. I do really like my new name, Phoebe Kalib (Porn Companions). It feels more right.
King: No, it definitely does work. It's very unique.
Phoebe: Thank you. I wanted to go with a unique route.
King: Makes sense. A lot of people in this profession have similar names, and it can get confusing. So, you are extremely versatile in your scenes.
You've done BG, GG, threesomes, and a lot more. Since you mentioned you had only been with a few people before starting in the industry, would you say you were holding back before? Have you always been this sexually adventurous?
Well, when I was younger, I was very quiet and extremely shy in high school. I found most of my fuck buddies were with people I met on Tinder, none of whom went to my school. I started using Tinder when I was about sixteen or seventeen. I was busy with college prep and other activities, so I wasn't focusing much on my sexual side, even though I was very hormonal.
King: Okay. So it was like you were holding back. You couldn't really be yourself at that time, so you just waited a little longer.
Phoebe: Yeah, I don't think people from my school would think I'm a slut, but I kind of was.
Are you all natural?
No, I got my boobs done.
King: I thought so. They look pretty natural, which is a good thing.
Phoebe: Thank you. That's what I was going for. I didn't go too big because of that. I also have less scarring.
Did you decide to get the enhancements before or after you joined the industry?
It was in the middle. I joined the industry when I was eighteen, and then COVID hit. I took a three-year hiatus, and that's when I got my boob job.
What's something you can't wait to do on camera?
I think I can't wait to do a reverse. Fuck, I forgot what it's called. A reverse gangbang? Is that what it's called when it's just me and a bunch of guys that I get to fuck and have all to myself?
King: No, that's just a regular gangbang, actually. Haha!
Phoebe: I can't wait to do a regular gangbang. Haha!
King: I figured that's one of the only things you haven't done.
Phoebe: Yeah, it's weird. I've done orgies, but not a gangbang.
Who came first: the provider or the pornstar?
The porn star. I recently started providing maybe about three months in. Maybe a bit more.
King: Wow. You're fresh.
Phoebe: Yeah, I'm fresh. I finally know what I'm doing now.
That adds more questions. With you being as shy as you were, what made you decide to start providing?
How do I say it? Well, I was always afraid of the safety aspect. But one of my close friends started a little earlier than I did, and she inspired me. I want to retire soon, as young as I can. I want to make a lot of money, and it's a new experience. New experiences teach you things.
King: The money is good….
Phoebe: Yeah, the money is good. And the fun too. I'm really grateful for the clients I've met. A lot of them are really lovely, which was unexpected, so I'm grateful.
Would you say you enjoy shooting scenes more or being a provider more?
I have to say being a provider, honestly. I feel more appreciated by my clients. They make me feel lovely and cared for.
King: Right.
Phoebe: They're like the best boyfriends I've ever had. Haha!
What's your favorite sex position?My favorite is like doggy, but lying down. I forgot the name of it, but it's from the back.
King: I know exactly what you’re talking about because almost every porn star I've interviewed has said the same thing.
Phoebe: It's either that or missionary with the right dick. If it curves up, then it's missionary. But if it's straight or curves down, it's more that kind of doggy.
King: So, your favorite position depends on the dick.
Phoebe: Yeah.
What's something you enjoy doing outside of your one-hour sessions? If a client wanted to take you out, where would be a great place to take you?
I do love fine dining, a beautiful restaurant where I can dress up, but interactive dates are my favorite. I love going for golf. Even the arcade is pretty fun too. It really breaks the ice, and it's easy to create more chemistry. Even, like, I've always wanted to do dance classes as a date.
King: So simple, basically. Something simple that you can do together.
Phoebe: Yeah, I like interactive things.
Would you say you are a size queen?
You know, I thought I was, but I've been fucking more smaller dicks. And now, at least at this time of my life, I prefer that. Because it can be a lot when you're fucking a lot of big dicks, and you get vaginal cuts, which is not fun. So, I really appreciate the average size six right now, but I think I go through phases.
King: Okay.
Phoebe: Sometimes I want a really big one, but I know I have to prepare for that.
How do you make a client comfortable in one of your sessions?
I try to keep a calming personality, especially if we just met and we're in a hotel room. A lot of times, I get clients who I am their first escort. I try to make them feel very comfortable with my presence, my calming presence. I love physical touch and breaking the ice with, you know, just touching their arm softly and gazing into their eyes. And then maybe giving them a small kiss on the cheek. I also love creating the mood with music.
What gets Phoebe excited? What gets her wet?
I love it when my partner really cares about my pleasure. That's the ultimate thing for me. When they make sure to kiss my body first and then go down on me. I really appreciate it when they go down on me for a really long time. It's hard for me to come from receiving orally, but I've had some amazing orgasms with some of my clients that I've never experienced before.
King: That says a lot coming from a porn star.
Phoebe: Yeah. On camera, you can get kind of nervous, and it's more so for the look of it. You also make it look good, and you're not really focusing on your pleasure. But when you're one-on-one, your guard goes down. And I'm focusing more on my space to experience the pleasure. I feel good to do that.
King: It sounds like you're a very sensual type of lover.
Phoebe: Yeah, I am. But I can go both ways. I like being fucked hard too.
What's a turn-off in a client to you?
Bad hygiene is number one. Luckily, I've never experienced someone with bad breath or really bad hygiene, but that's always been a big turnoff. And an inflated ego.
King: I've heard some stories of some guys being a lot. That's what they were doing.
Phoebe: Yeah. Luckily, I haven't met a lot of those people, but yeah. Inflated ego and bad hygiene.
What's something that you yourself enjoy doing with a client, whether it's role play or fetish or something like that?
Honestly, I mean, at least at this time in my providing career, since I've only been here for, like, three months, I would say I just love the pillow talk and cuddling, talking about whatever comes to mind, and getting to know each other, creating a chemistry. That's always been my favorite in relationships too. I just love to talk.
King: It may be only three months, but you're talking like you've been in for a full year or more.
Phoebe: Thank you.
So you said you're trying to retire early. Does that mean you're going to retire from being a porn star and a provider, or just being a porn star?
I mean, from everything. My goal is to not work. I know it's not anytime soon. And it's not something that my fans have to be worried about because it's definitely not anytime soon.
King: Alright. Because I know some people would very much be freaking out if they heard that right now. I know a couple that would have been freaking out for sure.
What would you say is the best way to reach you if a client is interested in booking?
The best way to reach me is through my website or social media. I have all my booking information listed there.
X: @PhoebeKalib
IG: @PhoebeKalib
Email: PhoebeSweets@protonmail.com
