How did you get into providing?I actually went over to the bunny ranch, a long time ago. I was asked to come over and do the HBO show, but I just came over to give it a try and see if it would be something that I would like. So I started there where I would just do billboards and event posters and stuff like that. Learning the ropes.
So I noticed Unlike some providers that are at the ranch, you actually tour. Is that different? Being at the ranch and touring that is.
Yeah. I'm mostly just here in Idaho, and so people will come here. I mostly go over to Nevada. I'm an independent contractor, so that means I can contract with different establishments over there. So it's mostly Nevada.
When it comes to your job, is it more than just physical intimacy you're looking for?
Yeah. Definitely. I I like I like my clients. I love it when it's just a normal guy, nice guy, clean, healthy, smells great, and he's just got a nice normal story to tell about himself. I appreciate that.
King: You appreciate the client just being a regular ole’ average Joe type of person.
Olivia: Yeah. And just a really good person. Just a good trustworthy person. I love those guys. Respectful.
Do you see more average joe men more than, you know, the usual fly you out to Hampton's, wine and dine type of client?
I see both and even if they're the type that fly me out, I still want them to be cool and down to earth and nice. But I do get a variety of different types of people. All different types.
At what point did you realize you could make providing a lifelong career?
When I started over at the bunny ranch, the owner gave us accountants. He introduced us to accounts and other business people. So I've had an S corp ever since, you know, way back when, and I have had an accountant and a bookkeeper, I've had assistance. So knowing the amount of money that I've made, and just needing the account and the assistant with the marketing. This is a full-fledged business. We're working providers who are serious, we are running it in all capacities. It's a lot to take on. We have our S corps that we're managing. We've got the marketing piece that we're having to manage. The bookkeeping, the accounting, and we're the entertainers. You know, so some of us have assistance. Though very early on once I S Corp, I understood.
King: Wow. That sounds very cool. The person that runs the ranch actually gave you guys an accountant?
Olivia: Yes. Dennis Hof, when he was alive. He would send one of his accountants to come and talk to all of us. And say, would you like to S Corp? Let me teach you how to corp, because you're gonna need expenses to write off and taught you how to write off those expenses. Dennis kinda helped girls get savier.
Would you say there’s a difference between a provider or elite companion and what you dub yourself as a sex therapist?
I didn't dub myself as a sex therapist. The tabloids did. I was speaking with this journalist and she asked me a question. Here's the deal. Men and couples have a go at myself and other providers as therapists. There’s this client that I see, he likes to say "You're like therapy for me." And that phrase, "You're like therapy for me," has been coined by lots of individuals who've seen providers, because we are. We are. That's what the context of the conversation was, and then they went wild. They dubbed me the "sex therapist."
King: Right.
Olivia: I have a master's in education. I got straight A's, so I actually am capable of teaching. I've been in the sex industry for fifteen years working with everybody from couples to men. So that's why I can position myself as an educator and I can help people in that capacity.
King: Right. Okay. So, when I was reading the many, many interviews with you. A lot of them gave the impression you called yourself a “sex therapist.” I should have known that wasn’t the case.
Olivia: I have been regarded as a sex therapist. Right. Yeah. I mean, that's one way we can go with it. I see everybody, but I do see a lot of couples.
King: That's what that was my next question. After reading some of these articles written about you, they specified married couples come to see you and how things supposedly would work, which made it sound a little far fetched.
If a married couple does come to see you, how does that exactly play out?
They come for a variety of reasons. A lot of them come to celebrate. I was kinda disappointed with how Candice Owens was really close-minded about all that when I was on her Podcast and basically implied that there's something mentally wrong with people that would engage in this kind of activity. A lot of couples contact me for their anniversaries and their birthdays and they wanna celebrate like this. They wanna spice it up and do something fun and for them and they're very level-headed in this form of entertainment. Sometimes when we talk more on the therapy side of things or just helping people, sometimes it's a psychological thing where maybe the gentleman, in one case recently, is having a mental block and it's affecting how they interact in the bedroom. I'll see that on the other side when guys will come see me and they'll be a certain way. And they'll say “I can't let loose, and I can't be like this around my spouse.” We get into things like that. There's a gal recently. She wants me to help her man be more alpha male in the bedroom, and be more aggressive. That’s something I'm gonna work with him on. But, you know, a lot of these couples, they're interested in threesomes and having just a different dynamic in the bedroom.
Would you say that these couples are coming to you more from the men's perspective or the woman's perspective?
Both. Women reach out, sometimes they reach out for interesting things like, "Could you show me how to do anal?" You know, they’ve never been good at it, they wanna learn how to get better. Or, deepthroating. It's been a request that women have reached out to me to see if they can learn.
King: Okay. Okay. That actually sounds very therapeutic, to be honest.
Would you say you're, you're you are fetish friendly?Yes.
King: Is there anything you won't do whatsoever?
Olivia: It has anything to do with kids or animals. For the most part, I do all of some of the odder things, like feet.
King: I understand. I've been in this for a while, and I've heard a lot odder then feet. Let me tell you. But that makes sense for you.
What do you do to make your client comfortable?
Well, I'm really hospitable. I want them to feel comfortable talking. Like, tell me about themselves. I'll ask questions. And, you know, I'll usually just say reinforcing things. People will say “I'm nervous.” I'll kinda point out that's a good thing. Reminding them about their first date and how nervous they were. Don't get nervous. You're wanting to evoke a bunch of interesting feelings. That's why you came. So, that always makes them feel a little bit better. I don't like people drinking and drugging. I'm not a big fan. I will pre-warn somebody, if you're drinking a bunch, I'm not even gonna take you. When people are nervous or couples are nervous. I'll definitely say don't drink too much.
King: Right.
Olivia: I had a girl that got really nervous and she drank too much and she passed out on my bed
King: Oh, wow!.
Olivia: Yeah! It’s expensive, you know, what we're doing. So you don't wanna blow it.
Is there a sexual act that you have that keeps your clients coming back?
Yeah. For sure......
King: A little curveball there. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to throw one at you. Lol
Olivia: I mean, there's a lot. My deepthroat is crazy. I'm a crazy sloppy deep throat face fucking, like, it's it's really good. People love how good my oral is. So, I get compliments for that. Then squirting, I’m really good at squirting.
King: Oh, we love that. Yeah. That's true. We love that.
Olivia: I do anal, not all providers will do it. So people know that I do it, and they're super excited.
King: Right. We just have to let you know ahead of time so you can prepare yourself.
Olivia: Yeah.
What are things that can make you absolutely not see a client?
If somebody's abusive, you know, verbally abusive, they're all weird. They're all like dragged out stuff, and I'm not feeling hip on the person. If they're disrespectful, sometimes clients will think that if they spend a little bit of money on you, then they should have access to you all the time. Then they'll try to get you to get them off. They get ahold of your number. Now, all of a sudden, they wanna text you every day. Suddenly, they expect us to pass space time for them. They haven't paid you a dime, but they're abusing time. That pisses me off. Stop doing that.
Since the media has labeled you the sex therapist, what do you think is the key factor in being happy in a marriage?
Respecting each other. Being a soft place to land for your partner. Don't make them feel ashamed to talk about things when things aren't as good in the bedroom or if there's something up. Know that your spouse can talk to you, because your spouse is coming and talking to me. Sometimes when guys say “I couldn't do this with her.” They’re afraid of how their partner will react or if they'll get rejected. I just try to be open-minded and show out to be a good friend. I don’t know. Lol
King: I know. I’m throwing some big questions at you, and it's still early in the morning. I get it. Lol
Olivia: Yeah. I don't know. It's hard. I understand that sometimes sex for a woman is different. I understand. Even as a woman in this industry my job is making people feel good. There might be a day where I'm not really in the mood, but I'm gonna have to put that face on and I'm gonna do it. I can gladly do it and I could do it really well to practice. But, Sometimes, what’s described to me from men, is women withhold sex. I don't think it is fair and I never did this to my husband when I was married. My advice to woman, you have to take care of that physical part. It changes everything.
Olivia: I’m sure this pisses off some Karen's.
King: Lol
Do you think if women and men were to do what you just said, Would that keep men or the women from knocking on your door?
Yeah. Perhaps. Yes but, some of the solo men say sex is the only thing that’s missing. Some other guys have hall passes. Their wives say, go ahead. Some couples are vicarious or they're wanting to spice things up. It’s all entertainment. So, there's different reasons why people are coming, but there's also just a simple fact that it's entertainment.
What exactly can a client do to get you aroused?
Foreplay. Foreplay is always good.
What's the best way to contact you?
Email: OliviaBentley69@yahoo.com
X:@OliviaBentleyBR
