It depends if she is hot or not? Just because she is a stripper doesn't mean she's hot. I'm sure the less attractive ones are easier to pull. But I stand by my belief the hot ones are hard to pull for the average guy with middle class income. I'm sure if you're a celebrity or a civilian whale you have a better shot only because of status. But obviously if they know they can leech off you without giving any sex or make you spend 5k, 10k, 15k first on them or something ridiculous like that before any sex is not a win in my book.
I knew a guy on a local board who bragged about BBFS strippers, escorts, PS, sex tourism overseas, etc who took pictures of the sex workers he's been with and I found most of the girls were not very attractive. Sure the guy may have BBFS strippers but I could tell they were bottom of the barrel.
For example I paid $2k and had sex with my absolute favorite PS. Compared to my former favorite stripper she would not fuck me period, despite pursuing her for like 3 years. The farthest I got with her was DATY.
Obviously it will depend on the girl and what she is looking for. A specific stripper may he hard to get (maybe already has a guy or what she needs) but in my own experiences I never had much issue getting with and dating a stripper or two.
Let's be honest here too, depending on how popular she may not need anything from anyone. Some only like girls too and dance just for the money. And I'm not going to pretend every stripper is out for just money or to be a leech either. But as far as the pool of girls goes, got a better chance at a strip club than anywhere else I can think of without paying specifically for sex.
If really looking for any stripper (not specific), new and young strippers would be what I was looking for. I would be showing a lot of attention and requesting lap dances or back room dances, any way to get a 1:1 convo. I wouldn't be asking directly for sex, but would try to hang out outside the club in some way. Grab a bite to eat, hang out and smoke, whatever you can gauge from conversation. The fact you would want to bang would already be implied by the attention and how excited you are to get a lap dance with her.
If not working with someone specific, move on. She will talk to other girls if you keep being persistent and none of the girls will respond to you the way you would like.
providers to cut the bullshit out to scratch that itch and fulfill a fantasy. If there's no itch to scratch you're wasting time and money. And of course there is relationships and marriage, those are always great for a shelf life of 7 years for 50% the population.
