I’ve always found the whole question of when to bring gifts a bit confusing.
If it’s a provider you genuinely like, you want to bring a gift to stand out - but not something over the top.
At the same time, you also don’t want to show up empty-handed. As I’ve mentioned in another post, it’s really about staying one step ahead of the competition if you want to remain in the “race” to be one of a provider’s true VIP clients.
Before doing that, though, it’s important to feel it out first. Is the chemistry there? Do you have things in common? These are the things I’ve written about before - and they do really matter a lot.
Navigating the world of gift-giving isn’t easy.
Sure, one could simply tip their favorite provider, but tips can start to feel a bit dull after a while, especially when you’ve known her for some time.
That’s when the “fun” begins - when you go out of your way to show her that she’s genuinely appreciated.
Physical gifts on her birthday are a must on said providers birthday - even if you’re not in the same country.
Fire up Amazon (or wherever) and have something sent to her address.
My go-to gift ideas for a provider you’d like to build a deeper connection with — but haven’t known for too long — are:
I can´t stress enough that it's really important to see if there´s even a flee of personal connection before starting to bring gifts.
If there´s none, find another providers. It took me 4 years before I found my first ATF.
If it’s a provider you genuinely like, you want to bring a gift to stand out - but not something over the top.
At the same time, you also don’t want to show up empty-handed. As I’ve mentioned in another post, it’s really about staying one step ahead of the competition if you want to remain in the “race” to be one of a provider’s true VIP clients.
Before doing that, though, it’s important to feel it out first. Is the chemistry there? Do you have things in common? These are the things I’ve written about before - and they do really matter a lot.
Navigating the world of gift-giving isn’t easy.
Sure, one could simply tip their favorite provider, but tips can start to feel a bit dull after a while, especially when you’ve known her for some time.
That’s when the “fun” begins - when you go out of your way to show her that she’s genuinely appreciated.
Physical gifts on her birthday are a must on said providers birthday - even if you’re not in the same country.
Fire up Amazon (or wherever) and have something sent to her address.
My go-to gift ideas for a provider you’d like to build a deeper connection with — but haven’t known for too long — are:
- A nice perfume
- High-quality chocolates from a specialty chocolatier
- Lingerie
I can´t stress enough that it's really important to see if there´s even a flee of personal connection before starting to bring gifts.
If there´s none, find another providers. It took me 4 years before I found my first ATF.
