I got the inspiration for this post from @usngub00. One thing that is often overlooked is the concept of 'swinging.' I've been to a swinger club twice, and I thought I would share my experience with all of you gentlemen.
As I said in this post, I love how everyone is so friendly and open-minded because they’re all into the same thing and are in the club for the same reason. People can reject one another, but from what I’ve seen and experienced firsthand, it rarely happens.
"Swinging" isn’t discussed enough when it comes to the broader conversation about sex and pleasure. In many swinger clubs, there are various rooms where you can engage in sexual activities with a partner of your choice, in private. However, it's common to be in a room with 2-3, or even 4, other "couples" having sex.
In the club I went to, there was also a large BDSM room, located in the basement. So, there’s something for everyone, allowing you to live out your wildest Fifty Shades fantasies.
The downside of visiting swinger clubs is that you almost always have to get used to other people watching you have sex or, at the very least, being in the same room as you, naked. That’s a line many people, both men and women, find difficult to cross or accept. I struggled with it too, but eventually, I came to terms with the fact that we were all there for the same reason.
When I first visited a swinger club, I spent four hours there and hooked up with three women, all in their mid to late 30s. I have to say, though, that I still prefer escorts because many of them are slim, toned, or petite—my personal preference. Choosing an escort is like going into a candy shop with a wide selection, whereas, in a swinger club, you have to choose from whoever happens to be there.
Would I recommend it?
Well, if you can find a swinger club with an age limit—let’s say, under 38—then yes, absolutely. If they don’t have an age limit, you might find yourself with women who are 50+, which is not ideal in this scenario.
As I said in this post, I love how everyone is so friendly and open-minded because they’re all into the same thing and are in the club for the same reason. People can reject one another, but from what I’ve seen and experienced firsthand, it rarely happens.
"Swinging" isn’t discussed enough when it comes to the broader conversation about sex and pleasure. In many swinger clubs, there are various rooms where you can engage in sexual activities with a partner of your choice, in private. However, it's common to be in a room with 2-3, or even 4, other "couples" having sex.
In the club I went to, there was also a large BDSM room, located in the basement. So, there’s something for everyone, allowing you to live out your wildest Fifty Shades fantasies.
The downside of visiting swinger clubs is that you almost always have to get used to other people watching you have sex or, at the very least, being in the same room as you, naked. That’s a line many people, both men and women, find difficult to cross or accept. I struggled with it too, but eventually, I came to terms with the fact that we were all there for the same reason.
When I first visited a swinger club, I spent four hours there and hooked up with three women, all in their mid to late 30s. I have to say, though, that I still prefer escorts because many of them are slim, toned, or petite—my personal preference. Choosing an escort is like going into a candy shop with a wide selection, whereas, in a swinger club, you have to choose from whoever happens to be there.
Would I recommend it?
Well, if you can find a swinger club with an age limit—let’s say, under 38—then yes, absolutely. If they don’t have an age limit, you might find yourself with women who are 50+, which is not ideal in this scenario.
