The saying goes: what should we talk about with providers in between rounds? Two months ago, I realized that simply talking about the weather had started to bore me to death. In fact, I hate small talk. Sure, getting a massage in between rounds is great and all, but if I’m booking a girl who speaks English at a high level, I want more than just a massage during breaks.
I’ve been with a lot of providers who spoke Spanish as their main language, and man, are they hot. But the only downside—and I mean the only downside, because, well… it’s Latinas, need I say more?—is the lack of communication. I don’t speak Spanish, and they don’t speak English. It’s totally fine in these scenarios, though. I completely understand that English isn’t commonly learned in South America the way it is in Europe.
However, it’s a whole different story if I book a girl from Europe—someone from Poland, Romania, Hungary, etc. I enjoy a good deep conversation in between rounds, so it’s not just me or the girl lying on our phones. I love discussing politics, world affairs, and investments in different assets. Heck, I even enjoy it when a girl doesn’t share my political views and challenges me—though LOVE when we see eye to eye.
To summarize: if the girl I’m seeing speaks English at a high level, I really appreciate it when she enjoys having deeper conversations with her clients. We can all learn from each other—that’s how I see it.
A fun side story: the reason I hit it off with my former SB, who speaks little English, was that we shared the same views on almost everything. We still keep in touch, messaging back and forth on a bi-weekly basis, and I love that. She’s learned things from me, and vice versa.
I’ve been with a lot of providers who spoke Spanish as their main language, and man, are they hot. But the only downside—and I mean the only downside, because, well… it’s Latinas, need I say more?—is the lack of communication. I don’t speak Spanish, and they don’t speak English. It’s totally fine in these scenarios, though. I completely understand that English isn’t commonly learned in South America the way it is in Europe.
However, it’s a whole different story if I book a girl from Europe—someone from Poland, Romania, Hungary, etc. I enjoy a good deep conversation in between rounds, so it’s not just me or the girl lying on our phones. I love discussing politics, world affairs, and investments in different assets. Heck, I even enjoy it when a girl doesn’t share my political views and challenges me—though LOVE when we see eye to eye.
To summarize: if the girl I’m seeing speaks English at a high level, I really appreciate it when she enjoys having deeper conversations with her clients. We can all learn from each other—that’s how I see it.
A fun side story: the reason I hit it off with my former SB, who speaks little English, was that we shared the same views on almost everything. We still keep in touch, messaging back and forth on a bi-weekly basis, and I love that. She’s learned things from me, and vice versa.
