Stick to reputable sites like Tryst, use a reverse number search up like Mr.Number, run photos through a reverse image search like Lenso.ai, don't go with women with no reviews until you know what you're doing, and controversial given the forum we're on but honestly focus less on pornstars and more on actual escorts(unless through an agency like Tryst agency). Pornstars and OF girls love to steal deposits and fuck around, not even being rude a lot of them have BPD and pretty poor impulse regulation. Legit all my bad experiences have been with porn girls that I didn't see through an agency, hygiene all over the place, rampant drug problems, lateness, etc.
On the other hand if you find a girl with a long and engaging twitter or bluesky presence who's primary an escort first, even without reviews you're guaranteed to have a good time if you see she's not causing drama on twitter, has a few years of posting history that's actually thought out and not just "available in this city tonight" + has other reputable providers that are doing duos with her.
