Gentleman, once you hit VIP status as a client in the pornstar escort world these ladies sliding into your DM's and text happen on the regular naturally.
You couldn't IMAGINE who has slid into my DM's on both X and IG. This doesn't include ladies I have already seen who have exchanged cell numbers and also text me on the regular to stay connected. I'm no fool. I understand the purpose of them reaching out is to continue contact so that we can meet again and have a good time. Same goes for those who slide in my DM's that I haven't met yet. These ladies talk and they know I'm not just a wham bam 1hr guy. I'm a multiple hour let's go out have a great evening gift buying guy.
I'm at the status where I have already been on one REAL date (off clock/no fee) with a pornstar and have one more potential date with a different pornstar in the coming weeks. These ladies know I'm single, they are single, and we are exploring the possibility of potentially evolving into something more serious.
First date went great. Romantic upscale dinner by the coast. Made a reservation and slipped the hostess $$ to provide us the best view so she could see the sunset. Prior to dinner, champagne at her place to get the first date jitters off. After dinner strolled the costal shops, then back to her place. When all was said and done we both are looking at our calendars for date #2.
My first date with the second young woman is still in the planning stages. Me being an executive and her active in the industry takes some time to lock in.
I write this not to brag and/or boast but to let you know ANYTHING is possible if you step up your game and invest in just wanting to fuck. The bare minimum will get you the bare minimum. If you want to build a relationship that's exactly what you have to do "build it". Make yourself stand out from everyone else. Book multiple hours and take them out somewhere nice. Treat them with respect and kindness. If you buy them a gift it doesn't have to be expensive it's a thought that counts. Many of you don't realize this is how many of them also date.
I hope this motivates and encourages you to take that leap and spend a little more coin.
While Iām nowhere near your level, Iāve taken in everything youāve written on this forum and stolen some ideas from you, and have absolutely gotten responses Iād hoped for.
Yes, I know all the ladies who stay in touch with me want me for one thing, and Iām fine with that. In general, I want them for one thing, too. Iāve set up multiple dates by reaching out through DM on X, the first of which I just left and am about to start my review for. And just yesterday, I exchanged multiple DMs with an escort friend of a UTR porn star provider about privately sponsoring a tour for both of them later this year or early next year for a threesome. I found her through a post the PS had made, and pulled some threads. She agreed in principle to the way I suggested a sponsored tour for both of them would work and agreed to contact the PS friend to get some dates they could both come here. Now I wait.
No way Iād have been able to pull that off a few months ago. Now I explain who I am in the community and can drop some names if needed, but I havenāt had to yet.
But those 3 reaching out to me almost all in a row was too much for me to take without saying something here!
