i was checking out the twitter profile of a girl that had caught me eye & i came across this thread...
This struck a nerve with me and highlights what i feel is becoming a major issue of trust between providers and clients centered around deposits.
now don't get me wrong - i completely understand that girls need to feel safe and protected - i can't imagine the number of creeps they must encounter which is why i am fully on board with screening - everyone should be willing to get screen on a trusted service such as P411 - imo if you're not willing to screen you can't blame a girl for not feeling safe enough to see you
by the same token, we need to feel the same way
as someone who was taken advantage of by a scammer in the past, it took me awhile to want to hobby again and trust a date, and i am very hesitant to do deposits. so to see the responses above is very disappointing
you don't care? you don't think there have been cases where we tried our best to verify the girl and got scammed anyway or she was real and is just a con artist just like the no call no show guys you hate so much?
stuff like this - in my opinion - is why there is a huge problem right now with providers and clients - there is a disconnect - and it is fostering a lack of trust
if you can't trust your date - it won't work - you either won't go on the date or won't let your guard down enough to have as good of a time as you deserve
thank you for listening to my rant & as always your feedback is welcomed as well
This struck a nerve with me and highlights what i feel is becoming a major issue of trust between providers and clients centered around deposits.
now don't get me wrong - i completely understand that girls need to feel safe and protected - i can't imagine the number of creeps they must encounter which is why i am fully on board with screening - everyone should be willing to get screen on a trusted service such as P411 - imo if you're not willing to screen you can't blame a girl for not feeling safe enough to see you
by the same token, we need to feel the same way
as someone who was taken advantage of by a scammer in the past, it took me awhile to want to hobby again and trust a date, and i am very hesitant to do deposits. so to see the responses above is very disappointing
you don't care? you don't think there have been cases where we tried our best to verify the girl and got scammed anyway or she was real and is just a con artist just like the no call no show guys you hate so much?
stuff like this - in my opinion - is why there is a huge problem right now with providers and clients - there is a disconnect - and it is fostering a lack of trust
if you can't trust your date - it won't work - you either won't go on the date or won't let your guard down enough to have as good of a time as you deserve
thank you for listening to my rant & as always your feedback is welcomed as well
