I lay out the entire arrangement upfront in my first message, (a consistent allowance, either a weekly or a monthly arrangement; non-platonic, NSA, prefer tested intimate fun) complete transparency, no ambiguity.
Give them a brief summary of my background/career, age and hobbies/interests and ask them about themselves. After some very brief small talk, I propose a dinner/first meet and ask about their availability to schedule a mutually convenient date.
Typically if the allowance and date is agreed upon, we start getting intimate within the first date, and subsequent meets are very easy to schedule. I find BBFS is rather easy to find as long as you are tested. I make sure to ask them about their preferences and boundaries at the outset, and let them know what I am looking for. I find that being direct works 90% of the time. Many hidden gems out there as far as talent goes.
Seeking especially has many such women looking for a SD that are up for/open to anything, including accommodating your most kinky fetishes. It’s amazing what some hot and single women will do for money.
As far as what to talk about during the date: just be a good sounding board for the women, and interject with some travel-related interesting stories of your own (work or vacation/leisure), you can also ask them about their background, etc.
Red flags: asking for money before meeting, and asking for additional money (after giving them the allowance) during the meet (for a future meeting) — immediately drop the conversation if they ask to send money in advance. And never exchange money until and unless they are willing to be intimate with you — no meet and greets.
As far as cost per meet, I find it varies wildly from $500 per meet to $5000 per meet — and everything in between. The $500-$800 per meet types will meet once a week. The $5000 per meet types are more open to a twice weekly arrangement. Age ranges from late teens to late 40s and looks span the gamut, from girl-next-door to Maxim Supermodelesque. Lots of Slavic women, especially down south.
