I was ghosted for an overnight with someone I had overnights with before. And she messaged me the next day like I was the one who failed to communicate. It felt really bad to cut her off, I thought we worked well together, but I'm not going to permit attempts to gaslight me. I believe what really happened, based on some things I heard later, is she had a kid in between the last times we saw each other and she felt nervous about her body and got cold feet. If she had just communicated that, it wouldn't have been a problem. And if she had been comfortable committing, I still would have seen her. Somehow the way I'm wired once I'm attracted to someone I'm not worried about it. Especially when we've seen each other before.
