Fellas, what you definition of the GFE? I agree the OP on this one.
" .......It appeared that she was ready to start a wonderful blow job. But then there was a pause, as she reached for a condom. This was profoundly disappointing, and I wouldn't have booked the session had I known it was CBJ. I totally respect her decisions and right to do CBJ, but I felt a bit duped. The previous reviews on TER did not mention CBJ at all. And, she billed herself as a GFE. In my world, CBJ is not something that's part of a GFE session-in fact, it may be the single most important part for me. I asked her about it, and she said that safety is paramount, and since it was our first session, she wanted to play it safe. She said that in the future, if we are comfortable with each other, bbbj is on the table. To me, a CBJ is totally useless, and I can't feel a thing. Considering that I easily get de-sensitized with a condom and sex, I was not looking for MORE "opportunities" for a condom. Again, I respect her right to go with CBJ, I just wish I had known in advance. And a pet peeve that is increasingly an issue is the "GFE" but in reality it's not GFE."
There should be a certain level of expectation for the service provided
" .......It appeared that she was ready to start a wonderful blow job. But then there was a pause, as she reached for a condom. This was profoundly disappointing, and I wouldn't have booked the session had I known it was CBJ. I totally respect her decisions and right to do CBJ, but I felt a bit duped. The previous reviews on TER did not mention CBJ at all. And, she billed herself as a GFE. In my world, CBJ is not something that's part of a GFE session-in fact, it may be the single most important part for me. I asked her about it, and she said that safety is paramount, and since it was our first session, she wanted to play it safe. She said that in the future, if we are comfortable with each other, bbbj is on the table. To me, a CBJ is totally useless, and I can't feel a thing. Considering that I easily get de-sensitized with a condom and sex, I was not looking for MORE "opportunities" for a condom. Again, I respect her right to go with CBJ, I just wish I had known in advance. And a pet peeve that is increasingly an issue is the "GFE" but in reality it's not GFE."
There should be a certain level of expectation for the service provided
