You mentioned that she looked very attractive in her photos before you reached out. Did those photos show body hair? If they did, and you still decided to contact her, then it would generally be inappropriate to later request that she change her appearance unless you were prepared to compensate her for doing so. Even then, there is still a risk of offending her, as grooming preferences are often tied to personal identity and boundaries.
It is considered best practice to seek out providers who already align with your preferences, rather than asking someone to alter theirs. Many reputable providers and agencies, such as
@trystagency, showcase verified photos that accurately reflect a provider’s current appearance. This ensures expectations are clear from the start and helps avoid misunderstandings or discomfort for both parties.
My suggestion would be to focus on finding a provider who naturally matches your preferences and is just as appealing to you. This approach shows respect for the provider while ensuring a more positive experience for both sides.
