Seeking advise from the seasoned gents here-
I’m trying to set up a date with a provider in my city, she looked real hot in some of her pics online before I contacted her. We exchanged a couple emails for verification, and then I happened to look at her insta.
She has a ton of body hair- hands, legs, pits. I respect others’ choices, and maybe some guys are also really into that, but that’s just not for me. But then again everything else about her seems sexy AF. While it seems sexy in the pictures, the body hair would potentially turn me off completely IRL, maybe because I’m a guy fortunate/unfortunate to not have a ton of it. I have never had to shave/trim my chest,I’m always very well groomed everywhere else too, I’m in my late 30s. I would never ask a date/GF/wife to shave but kind of conflicted in this case - am I the asshole if I ask her to shave? If not, would something like “hey I noticed you have a lot of body hair, would you be open to shaving it before we meet” be rude? How do I ask her politely or just not go through with the booking? Thanks in advance folks.
I’m trying to set up a date with a provider in my city, she looked real hot in some of her pics online before I contacted her. We exchanged a couple emails for verification, and then I happened to look at her insta.
She has a ton of body hair- hands, legs, pits. I respect others’ choices, and maybe some guys are also really into that, but that’s just not for me. But then again everything else about her seems sexy AF. While it seems sexy in the pictures, the body hair would potentially turn me off completely IRL, maybe because I’m a guy fortunate/unfortunate to not have a ton of it. I have never had to shave/trim my chest,I’m always very well groomed everywhere else too, I’m in my late 30s. I would never ask a date/GF/wife to shave but kind of conflicted in this case - am I the asshole if I ask her to shave? If not, would something like “hey I noticed you have a lot of body hair, would you be open to shaving it before we meet” be rude? How do I ask her politely or just not go through with the booking? Thanks in advance folks.
