I’ve said to follow the Sex Worker Reddit group a couple of times in the community. They don’t like us much in there, but they do offer the best information on what not to do as a client. I follow them extensively even though a lot of what they write about is how to get over on us and the bad experiences they’ve had. One experience I recently read was too good not to talk about a client actually blaming a provider for their erectile dysfunction (ED). I don’t think it can get much lower than this as a client.
To tell you the truth, it sounded like the provider should’ve gotten out of this from the start, but you have to give her credit she’s professional. Going into a storage room to have sex seems like it could’ve gone really bad, like Jeffrey Dahmer–level bad. Still, she was able to give the guy what he wanted, even though he turned out to be a douche.
As soon as dude got a good BJ, he climaxed. It’s happened to many of us before, especially if the provider really knows what she’s doing. Usually takes me a while to get there, which I used to think was annoying, but now I’m pretty glad makes being with providers that much more enjoyable knowing it’s going to take me a minute to hit my O moment. Anyway, it was after the dude popped that his true colors came out.
He began blaming the provider for him being flaccid. Even though the provider was putting in work to get dude back at attention, he joked and laughed, purposely making her feel bad.
From what I can see, this client was pretty insecure. If what the provider says is true, she worked hard to get dude back up. Don’t know if she’s lying, but for a provider to follow a client to a storage garage? No she’s going to go the extra mile. I’m sure my guy here was feeling a little self-conscious about the whole thing, and making it seem like the provider wasn’t doing her job was his way of coping. This has happened to me once or twice, but I’ve never felt the need to blame the provider. Not everyone can go two rounds back-to-back there’s no shame in it. Shit happens. If a client can’t get it up, it’s most likely a you problem.
Blaming a provider for something like ED says more about the client than it ever could about her performance. Most of these women are professionals they know what they’re doing and don’t owe us perfection. If anything, stories like this should remind us that respect goes both ways. A provider’s job is to give you an experience, not to fix your confidence that's a bonus though. Handle your own issues, be honest about your limits, and don’t turn your insecurity into her problem.
