LeøThis post is going to have a little bit of everything, so strap in.
First of all, I want to start with how it feels to be attracted to a provider, where it usually leads, and how much of a bummer it often turns out to be (in the long run).
Who hasn’t tried being really attracted to a provider—not just sexually, but also outside of the bedroom? You can picture yourself on the couch with her, eating dinner, spending time together… and it all feels great. Until you realize—usually later—that this attraction comes with some pitfalls. Hopefully, what I’m about to share will save a lot of gentlemen from disappointment.
The first and most important point: it’s a job. Providing/escorting is just work like others jobs. The provider you dream about, the one you want to invite over for dinner or take traveling across the country—or even abroad—she’s still working when she spends time with you. Some form of fee almost always applies. Maybe it’s not her full rate, but some kind of “discounted” arrangement is usually involved.
And like I said, there are many sides to this. My advice? Pay the extra money to see her outside of her job. That’s what I’ve learned. I’d rather be out in public with a top provider (looks-wise) and see other guys thinking, “WOW”.
Personally, I’ve paid everything from $500 for a full night out with a provider I’d known for 6–7 months, to $2,500 for a week-long escapade (5–6 days) with an ATF I had built a stronger connection with.
We only live once, so my view is: enjoy it to the fullest.
But be prepared to “lose” the girl—your ATF, your regular, your dream provider. Enjoy the ride for as long as she’s in the game. Once she retires or settles back in her home country, the contact will naturally fade.
Finally, let’s talk about what happens in the bedroom. The truth is, the more attracted you are to a provider, the faster you cum. That’s just how it is—no matter how much you prepare. Is there a solution to that? Yes, there are…
First of all, I want to start with how it feels to be attracted to a provider, where it usually leads, and how much of a bummer it often turns out to be (in the long run).
Who hasn’t tried being really attracted to a provider—not just sexually, but also outside of the bedroom? You can picture yourself on the couch with her, eating dinner, spending time together… and it all feels great. Until you realize—usually later—that this attraction comes with some pitfalls. Hopefully, what I’m about to share will save a lot of gentlemen from disappointment.
The first and most important point: it’s a job. Providing/escorting is just work like others jobs. The provider you dream about, the one you want to invite over for dinner or take traveling across the country—or even abroad—she’s still working when she spends time with you. Some form of fee almost always applies. Maybe it’s not her full rate, but some kind of “discounted” arrangement is usually involved.
And like I said, there are many sides to this. My advice? Pay the extra money to see her outside of her job. That’s what I’ve learned. I’d rather be out in public with a top provider (looks-wise) and see other guys thinking, “WOW”.
Personally, I’ve paid everything from $500 for a full night out with a provider I’d known for 6–7 months, to $2,500 for a week-long escapade (5–6 days) with an ATF I had built a stronger connection with.
We only live once, so my view is: enjoy it to the fullest.
But be prepared to “lose” the girl—your ATF, your regular, your dream provider. Enjoy the ride for as long as she’s in the game. Once she retires or settles back in her home country, the contact will naturally fade.
Finally, let’s talk about what happens in the bedroom. The truth is, the more attracted you are to a provider, the faster you cum. That’s just how it is—no matter how much you prepare. Is there a solution to that? Yes, there are…
