April Killians What to Expect in an Orgy

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I love when the sex worker community does things just for the hell of it. We don’t have many people who do, so when someone steps up, it’s important to show...

I love when the sex worker community does things just for the hell of it. We don’t have many people who do, so when someone steps up, it’s important to show appreciation—no matter how big or small the act. April Killian just gave both sex workers and clients a huge assist by offering guidance on how to navigate an orgy, answering a lot of questions many people have been too shy to ask. Honestly, it’s even giving me some ideas.

I first mentioned April late February when she hosted an orgy in Canada alongside a number of other providers. That event was extremely well-organized, especially compared to others we’ve seen, so having April now give a full breakdown on what to expect at an orgy—and even how to plan one yourself—is something we should all be grateful for.

April's advice is comprehensive, but I’ll summarize the key bullet points from her guide:

• Consent is everything
• Setting / Venue
• Alcohol and Drugs
• Safe Sex
• Manners
• Things to bring
• Vetting / Screening
• Other People you might find on location
• Common Misconceptions
• Recommendations
• Coming as a Couple?
• Frequently Asked Questions
• Testimonials from Clients
• Testimonials from Providers
• Podcast
• Providers Questions Area

As you can see, April didn’t hold back at all when she wrote this. After giving it a full read myself, I can honestly say I’m very interested in attending an orgy—and feeling a lot less nervous about it too.

I’ve never been to one before, and I tend to live in my head more than I should. Not in an anxiety-driven way, but more like I overthink things to the point where I just end up doing whatever it was I was overthinking—because if I’m putting that much thought into it, it probably wasn’t that serious to begin with. (Hope that makes sense.) Anyway, reading April’s entire manual on orgies was nothing short of amazing and really opened my eyes to seriously pursuing this experience.

I’m going to drop the manual below. I hope all of you take the time to read it—you might be surprised by what you get out of it.

April Killian Orgy Manual

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[zm7000]

I would love to participate in a sex party/orgy. Not a gangbang, an orgy. Big difference in feelings towards the latter.

I particularly like the FAQ distinguishing a swingers club vs orgy. I always assumed both swingers clubs and sex parties catered to or would be easier for couples, but appears that is not the case. I’d be totally in for this. April has a Mansion Party in Montreal on August 9th.

6. Why go to a professional orgy and not just to a swingers club?
First of all, this is a professional setting, the providers are vetted and safe. As sex workers, we have experience in making you feel comfortable, welcome and inclusivity is the center of our values. This is a "hired" setting which also becomes a success by the providers active participation. You will never be in a corner alone (unless you choose to because you need a break). You get to have adventures with all facets of diversity in the pond of beauties we select for each edition. You also get to meet multiple providers at once, (some that come from across Canada that don't usually tour here). You get to witness their chemistry and participate in beautiful authentic moments. As Sex workers, our sexuality is also our livelihood, it's precious and cared for. We get tested often, we check back with you if anything happened. We value privacy and respect your personal life. We won't cross any boundaries regarding your personal life situation and our discretion is assured the second we exit the venue. Swingers Clubs are amazing, I am myself a huge fan, but they do cater mostly to couples and their focus is on creating a space for things to happen but not necessarily having everyone participate. It can often be groups of friends or play partners that meet to play and want their own bubble. It's like going to any Club but with sex involved.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

I would love to participate in a sex party/orgy. Not a gangbang, an orgy. Big difference in feelings towards the latter.

I particularly like the FAQ distinguishing a swingers club vs orgy. I always assumed both swingers clubs and sex parties catered to or would be easier for couples, but appears that is not the case. I’d be totally in for this. April has a Mansion Party in Montreal on August 9th.

6. Why go to a professional orgy and not just to a swingers club?
First of all, this is a professional setting, the providers are vetted and safe. As sex workers, we have experience in making you feel comfortable, welcome and inclusivity is the center of our values. This is a "hired" setting which also becomes a success by the providers active participation. You will never be in a corner alone (unless you choose to because you need a break). You get to have adventures with all facets of diversity in the pond of beauties we select for each edition. You also get to meet multiple providers at once, (some that come from across Canada that don't usually tour here). You get to witness their chemistry and participate in beautiful authentic moments. As Sex workers, our sexuality is also our livelihood, it's precious and cared for. We get tested often, we check back with you if anything happened. We value privacy and respect your personal life. We won't cross any boundaries regarding your personal life situation and our discretion is assured the second we exit the venue. Swingers Clubs are amazing, I am myself a huge fan, but they do cater mostly to couples and their focus is on creating a space for things to happen but not necessarily having everyone participate. It can often be groups of friends or play partners that meet to play and want their own bubble. It's like going to any Club but with sex involved.

I really get the two confused. There's an obvious difference, but my mind thinks multiple people having sex in one place; gangbang. Even though this isn't the case.

She makes it sound so dam enjoyable that you really want to try.

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