I love when the sex worker community does things just for the hell of it. We don’t have many people who do, so when someone steps up, it’s important to show appreciation—no matter how big or small the act. April Killian just gave both sex workers and clients a huge assist by offering guidance on how to navigate an orgy, answering a lot of questions many people have been too shy to ask. Honestly, it’s even giving me some ideas.
I first mentioned April late February when she hosted an orgy in Canada alongside a number of other providers. That event was extremely well-organized, especially compared to others we’ve seen, so having April now give a full breakdown on what to expect at an orgy—and even how to plan one yourself—is something we should all be grateful for.
April's advice is comprehensive, but I’ll summarize the key bullet points from her guide:
As you can see, April didn’t hold back at all when she wrote this. After giving it a full read myself, I can honestly say I’m very interested in attending an orgy—and feeling a lot less nervous about it too.
I’ve never been to one before, and I tend to live in my head more than I should. Not in an anxiety-driven way, but more like I overthink things to the point where I just end up doing whatever it was I was overthinking—because if I’m putting that much thought into it, it probably wasn’t that serious to begin with. (Hope that makes sense.) Anyway, reading April’s entire manual on orgies was nothing short of amazing and really opened my eyes to seriously pursuing this experience.
I’m going to drop the manual below. I hope all of you take the time to read it—you might be surprised by what you get out of it.
April Killian Orgy Manual
I first mentioned April late February when she hosted an orgy in Canada alongside a number of other providers. That event was extremely well-organized, especially compared to others we’ve seen, so having April now give a full breakdown on what to expect at an orgy—and even how to plan one yourself—is something we should all be grateful for.
April's advice is comprehensive, but I’ll summarize the key bullet points from her guide:
- Consent is everything
- Setting / Venue
- Alcohol and Drugs
- Safe Sex
- Manners
- Things to bring
- Vetting / Screening
- Other People you might find on location
- Common Misconceptions
- Recommendations
- Coming as a Couple?
- Frequently Asked Questions
- Testimonials from Clients
- Testimonials from Providers
- Podcast
- Providers Questions Area
As you can see, April didn’t hold back at all when she wrote this. After giving it a full read myself, I can honestly say I’m very interested in attending an orgy—and feeling a lot less nervous about it too.
I’ve never been to one before, and I tend to live in my head more than I should. Not in an anxiety-driven way, but more like I overthink things to the point where I just end up doing whatever it was I was overthinking—because if I’m putting that much thought into it, it probably wasn’t that serious to begin with. (Hope that makes sense.) Anyway, reading April’s entire manual on orgies was nothing short of amazing and really opened my eyes to seriously pursuing this experience.
I’m going to drop the manual below. I hope all of you take the time to read it—you might be surprised by what you get out of it.
April Killian Orgy Manual
