Am I paranoid for not wanting to screen/verify

[Orton316]

So I deal with local providers around me on listcrawler and STG and for me its not that I try to skip the verification process it's just sending a face pic...

So I deal with local providers around me on listcrawler and STG and for me its not that I try to skip the verification process it's just sending a face pic to a local provider worries me. Don't get it twisted when it comes to PSE and agencies, I'll fuck around and send someone like Penny Barber (Tryst Agency) or Cory Chase (Tryst Agency) my social security number, no problem if it meant I can secure a booking with them.

But when it comes to local providers that same level of professionalism and class atleast where I am at is not at the level of them. and I can 100 percent understand the viewpoint from the provider so I have no issue doing a phone call audio, sending a dick pic holding up a certain number of fingers to show I am not a cop. But sending a face pic and especially a deposit (that being a whole different situation) I just can't do it.

So let me know, am I paranoid for wanting as much privacy digitally as possible (I stopped doing cashapp transaction and do strictly cash) or is this a understandable case and just have to understand I am restricting myself from certain providers locally.

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[Townbizz54]

I once had a random girl text me my Social Security number so no, you’re not paranoid

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[inspectahjamescahtah]

I once had a random girl text me my Social Security number so no, you’re not paranoid

wait what

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[Townbizz54]

wait what

I didn’t stutter unfortunately… but nothing ever came of it

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[connman]

You are not paranoid. Sending sensitive info to any random person is not safe or smart.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

My opinion is do what ever you feel comfortable with.

Personal information is leaked all the time by corporations and the government, there is nothing to be done to stop it.

As long as you are monitoring your credit score and financial accounts, there’s very little you can do to prevent malicious activity.

A lot of paranoia is born out of ignorance of how security mechanisms work. I will say to likely avoid low end providers as they tend to be less careful with privacy than high end.

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[Catcat2025]

All the “free porn” from tube sites collect and leak your data all the time.

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[Briguy1875]

The biggest rule I have. If I do my research and everything is real the the provider is a professional I have no issues with what is usually asked for. Government ID, work information, and references.

If in my mind it’s not a good idea to send to the persons form from there website I don’t do it.

For one reason. Establishing trust immediately is everything to the provider. She is in some ways taking a leap of faith and so are you. When you establish trust right away when you meet you will be rewarded with someone who already feels safe with you. Safety is everything for a provider and women in general. When there is safety you are rewarded.

Second rule. Never, ever, ever. STG or that other ad website. Never. The last time like 10 years ago. I said never, ever.

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[FishMonger]

I find that most professional escorts have assistants. And I have never been burned or concerned with an assistant. Usually one or two back and forths to arrange the date. Assuming comms are clear, timely and professional, I send my verification info. I never send verification without already having a date/time discussed. That way I am not sending out verifications to escorts that my schedule doesn't line up with. At the end of the day, anyone bad person could cause trouble. But if they are paying an assistant to handle their scheduling, I think it's good indication everything is on the up and up.

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[INDIEK2]

The one time I ever declined screening was a provider who wouldn't accept my linkedin and wanted me to send an email from my work email.

ID? Fine. Picture? Fine. Linkedin? Fine. Work email (or SSN)? Nah

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

The one time I ever declined screening was a provider who wouldn't accept my linkedin and wanted me to send an email from my work email.

ID? Fine. Picture? Fine. Linkedin? Fine. Work email (or SSN)? Nah

Yeah work email was enough to make me pass on an Indy and pick an agency girl who was likely the better choice.

Employer email is way too risky for some folks line of work.

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