Advice/Suggestions EXXXOTICA CHICAGO

[moose314]

As someone who actually considers themselves a fan of several ladies in the adult film industry and a fan of the industry in general, Is this a worthwhile...

As someone who actually considers themselves a fan of several ladies in the adult film industry and a fan of the industry in general, Is this a worthwhile experience? I have never attended an event like this. I may go by myself. I know that the experience for Exxxotica varies depending on what my intentions on going are. So here are somethings I am look to experience.

-Meeting some of my favorites performers.
-discovering new performers I have never heard of or considered.
-Seeing up close and personal some porn stars who are providers. Mighty actually help me decide to give some of them a go.

Thoughts?

Also thanks again! This site has been very helpful. Since I joined a few months ago, I have seen two local providers (One experience was awful but the 2nd was good), A PS provider, and even went to a strip club for my birthday and had fun. I had been holding back my sexual desires for years due to a lot of traumatic experiences going back to childhood and my early 20s. This site has given me an opportunity to learn how to navigate this hobby in the safest way possible. The experiences I have had with women in this line of work so far has made me realize that I enjoy hanging out with sexy ladies. Its also making me want to engage with women who are also not in this line of work. So I think I'm a pretty good spot right now mentally. Just turned 31 and I'm feeling more confident and accepting of my attraction to women than I have ever been.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

I’ve never been to an Exxxotica but I was at AVN in January, and I had a phenomenal time. I know they’re a little bit different, but getting to walk up to, talk to and get pictures with so many of the women I’ve seen performing over the years was amazing. Getting to bump into women I hope to book in the future and to see women I’ve already been with and catch up with them was a terrific experience. If it’s something you’re able to do financially and logistically, I would highly recommend it.

Also, welcome to the board and hobby. Appreciate you opening up about where you’ve been and where you’re at. I hope you continue doing what feels right for you and you continue enjoying yourself.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[king-sama4u2nv]

I think I'm going to attending Exxxotica New Jersey just to get a feel for what you're looking for her. I've never been one to attend one of these as the amount of people in one area is not something I enjoy. Plus, I'm never one to wait on line just for a 5 minute conversation with an adult actress. However, going might be a new experience for me and I need to do that more. Seeing what talent is out there and seeing providers who aren't just a picture could sway me into booking.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[connman]

I have visited the Exxxotica New Jersey a few times. It can be hit or miss depending on who attends and whether they are there at the same time you are. I have gone during the afternoon and a couple of the woman I had hoped to see didn't get there until later. You can find a schedule here:

EXXXOTICA Expo - The Largest Adult Expo in the United States

EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest adult convention in the U.S., featuring live shows, seminars, exhibitors, celebrity appearances, and immersive experiences across multiple cities.

www.exxxoticaexpo.com

I call my visits "window shopping". A few comments:

-I have found most porn stars look better and sexier in person.
-As mentioned by King above, expect to wait in line to get to talk to or get a picture with the more popular stars.
-In most cases, pictures are not free.
-Keep your head up when walking around or behind curtains, you might find yourself in an area of fetishes you aren't comfortable with.
-It can very loud at the show and talking can sometimes be difficult.
-Do not, I'll repeat, DO NOT discuss escorting when talking to a girl at the show.

Most of all, have fun.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

-Do not, I'll repeat, DO NOT discuss escorting when talking to a girl at the show.

YMMV on this, for what it’s worth.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[king-sama4u2nv]

I have visited the Exxxotica New Jersey a few times. It can be hit or miss depending on who attends and whether they are there at the same time you are. I have gone during the afternoon and a couple of the woman I had hoped to see didn't get there until later. You can find a schedule here:

EXXXOTICA Expo - The Largest Adult Expo in the United States

EXXXOTICA Expo is the largest adult convention in the U.S., featuring live shows, seminars, exhibitors, celebrity appearances, and immersive experiences across multiple cities.

www.exxxoticaexpo.com

I call my visits "window shopping". A few comments:

-I have found most porn stars look better and sexier in person.
-As mentioned by King above, expect to wait in line to get to talk to or get a picture with the more popular stars.
-In most cases, pictures are not free.
-Keep your head up when walking around or behind curtains, you might find yourself in an area of fetishes you aren't comfortable with.
-It can very loud at the show and talking can sometimes be difficult.
-Do not, I'll repeat, DO NOT discuss escorting when talking to a girl at the show.

Most of all, have fun.

All of this is perfect for navigating at Exxxotica. If there's anyone that needs a go to then use this as a reference. I would say the last part isn't needed as it is common sense, however, common sense isn't always common. So, it was smart to add this.

As I read through this I'm finding it hard to want to attend Exxxotica. Other then for the experience I'm not seeing waiting in line, paying for pictures, and be in a large crowd as worth it. Still, I love the window shopping idea.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[TanyaTate]

I personally feel Exxxotica is more chilled compared to AVN.

At AVN there is a lot of movement of girls. Sometimes we are given timeslots for maximum of 2 hours, some booths it can be all day, but it can be a frequent change. You have to really plan well, and hope the girls turn up at the agreed time, and you can actually find that booth, if you want to catch someone.

Exxxotica the timeslot the girls sign are usually more consistent. And the girls are usually signing all three days. So you’ve got a much better chance of catching who you want to see.

Have a look on the Exxxotica website and take a note of your girls that are going and the booths they are signing at. Make sure you are following them all on Twitter because you will wanna check in because sometimes they post their sign and times on X.

When you get there, just enjoy yourself. Say hi to the girl. Be kind, have a little chat, and support her by buying an autograph or selfie with her. You can usually get her personality and see the way she looks from the moment you meet her.

It’s ok not to buy anything too, we like to say hi to all our fans. Just don’t take up long periods of her time, “cock blocking” the other fans from speaking to her. Especially if she has a line and you decide not to purchase anything.

Hope this helps. Have fun. I’ll be at Collectors Corner in Chicago Exxxotica if you wanna stop by

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[TanyaTate]

I’ve never been to an Exxxotica but I was at AVN in January, and I had a phenomenal time.

Was good to see you at AVN. I loved the big detailed post you wrote.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[Swytypy]

Was good to see you at AVN. I loved the big detailed post you wrote.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[inspectahjamescahtah]

I personally feel Exxxotica is more chilled compared to AVN.

At AVN there is a lot of movement of girls. Sometimes we are given timeslots for maximum of 2 hours, some booths it can be all day, but it can be a frequent change. You have to really plan well, and hope the girls turn up at the agreed time, and you can actually find that booth, if you want to catch someone.

Exxxotica the timeslot the girls sign are usually more consistent. And the girls are usually signing all three days. So you’ve got a much better chance of catching who you want to see.

Have a look on the Exxxotica website and take a note of your girls that are going and the booths they are signing at. Make sure you are following them all on Twitter because you will wanna check in because sometimes they post their sign and times on X.

When you get there, just enjoy yourself. Say hi to the girl. Be kind, have a little chat, and support her by buying an autograph or selfie with her. You can usually get her personality and see the way she looks from the moment you meet her.

It’s ok not to buy anything too, we like to say hi to all our fans. Just don’t take up long periods of her time, “cock blocking” the other fans from speaking to her. Especially if she has a line and you decide not to purchase anything.

Hope this helps. Have fun. I’ll be at Collectors Corner in Chicago Exxxotica if you wanna stop by

When the one and only Tanya Tate (Tryst Agency) speaks, you stop whatever you're doing and listen.

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.

 

[TanyaTate]

When the one and only Tanya Tate (Tryst Agency) speaks, you stop whatever you're doing and listen.

Aw thank you!! I like to give a different look in and all pieces of advice available to read helps with planning

Upgrade your account to unlock this section.