Sharing our stories within this hobby can be incredibly valuable. By opening up about our experiences, we create opportunities for others to learn, reflect, and perhaps approach the hobby with a broader perspective. There’s always knowledge to gain from the journeys of others, and I hope my story can offer some insights.
For me, this journey began in a unique way—a provider took my virginity. That’s the starting point of this story, and it shaped my outlook on this hobby. My first session was back in
2015 with a Polish girl. The full details of that encounter can be found here.
From that first session, I was completely hooked. That’s the fascinating thing about this hobby—it pulls you in from the start. The sheer variety of women, the discovery of new fetishes, and, most importantly, the self-awareness that develops along the way—it all creates the most amazing experience ever.
Fast forward to January 2019, when things really took off for me. I vividly remember the first girl I saw that year. She was from Hungary—petite, with silicone boobs and excellent English.
From January to March 2019, I went on a spree that felt like heaven on earth. Hungarian, Polish, Romanian, Spanish, Paraguayan, and Colombian girls filled my days.
By the end of March, I had probably seen around 30 providers.
Then came a turning point in March 2019 when I met a girl who became my sugar babe. That slowed down my urge to see new girls, something I now look back on with regret. The next time I saw a provider wasn’t until mid-2020—a long pause.
Taking that break had it’s fair share of consequences. One of the biggest lessons I learned is that consistency matters in this hobby, not just for the experience but also for maintaining stamina. In 2019, I could last 7-8 minutes. By 2020, after such a long break, I could barely last one minute. It was a stark reminder to never step away for too long if you want to stay sharp and build endurance. Real-life experience is irreplaceable.
For the newer gentlemen in this hobby, here’s another tip to save you time: don’t be afraid to explore different dynamics. When I first started, I wasn’t particularly “hands-on.” I wouldn’t describe myself as submissive, but I wasn’t assertive either. That changed in 2024 during a session that became a pivotal moment for me.
It was my first time getting to facefuck a girl, and it was incredible. I realized that I could be more hands-on, take charge, and show dominance while still being a gentleman. That “wow” moment showed me that many women appreciate when a man confidently takes the lead, as long as it’s done with respect. The phrase “Who’s your daddy?” suddenly made a lot more sense.
Now, here we are in 2025. So far, I’ve seen four girls this year, and I plan to keep going strong. I’ve learned from my past mistakes and intend to maintain consistency. Stamina is something you build over time, and I’m not letting mine go in the wrong direction again.
My advice to anyone exploring this world is simple: stay open, stay consistent, and don’t shy away from trying new things. You never know what you might discover—not just about the women you meet, but about yourself.
... I love the advice given. Not gonna lie tho, lot of shit has happened in between seeing all the latina providers that PD provides haha I feel I need to dig in more p stars, not that I haven't, just more bigger names I guess, wouldn't you recommend?
