Starting in this hobby has been one of the best things I’ve ever done. Not only have I met a ton of wonderful ladies, but I’ve also changed in the bedroom—so to speak. Just before I got started in this hobby, and for a while after, I wasn’t into licking pussy at all. I’d get nauseous after just...

Experience matters for sure. I’m a veteran—been seeing providers since I was 18, so over ten years now—and I’ll tell you this: confidence is everything. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced—confidence will make or break your session. If you go in hesitant, unsure, or nervous, it...

During the last few days I´ve covered a number of countries in the mini-series "Sex tourism spotlight". What's needed is one mega thread that lists all of these destinations. Europe, North America, Central America, Latin America and Asia is covered. Let's begin from one end and possibly the most...

I came across this post about how some girls lock you in a certain position (in order to make you finish faster). So I want to dive a little more down this topic. I’m sure that we've all experienced a girl or two that wants us to finish as quick as possible. Looking at it from the girl's...

The refractory period is nature’s version of a cooldown timer — it kicks in after orgasm and makes it temporarily impossible to get hard again. For some, that’s 10 minutes. For others, it’s hours. Or even a whole damn day. But here’s the wild part: it doesn’t hit the same after a solo session...

I got inspired to make this post after reading this thread. The website mentioned in the thread also looks… suspicious. The fact that it has a section titled "Is Sex Island real?" should be enough to make anyone think twice before handing over their money. Furthermore, yes, the New York Post...

This summer, I’m planning to visit one of the following places for hobbying, and I wanted to hear your thoughts and experiences. Each of these countries offers an incredible scene, low prices, and plenty of options—making them absolute paradises for hobbyists. If you’ve been to any of them, I’d...

Tyreek Hill is facing a $50,000 lawsuit after adult star Sophie Hall accused him of breaking her leg during a backyard football game—before they spent the night together in bed. Hall, an adult website model, claims that two years ago, Hill knocked her down with such force that she suffered a...

One thing we all want is to last long—have that stamina that makes you feel like a powerhouse in the bedroom. Even after 10 years in this hobby, I still find it challenging to maintain endurance at times. It depends on multiple factors, but over the years, I’ve learned a few key things that have...

Right now, I’m seriously considering funding my current PPM (Pay Per Meet) girl/former SB’s breast augmentation later this year. She currently has 385cc implants, and I want her to upgrade to 600cc. My plan is to fly to Spain with her, be there for the surgery, and then have her stay with me for...

To me, there are very few things in this world that can beat seeing escorts. The sheer rush of getting a confirmation from a girl you’ve been eyeing for a week is out of this world. Walking up the stairs to her place for an incall, nothing compares! This past week, I’ve treated myself to 6 or 7...

Back in early 2019, I decided to try something different—I fucked a regular provider without a condom for the very first time. I was incredibly excited, yet admittedly a bit anxious at the same time. Up until that point, I had always heard other gentlemen warn against “raw” sex with regular...

These conclusions are based on hundreds of conversations with escorts. Without further ado, here are some key observations: 1) When does the booked time start? An age-old question with no universal answer. The standard assumption is that time begins when the client and escort are ready to...

This hobby is absolutely incredible—one of the best in the world. It’s all about experiences, NO REGRETS. Okay, that might sound a bit cheesy, but it’s true. After being active for over ten years and meeting providers from what feels like every continent, I can confidently say that there’s a...

Happy Monday, everyone! I hope you all had a fantastic weekend—I sure did! 😉 As we kick off the week, I wanted to share my thoughts on why I believe no expense should be spared when seeing a provider—whether it's a non-PS provider or a pornstar—and why I think it's time we reconsider sugar...

¨ I'm going to share why I believe this hobby is the absolute best hobby in the world. For any gentlemen new to this, congratulations—you’ve chosen wisely! Let me explain, and I’m confident that seasoned hobbyists will agree. It's definitely easier to see providers than to have a girlfriend...

It’s no secret that one of the primary criteria for becoming a pornstar is the ability to last longer than the average man, who typically lasts between 5 to 7 minutes. Pornstars are expected not only to last longer but to maintain a consistent erection throughout lengthy recording sessions...

The age-old question in this hobby: What duration should you choose or book for? For a long time, I was a huge fan of one-hour bookings. Up until mid-2024, I found them to be sufficient for most of my encounters. However, as time has gone on, I’ve started to feel increasingly rushed when I only...

Sharing our stories within this hobby can be incredibly valuable. By opening up about our experiences, we create opportunities for others to learn, reflect, and perhaps approach the hobby with a broader perspective. There’s always knowledge to gain from the journeys of others, and I hope my...

The refractory period—ah yes, the Achilles’ heel of all gentlemen. Everyone suffers from it, and it is just NOT convenient, to say the least—especially not in this hobby. The refractory period will likely put a damper on more sessions than not. So, what is the science behind the refractory...