I get that and it makes sense. I would take the scenes she's done and if I can get her booked, set it up, and take it from there. Ive learned many of em are just as weary as we are. Put em at ease and sky is the limit. No G, no bs, just be you and that will get you where you need to go. Just tell her honestly what you're looking for.
Rogue was extremely understanding when I first saw her because I was real. Since then, ive seen her a few times and it's been on point.
This one is different which I get. If I get the feel she is about creating the environment and experience I want, then it don't matter who she fucking on screen. Your time is your time and it will be catered to what you're looking g for. That separates the ok from the exceptional.