I’ve had personal relationships with quite a few escorts—both higher-profile girls and more in the regular ballpark—and I’ve always been fascinated by questions many of us probably wonder about. Things like:
What do these girls really think about their clients? And
what are they like behind closed doors, when the workday is over or they’re taking a day off?
In my experience, most escorts are like most people: quiet at first, and it takes time for them to open up—which is completely okay. Others, though, are like open books from the very beginning. Those girls are rare, but that’s fine too. Every woman is different.
I’ve gotten most of the deeper answers to these kinds of questions from my two former ATFs/SBs—call them what you want. And I want to start with what escorts are like behind closed doors, because I find that part especially interesting.
Most escorts are almost exclusively friends with other sex workers—and you can’t blame them. Women are naturally competitive, and if these girls were close friends with 9-to-5 women in the corporate world, jealousy would likely rear its head. After all, the amount of money sex workers can make would easily spark envy.
In their free time, they do what every other girl does: they shop, go out to restaurants with friends, and gossip—about their clients, about each other, about life in general.
And trust me, they
do talk about you—especially if you're one of the clients who brings gifts or treats them well. If you become a regular and start developing a more personal relationship, you’re definitely a topic of conversation.
The truth is, most clients are just one-and-done—they visit once and never come back. Only a small fraction of clients become regulars. And from those regulars, only a fraction go on to build something personal or meaningful with the girl.
From what I’ve been told, if a girl sees 100 clients, maybe only 10 of them become regulars. That’s the number I got, anyway.
So to summarize:
- Most escorts are quite private people and take time to open up, just like anyone else.
- A small number of the girls are naturally like an open book from the beginning, but they’re the exception.
- Most of their social circle consists of other sex workers, not because they’re closed off, but because it’s easier and more supportive that way.
- In their free time, they do these 4 things—shop, eat out, gossip, relax.
- They definitely talk about their clients, especially the generous or memorable ones.
- The majority of clients are one-time visits.
- Only a small percentage of clients become regulars, and an even smaller percentage develop something personal.
