Ok so you know how women work. Sometimes younger kids do not that why I ask
This is kinda all over the place but whatever. For reference I’ve been seeing girls for over 20 years and my numbers are mind blowing but I feel like it makes me know how these women work and what this lifestyle/hobby whatever is like.
The girls you’re discribing want sugar daddy’s with no exclusivity, unless of course you want to give them 25-30k a month then the’ll lie to you and drive you nuts. Take you money and still see other guys while you’re at work. It’s the real girl friend experiences… I’ve been there sadly. These girls are great if you want to go on a vacation, have a work event, things like that. The gifts are unnecessary in my opinion but do help sometimes , save those for your real sugar baby.
Sometimes you’ll see these girls on seeking. It actually makes it pretty easy to set something up with them if you do lol
So the thing is this. Escorts all
Have different levels, starting with the street girls, then the ones online like private delights or Eros ect, then you get to the more “elite/exclusive” ones who are more usually more educated well spoken, beautiful ect. But they are all escorts at the end of the day with the goal of getting your money, like you mentioned that’s that’s job.
Get the money, get the guy to nut. Do as little
As possible. Get out the door. Go see the next guy.
They’re all same, they are hookers. Most just looking to make easy money. Maybe they start an only fans too, good for them
Pornstars are different, There is a massive differece between an escort with an only fans and a pornstar who escorts. these women do not get to their level Of success by being stupid. Yeah they’re sluts. Sex is fun, women can enjoy it too, personally i respect the grind of building the brand when they are young and able to.
That why me tryst is picky about the girls he does business with. This is a business not a hustle. And they earned those rates by getting into brazzers. Or other studios and building a million fan following ect
Doing this is a way for them to make money that can set them up for life if they’re smart about things. And they know that some of the guys seeing them have the means to become long term client and take them on trips and things like that, so maybe that’s your best bet. If you’re looking a longer more exclusive situation find a pornstar you genuinely get along with and do longer dates with her when she’s in town and then go have some random fun with the others that come through.
Not gonna lie, going on vacation with a pornstar is a fun experience if you have the financial ability to pull it off correctly. But you don’t do that with any girl you’ve only spent a couple of hours at a time time, and that’s where these elicit companions can be a good option as well, but personally I’d rather g9 with a fun pornstar, who knows it’s business and we argee on the business, not a girls who wants to suck every penny possible out of me with gifts, bags, jewelry, spa days and other bull shit. Name a price if it works it works. Any thing extra should be up to me the client not expected from you. That’s why I laugh.when hookers ask for tip
In contrast I’ve hand many pornstar who have planned a night out including them paying for dinner concert tickets ect. Yeah it probably built into the 10k overnight rate but still it was nice to in theory let a girl plan everything all I had to do was show up to Vegas or hop on a plane to Miami. That’s not happening with a hooker
Jessa Rhodes once told me, she knows it’s not the sex that guys pay her for, it’s jessa Rhodes experience, yeah we want to fuck her but that means they want to get to know her, have someone to talk to, listen to, whatever it may be. She’s spot on, pussy is pussy I’m trying to meet the pornstar. That why I’m giving her 4 figures and planning for a week and getting tested for her, not just seeing the girl who responds to a message at 9 pm and is willing or desperate enough to drive an hour for 500 bucks
With that said they(escorts) are all the same man and you’re better off sticking with the pornstars in your situation.. safety is there so you don’t need to use a condom, and if you treat a pornstar right they can become a great roster member knowing it’s a business relationship with no feeling but still be genuine and themselves. After all sex is sex and love is love, and these women have sex for a living and many have a family back at home. Know and respect that and your golden with the pornstars.
Seems like you’re in new youk so you have plenty of options coming through all year so there’s no need to settle down with one girl who is ultimately just looking to get your money.
but the porn girls in general have a different approach for a virity of reason, you mentioned you get tested regularly, so do they, and they are more comfortable with it becuse they use the same services for there job. And many are financially well Off with only fans etc which is why rates are what they are. 5k for Kendra sunderland might turn off a lot of guys. Good she doesn’t want to see them anyway and will Be just fine with out that money. But if you can afford 5k and want to see her. Then she’s going to make you enjoy every second that you’re with her for a $1.83 a second. I highly recommend her if you can afford it. And without asking I assume hour 2-8 are more reasonable. It’s probably more and and starting point for longer dates. Maybe tryst can confim this.
But regarding bbfs traditional escort’s do not like doing that on the first date simple as that. And the one that offer should be a red flag. Testing is not the norm in that world and as a client you should have your guard up with the Girls that offer it, unless of course they do the same testing and offer their results as well.
That said, personally I think with the wrong head ofter and have always been ok but still. But it seems like you are careful for a reason. So
You probably want a girl who is equally careful.
The porn girls see it as a business yes but in general they know the Guys seeing them are fans who want to meet them and you generally are happy to meet their fans, and capitalize on the name and brand that they have built that allows them to charge much higher rates than traditional escorts, which also makes them more exclusive and less attainable for the average John who’s just looking to get laid on payday
Obviously it’s a business for them as well but in 20 years of doing this I can tell you this. The world of pornstar escorts is 100x better than the world of traditional escorts. I can count on one hand the number of bad pornstar experiences iv had over the years. If you treat them they way you describe they will appreciate you and give you a fantastic experience that will Only get better the more you see them.
Anyway off to meet new friend who’s in town dancing at the local strip club Tonight…. Any guesses?
I was close with a few others but that's the exception, not the rule. So to the point 
