Chicago has some great options. Check out the names mentioned in this thread:
https://escortaccess.net/threads/of-or-utr-in-chicago.7684/
Ok so its probably a good lesson for you to learn to do your research. First things first is cross referencing this list with websites like TER, whatever the local review board is for Chicago, other websites that discuss the matter etc.
Then there's the art of reading an ad on websites like tryst, slixa, private delights.
I just did tryst and came up with the following ads:
Ahvani is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "GFE, FETISH & NURU – Petite Perfection! 10/10 Experience Of A Lifetime I am Ahvani, a sultry companion looking for gentlemen who enjoy partaking in the finer things. ..."
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Calliste Camu is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "Dream of Life In Extremes – My name is Calliste, a modelesque bundle of spontaneity and fun. My Eastern European roots blessed me with my lithe, petite frame and beautiful cur..."
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https://tryst.link/escort/nazarmarz (the only curvy option I selected)
Korean Valentine Vina is a female Escort from Toronto, Ontario, Canada. ❤ "5'0 Petite Korean Sweetheart – Hi, I'm Valentine Vina 3. As a petite young woman of 5'0 in height, I'm one of the smallest escorts you'll find but one that will leave a large imp..."
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Bowie Sinclair is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "Goth Babe Next Door – I'm the kinky goth next door who's just dying to meet you! Let's get together and create something intimate, unique, playful, and maybe a little da..."
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https://tryst.link/escort/summercolxoxo (unexpected pornstar Summer Col
(Tryst Agency))
Chaya Green is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "Heartland wild thing – Hi there! I’m Chaya, a Midwestern companion with a large garden and even bigger appetite for human connection. I love hunts- the scavenger sort mo..."
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https://tryst.link/escort/jadenikki (another pornstar)
trippirose is a female Escort from Oak Brook, Illinois, United States. ❤ "kinky princess – To my long time fans, I couldn’t be more grateful for you. My life is coming to a turning point and my retirement is around the corner. After spri..."
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Violeta is a female Escort from Columbus, Ohio, United States. ❤ "Only3 days in town!CATCH ME! – NEW GIRL IN TOWN!DON'T MISS IT!Hello GENTLEMEN!!! I'm the fun, energetic, always curious and naturally charged girl you want to be around, by your ..."
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Midwest Kali is a female Escort from Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States. ❤ "• Your Sensual Sidekick • – What you see is what you get...I am a sweet, sexy, free spirited, adventurous woman from the Midwest! I love to laugh and am frequently complimen..."
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Ariel is a female Escort from Schaumburg, Illinois, United States. ❤ "MILF, GFE Avail in Hoffman est – X: ChiLandAriel I have a heavy online presence so yall will feel comfortable booking me. I ACTUALLY do in person and I’m real. New boobs done ..."
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Brittany Marie is a female Escort from South Bend, Indiana, United States. ❤ "Classy and Fun Model. – I've been told that I have a unique ability to make others feel at ease, which fosters a natural flow of conversation. I am easygoing and straigh..."
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Natalia May is a female Escort from Dallas, Texas, United States. ❤ "All natural long-legged model – No doubt, my pictures have captured your gaze, piqued your interest, and set your imagination afire. Now don’t you want to get to know this exotic ..."
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https://tryst.link/escort/miraconnor (6'5, gonna fly her out one day myself)
Milf Montero/Natalie Winters is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "Greek freak MILF Montero – Hey y’all. My name is MILF Montero. You may have also seen me as Natalie Winters. I provide incalls as well as outcalls within the loop. I am happ..."
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Sadie Lola is a female Escort from Buenos Aires, Argentina. ❤ " – TER 383284 Hello, gentlemen! If you are visiting Buenos Aires, Argentina, it will be a pleasure to share with you. I am a sexy argentinian girl,..."
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Mia Carolina is a female Escort from New Orleans, Louisiana, United States. ❤ "Brazilian Porn Star – I am Mia Carolina, a sophisticated and stunning Brazilian Pornstar. I have a gift for making people feel comfortable, to seek new experiences toget..."
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Kurumi Gray is a female Escort from Chicago, Illinois, United States. ❤ "Busty Euro-Japanese GF – Hi, I’m Rumi. I’m an Eurasian provider based in Chicago. I’m a sensual bombshell with all natural curves. I have a classic Japanese look with hin..."
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I tried to keep it below $800 an hour but I honestly didn't trust or like the look of some of the cheaper providers. And I didn't feel like resubbing to TER just to be sure about any of them. So I went with my practiced eye assessment.
Here's my short mental checklist that each of them passed for risk assessment (except for 4 and 5 which I haven't checked yet).
1. Interest check: Did my dick twitch when I looked at their ad?
2. Vibe check: Does the ad seem like its well written, do the pics seem legit (tineye is your friend if you need to do reverse image search), does the provider carry themselves like I would expect them to)
3. P411 or TER reference: Do they have a TER ID or a P411 account. Higher class escorts and certainly reliable ones tend to. Sketchy ones don't make the investment.
4. Review board presence: Closer to making the decision, I search the internet far and wide for any mention of her. If she has a lot of TER reviews that are positive, ok that's a start. If I have the connections on the review boards to ask those who have reviewed her more specific questions that require discretion, I do so at this point. Usually I wanna know about BBFS when I did ask.
5. Review content: This is how I figure out what's typical for the provider. This is also when I see overt mentions of BBFS if its going to come up at all. Otherwise, a backchannel inquiry is required.
6. What comes up when I pull up the number or search their social media? This is for less reputable sites
7. Does her ad have contact information or an onlyfans: If its a tryst ad with no email or phone number, its a write off. If it says contact her on her OF or it links to an OF. And if that OF clearly isn't hers (as in all other information you have makes it clear that the OF is just a way to get a sneak peek at her, its not her pretending to be some OF creator), bounce.
8. Does her ad seem underpriced for the pictures displayed: Pretty quick bait and switch check-off. If she's offering 250-300 and she looks like a 700-1000 dollar girl ,that shit ain't real bro.
9. Does she mention PSE, VIP, or BBFS at all: Usually BBFS is mentioned in the context of "I don't do this, don't fucking ask." PSE hints at it, VIP kinda does but idk it's kinda like that shit corinthian leather: sounds good but its probably not shit.
If they mentioned needing a test to see them or that she offers PSE with a test, ok she just told you she's down for au natural more likely than not.
10. Does she offer "greek": Not a deal breaker but its an indication of openmindness. Who doesn't want anal to be on the table.
Being able to look at an ad and suss out the bullshit takes years of experience and trial and error. These are the ladies who are currently in the "probable" category for me.
From here what I do is I go do my homework. If I like what I see and am hearing from others, and I don't got any fucking red flags popping up, I move on to narrowing it down to the top three or five.
Then, I send a short booking email, modified based on how much detail they want. Some providers do want that whole story and all your interests. Otherwise this is the basic script.
"SUBJECT LINE: "Incall Request, 2hr, NYC, Feb 25"
Message Body:
Good Afternoon (so and so),
I am Solitaire, a 34 y/o Paraguayan Egyptian male. I found your ad on (tryst, slixa, eros, etc.). I am reaching out to screen with you prior to a potential booking in February. I have included references from three providers I have seen in the past (AND/OR "I have included verification information as requested, including LinkedIn, social media, and the appropriate government IDs). Please contact me if you require any more information from me to complete your screening process. Hope to hear from you soon. Take care and be well."
That is it. That is how you're supposed to do it.
And you don't talk about anything explicit unless she does. Or if you do want talk off the record, after being screened, ask if she can speak off the record or if she would be open to discussing things over coffee or drinks prior to going through with the full booking. What I mean by that is if you wanna feel her out, book a three hour date and set aside one hour for a mutual vibe check and to figure out if she'll let you do all that you wish to do. Or ask if you can do an encrypted video chat, on apps like signal or via a zoom call. Anything with end-to-end encryption. Or even just a phone call.
Remember, there's a reason nothing explicit is discussed outside of the room but if you figure out a way that protects both parties anonymity and ensures that anything she does tell you doesn't come back to her, maybe you can get some honest answers then. Sometimes even a normal phone call will do it if they care to. I've had that happen once or twice.
After that email is sent, stick to quick, succint scheduling emails. Time, place, amount. Take it out from the bank or an ATM, shove it in an envelope. Go to the meet. If she looks like who she's supposed to be good, if not you're most likely walking at this point unless she's cute enough (a problem with lower class girls from websites like escortalligator, a aggregator). Otherwise, if all goes well, leave the envelope somewhere she can see it and go freshen up in the bathroom. It gives her a chance to count it, is reassuring, and its also a mark of professionalism and discretion; not everyone remembers the envelope.
Matter of fact, while we're talking about leaving donations, try to remember to ask her if she'd like anything from the store before you even get there. Nothing big, just like "hey I'm grabbing a bottle of water while I wait, you want anything?" Don't gotta be rich to be generous, just thoughtful and kind. Anyway, moving on.
Talk a bit, relax, ask your questions then. If its the BBFS question, I hope you have some extra money in hand but probably don't even ask then. There's apparently an art to getting it from a non-PS provider and I'm not looking to become an expert in it. I can tell you it does happen and it usually involves it being offered to you, not you asking.
Anyway, at this point, you're cleared hot; go do what you came to do. Don't forget consent exists and be a fucking gentleman. Don't hurt nobody, don't be an asshole. If she gives you static or it gets weird, cut your losses and just walk; fuck your pride, fuck your dignity. Otherwise if all goes well, you've had a good time and are starting to build a rapport with her as a hopeful returnee, regular, and good client.
Overall, keep it simple, concise, and focused. Data dump that you even know what sex is until you're in the room. When in the room, be polite, be a gentleman, but feel free to be yourself at this point and to ask about likes, dislikes, etc. And feel free to enjoy fucking the hell out of your companion for the night.
Good luck.
