Post-encounter blues

[Deleted member 1505]

I will say it is awesome when a fan connects with a provider and it feels real...Lily is one of those girls that gives her all. I have a few on my roster that put their heart and soul into meetings. Veronica Avluv was the best at this. Listen I would love nothing more than to have you all spend money on ladies all the time but just like any good guide I am here to steer you clear of pitfalls and loosing all your hard earned money
So I will give you this mantra as a gift
I will say three words to help you remind yourself and your pocket book before you start buying gifts and stuff

THIS IS FANTASY

ITS THIER JOB

while you may be able to make some great friends..its ALMOST (97.65% I did the math) Almost always gonna be transactional in some way

What’s the 2.35%?

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[trystagency]

What’s the 2.35%?

sometime you sweep a girl off her feet

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[tj853]

sometime you sweep a girl off her feet

Time to go an extra spray with my Drakkar Noir!

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[bobcent98]

@sezz66 I guess you couldn't tell from my profile pic It was Lily Lou (Tryst Agency).

Review?

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[tj853]

Review?

https://escortaccess.net/threads/lily-lou-review.4850/

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[Swytypy]

Yea I caught the feels bad and posted about it here. Not with a PS but it is what it is. I think people still go to that post but I stopped watching the thread because it only gets worse day after day. Like, it hasn’t gotten one iota better so I pray you don’t have to go through the absolute hell I’ve been going through with that situation. But good news for you is you’ve only seen her once and she’s so expensive/famous, I can’t imagine it being that hard to disassociate.

If you can't imagine it being hard to disassociate, then you obviously never met Lily. She's unique in all the meaningful ways. I'm truly sorry for what you've gone through with your situation. I'm someone who feels a lot, and I always have. I love hard, and fall hard, and suffer hard when things don't work out. I get it. I hope it gets better for you.

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[smooth702]

NO. Never happened. Could NEVER happen. I swear. Some of you guys act like you never had pussy before. Sorry. But this shit is pathetic.

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[Swytypy]

sometime you sweep a girl off her feet

@trystagency I truly do appreciate your experience and words of wisdom. I completely get that it's a fantasy and it's her job. Logically, it makes perfect sense, and logically, using my brain, even that 2.35% shouldn't be something that happens. And as you already know, I'm continuing to explore this new hobby outside of Lily even while waiting desperately to book Lily whenever she hits up the east coast again. I'll spend whatever time with her I can afford to spend as long as she's willing and I'm interested. Because emotionally, there really was a kind of chemistry I didn't expect to feel given what this should have been, and even though I know it wasn't real (or wasn't real enough to really mean anything outside of what happened in that hotel room), it left an "echo" of sorts that's still there. As I mentioned above, I'm an emotional guy who gets the feels, and she is a phenomenal woman who just oozes all of the goodness in the world. I'd love nothing more than to be Lily's 2.35%. I don't expect it, I'm not putting any emotional stock in it, but when I lay in bed at night, I'm going to allow the fantasy to play out in my head, because it can't do any harm then and there. It's just feelings. I'll get past them, or I won't. As long as it doesn't distract me from doing my job and making the money I need to make to support the hobby, then I'm doing ok, and I'm getting out of this what I hoped to get out of it. Probably more than I expected.

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[Swytypy]

NO. Never happened. Could NEVER happen. I swear. Some of you guys act like you never had pussy before. Sorry. But this shit is pathetic.

@smooth702 If you read my original post, it wasn't about the pussy. Wasn't about the blow job. If you're not the kind of guy who could ever let the intimacy of an encounter like this affect you, then I'm both happy and sad for you. But you do you, and I'll do me. Calling me and the others pathetic for having different feelings and approaches to the hobby than you do isn't necessary or cool.

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[Deleted member 1505]

If you can't imagine it being hard to disassociate, then you obviously never met Lily. She's unique in all the meaningful ways. I'm truly sorry for what you've gone through with your situation. I'm someone who feels a lot, and I always have. I love hard, and fall hard, and suffer hard when things don't work out. I get it. I hope it gets better for you.

I’ll be fine man. I just gotta actively not think about it.

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[Deleted member 1505]

NO. Never happened. Could NEVER happen. I swear. Some of you guys act like you never had pussy before. Sorry. But this shit is pathetic.

I hope you never have to go through it but yea you don’t get it. There is no level of machismo that can block out what pussy that good can do, I’m sorry!

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[Swytypy]

I’ll be fine man. I just gotta actively not think about it.

That sounds like an oxymoron. The harder I try to not think about something, the more I think about it!

I'd suggest booking with someone else as a distraction to your situation, but as much as I've been extolling Lily's virtues the past few days on here and telling everyone to go book her, maybe you should avoid her at all costs

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[Deleted member 1505]

That sounds like an oxymoron. The harder I try to not think about something, the more I think about it!

I'd suggest booking with someone else as a distraction to your situation, but as much as I've been extolling Lily's virtues the past few days on here and telling everyone to go book her, maybe you should avoid her at all costs

Brother, I have been with dozens of pornstars and have fucked hundreds of women from all over the world including Japan, Mexico, and the Philippines, all over the East and west coasts of America and I’m telling you there is no pussy like that pussy. There is no cure for me. I’ll just not think about it.

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[smooth702]

What’s the 2.35%?

I hope you never have to go through it but yea you don’t get it. There is no level of machismo that can block out what pussy that good can do, I’m sorry!

Look man. I "Get" it more than you could possibly imagine. Have actually spent the night with my ALL time fave. This has also happened with a VERY popular provider in Phoenix who also fucked me free off the clock cause she dug me. At NO point did i fall in "love" with either one. One of these connections is as deep as they come. BUT, I still know the deal and managed to not catch "feelings" as someone referred to it. NO machismo involved dude. I'm just a grown ass man who's been around for awhile (58) and believe in maintaining a realistic outlook on this hobby. You actually had one guy here admit that he was heartbroken after seeing a new BG scene drop from a lady he fell for after a session. And you say "I" don't get it? Come on man. This is the kind of stuff that ironically turns some of these ladies off from escorting. Fyi: The 2.35% refers to the SUPER rare instance where something deep meaning, and loving develops from a rendezvous.

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[Swytypy]

Brother, I have been with dozens of pornstars and have fucked hundreds of women from all over the world including Japan, Mexico, and the Philippines, all over the East and west coasts of America and I’m telling you there is no pussy like that pussy. There is no cure for me. I’ll just not think about it.

Good luck with that. I hope you meant pussy figuratively and not literally. It wasn't the physical connection for me.

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[Swytypy]

Look man. I "Get" it more than you could possibly imagine. Have actually spent the night with my ALL time fave. This has also happened with a VERY popular provider in Phoenix who also fucked me free off the clock cause she dug me. At NO point did i fall in "love" with either one. One of these connections is as deep as they come. BUT, I still know the deal and managed to not catch "feelings" as someone referred to it. NO machismo involved dude. I'm just a grown ass man who's been around for awhile (58) and believe in maintaining a realistic outlook on this hobby. You actually had one guy here admit that he was heartbroken after seeing a new BG scene drop from a lady he fell for after a session. And you say "I" don't get it? Come on man. This is the kind of stuff that ironically turns some of these ladies off from escorting. Fyi: The 2.35% refers to the SUPER rare instance where something deep meaning, and loving develops from a rendezvous.

If the mention of the BG scene drop you're referring to is from my original post, then you misread the meaning behind it, taking it literally instead of figuratively. I was trying to start a conversation to see if I was alone in how I felt, and made an analogy. Judging by the responses, I'm obviously not alone, with very one notable exception

And I for one never said I fell in love. If I was so deeply in love, why would I write such a glowing review and plaster all over this site how amazing she is and how everyone should book her? Wow, I guess my love must be so deep and so true that I'd rather sacrifice my own happiness so she can make money. I'm a hell of a guy.

You've taken a pleasant conversation between mostly like-minded people, with some well-meaning advice thrown in from others, and intentionally insulted people more provocatively than necessary for how they feel after misreading the context of the post and taking it more literally than it was intended. We get it. You're older, more experienced in the hobby and in life and stronger emotionally than we are. Congratulations. I'm sure there are tons of posts on this site where you can make positive contributions, but I don't think this is one of them.

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[smooth702]

@smooth702 If you read my original post, it wasn't about the pussy. Wasn't about the blow job. If you're not the kind of guy who could ever let the intimacy of an encounter like this affect you, then I'm both happy and sad for you. But you do you, and I'll do me. Calling me and the others pathetic for having different feelings and approaches to the hobby than you do isn't

If the mention of the BG scene drop you're referring to is from my original post, then you misread the meaning behind it, taking it literally instead of figuratively. I was trying to start a conversation to see if I was alone in how I felt, and made an analogy. Judging by the responses, I'm obviously not alone, with very one notable exception

And I for one never said I fell in love. If I was so deeply in love, why would I write such a glowing review and plaster all over this site how amazing she is and how everyone should book her? Wow, I guess my love must be so deep and so true that I'd rather sacrifice my own happiness so she can make money. I'm a hell of a guy.

You've taken a pleasant conversation between mostly like-minded people, with some well-meaning advice thrown in from others, and intentionally insulted people more provocatively than necessary for how they feel after misreading the context of the post and taking it more literally than it was intended. We get it. You're older, more experienced in the hobby and in life and stronger emotionally than we are. Congratulations. I'm sure there are tons of posts on this site where you can make positive contributions, but I don't think this is one of them.

If the mention of the BG scene drop you're referring to is from my original post, then you misread the meaning behind it, taking it literally instead of figuratively. I was trying to start a conversation to see if I was alone in how I felt, and made an analogy. Judging by the responses, I'm obviously not alone, with very one notable exception

And I for one never said I fell in love. If I was so deeply in love, why would I write such a glowing review and plaster all over this site how amazing she is and how everyone should book her? Wow, I guess my love must be so deep and so true that I'd rather sacrifice my own happiness so she can make money. I'm a hell of a guy.

You've taken a pleasant conversation between mostly like-minded people, with some well-meaning advice thrown in from others, and intentionally insulted people more provocatively than necessary for how they feel after misreading the context of the post and taking it more literally than it was intended. We get it. You're older, more experienced in the hobby and in life and stronger emotionally than we are. Congratulations. I'm sure there are tons of posts on this site where you can make positive contributions, but I don't think this is one of them.

Look man.

If the mention of the BG scene drop you're referring to is from my original post, then you misread the meaning behind it, taking it literally instead of figuratively. I was trying to start a conversation to see if I was alone in how I felt, and made an analogy. Judging by the responses, I'm obviously not alone, with very one notable exception

And I for one never said I fell in love. If I was so deeply in love, why would I write such a glowing review and plaster all over this site how amazing she is and how everyone should book her? Wow, I guess my love must be so deep and so true that I'd rather sacrifice my own happiness so she can make money. I'm a hell of a guy.

You've taken a pleasant conversation between mostly like-minded people, with some well-meaning advice thrown in from others, and intentionally insulted people more provocatively than necessary for how they feel after misreading the context of the post and taking it more literally than it was intended. We get it. You're older, more experienced in the hobby and in life and stronger emotionally than we are. Congratulations. I'm sure there are tons of posts on this site where you can make positive contributions, but I don't think this is one of them.

Look man. Just stop. And in the future i would follow the advice of Tryst Agency

If the mention of the BG scene drop you're referring to is from my original post, then you misread the meaning behind it, taking it literally instead of figuratively. I was trying to start a conversation to see if I was alone in how I felt, and made an analogy. Judging by the responses, I'm obviously not alone, with very one notable exception

And I for one never said I fell in love. If I was so deeply in love, why would I write such a glowing review and plaster all over this site how amazing she is and how everyone should book her? Wow, I guess my love must be so deep and so true that I'd rather sacrifice my own happiness so she can make money. I'm a hell of a guy.

You've taken a pleasant conversation between mostly like-minded people, with some well-meaning advice thrown in from others, and intentionally insulted people more provocatively than necessary for how they feel after misreading the context of the post and taking it more literally than it was intended. We get it. You're older, more experienced in the hobby and in life and stronger emotionally than we are. Congratulations. I'm sure there are tons of posts on this site where you can make positive contributions, but I don't think this is one of them.

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[smooth702]

What are you even talking about? I was NOT referring to you when i alluded to the guy being butt hurt after seeing the lady he was smitten with dropping BG scenes after they got together.

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[Swytypy]

What are you even talking about? I was NOT referring to you when i alluded to the guy being butt hurt after seeing the lady he was smitten with dropping BG scenes after they got together.

Sorry, I assumed you were referring to this from my original post:

"knowing she went right onto the next booking and her next scene, almost as if you didn’t exist"

But I'm good with stopping this back and forth with you now, like you suggested in your last reply.

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[smooth702]

Sorry, I assumed you were referring to this from my original post:

"knowing she went right onto the next booking and her next scene, almost as if you didn’t exist"

But I'm good with stopping this back and forth with you now, like you suggested in your last reply.

It's cool.

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