Nicole Doshi won’t see me

[Deleted member 1505]

Idk why. I send the LinkedIn portion of her screening and she just ghosts me after. Every single time. I wish she would just tell me why. Especially after...

Idk why. I send the LinkedIn portion of her screening and she just ghosts me after. Every single time. I wish she would just tell me why. Especially after revealing such personal information about myself.

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[sapphi10489]

You get on any blacklists?

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[Deleted member 1505]

You get on any blacklists?

How would I know?

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[sapphi10489]

How would I know?

Have any problems booking other providers? Criminal record or anything? There are various blacklists. Or you can just ask one of her friends for a referral?

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[miguelrivera55]

Move on to the next provider and dont contact her no more. The more you contact her, it's justifying her reasons for not seeing you.

A lot more asian providers.

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[Deleted member 1505]

Have any problems booking other providers? Criminal record or anything? There are various blacklists. Or you can just ask one of her friends for a referral?

I googled my name and I share the same first and last name as some idiot criminal. Whatever idgaf anymore. You can’t screen me and see that’s not me than idk what to fucking say.

A lot of people have that name. Idk.

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[Deleted member 1505]

Move on to the next provider and dont contact her no more. The more you contact her, it's justifying her reasons for not seeing you.

A lot more asian providers.

How is it justifying anything?

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[Deleted member 1505]

Have any problems booking other providers? Criminal record or anything? There are various blacklists. Or you can just ask one of her friends for a referral?

No I don’t have any problems with anyone else

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[miguelrivera55]

How is it justifying anything?

You posted "she just ghosts me after. Every single time", meaning you've been making more than one attempt to book despite you actually realizing (and acknowledging) she's ghosting you. Why would you continue contacting someone who isn't responding to you?

Nothing wrong with sending one follow up email, but after the second attempt I would leave it alone and move on. Not sure how often you're contacting her but she probably ignored you for a reason and you continuing to contact her is justifying her initial reason for ghosting you.

My advice, I would stop contacting her and move on. She's not the only pornstar.

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[Deleted member 1505]

You posted "she just ghosts me after. Every single time", meaning you've been making more than one attempt to book despite you actually realizing (and acknowledging) she's ghosting you. Why would you continue contacting someone who isn't responding to you?

Nothing wrong with sending one follow up email, but after the second attempt I would leave it alone and move on. Not sure how often you're contacting her but she probably ignored you for a reason and you continuing to contact her is justifying her initial reason for ghosting you.

My advice, I would stop contacting her and move on. She's not the only pornstar.

She never gave a reason. She replies every time I reach out. Why, do you work for her? Telling me to stop contacting. Stop talking to me secret agent

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[shion]

You posted "she just ghosts me after. Every single time", meaning you've been making more than one attempt to book despite you actually realizing (and acknowledging) she's ghosting you. Why would you continue contacting someone who isn't responding to you?

Nothing wrong with sending one follow up email, but after the second attempt I would leave it alone and move on. Not sure how often you're contacting her but she probably ignored you for a reason and you continuing to contact her is justifying her initial reason for ghosting you.

My advice, I would stop contacting her and move on. She's not the only pornstar.

Some of the chicks are unorganized asf though. Addressing you by someone else name or thinking you're in one city but you're 2 states away.

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[miguelrivera55]

She never gave a reason. She replies every time I reach out. Why, do you work for her? Telling me to stop contacting. Stop talking to me secret agent

Most women don't and why is that bothering you to the point you're getting defensive towards me and hung up over her? Just move on to another porn star instead of being hung up over her not responding to you. But now your story isn't adding up, now you're backtracking saying she replies back to you.

No disrespect and not an attack but you come off as inexperienced. When you hit uncertain age(preferably no later than college age) every male should know how to deal with rejection. But if you want to contact her 2 times a day for the next three months have at it. Personally, I would move on.

Fun fact: when she was an independent provider in NYC 2019, she did the same. I didn't do a follow up email and moved on to the next.


To each his own, good luck and have a great life.

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[miguelrivera55]

Some of the chicks are unorganized asf though. Addressing you by someone else name or thinking you're in one city but you're 2 states away.

True, but to continually contact someone that ghosting for a long period of time is self punishment, a waste of time and not normal.

I mean, I don't think shes the only pornstar out there.

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[Deleted member 1505]

Most women don't and why is that bothering you to the point you're getting defensive towards me and hung up over her? Just move on to another porn star instead of being hung up over her not responding to you. But now your story isn't adding up, now you're backtracking saying she replies back to you.

No disrespect and not an attack but you come off as inexperienced. When you hit uncertain age(preferably no later than college age) every male should know how to deal with rejection. But if you want to contact her 2 times a day for the next three months have at it. Personally, I would move on.

Fun fact: when she was an independent provider in NYC 2019, she did the same. I didn't do a follow up email and moved on to the next.


To each his own, good luck and have a great life.

Who said I was contacting her that much? Every time doesn’t mean twice a day. If I see her ad pop up on Eros, I reach out to see if our schedules align. If she never gives a reason for “ghosting” I don’t really know if she’s actually ignoring me or busy/overbooked like she always eventually says. You act like this isn’t a highly demanded provider. And then trying to attack me saying I’m not normal.

But if she ignored me for a reason, why did she ghost you? Or are you projecting? Ironic you’re the Nicole Doshi apologist for her disorganized screening process. She’s independent. You’re the one out of touch with reality acting like this is the same as my HS sweetheart ignoring me. I just wanted to see if it was happening to others. And now I know. Thanks.

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[shion]

True, but to continually contact someone that ghosting for a long period of time is self punishment, a waste of time and not normal.

I mean, I don't think shes the only pornstar out there.

True. But what I am referring to is the instances where they don't keep in touch because they are un organized.

I've had enough experience with providers who drop all contact then a week later trying to schedule something after NOT hearing from them in 2 weeks????!!!!!


Sometimes, I wonder if I'm on a Blacklist

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[miguelrivera55]

True. But what I am referring to is the instances where they don't keep in touch because they are un organized.

I've had enough experience with providers who drop all contact then a week later trying to schedule something after NOT hearing from them in 2 weeks????!!!!!


Sometimes, I wonder if I'm on a Blacklist

Where you continously contacting them within those two weeks? Or there was radio silence on your end and the reached out?

Personally I send one email and a follow up a a couple days later then leave the ball in their court. I don't have time to chase one person constantly, IMHO.

To each his own.

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[shion]

Where you continously contacting them within those two weeks? Or there was radio silence on your end and the reached out?

Personally I send one email and a follow up a a couple days later then leave the ball in their court. I don't have time to chase one person constantly, IMHO.

To each his own.

No .
After initial emails, they request verification which I gladly provide. I follow up to make sure they received the verification.

That when the radio silence occurs.

I'm like : Did you get it? If not , I 'll send it again...just some feedback would be nice.

Other, I'm thinking you're a scam or your account has been hacked.

You have my personal info....I don't have yours.

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[miguelrivera55]

No .
After initial emails, they request verification which I gladly provide. I follow up to make sure they received the verification.

That when the radio silence occurs.

I'm like : Did you get it? If not , I 'll send it again...just some feedback would be nice.

Other, I'm thinking you're a scam or your account has been hacked.

You have my personal info....I don't have yours.

People are weird like that with communicating. Everyone is attached to their cell phones, so it's not like they don't see the emails or texts.Kinda like my previous response the ball is in their court. I never sit around waiting because you don't know the reason why they're not responding. You'll never have actual control over that kind of thing. The OP stated "Every single time" he's getting ghosted. I don't know how often he's contacting her but it's sounds off to continue contacting someone who is ghosting you.

The OP is playing the victim card through this entire thread especially when I gave him basic advice. Dude throwing a temper tantrum to the point he named calling her (now he edited it out). Like I said, her ignoring the dude sound justified just how he's acting. But I wish him well and hope it don't get him blackballed or a restraining order.

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[Deleted member 1505]

People are weird like that with communicating. Everyone is attached to their cell phones, so it's not like they don't see the emails or texts.Kinda like my previous response the ball is in their court. I never sit around waiting because you don't know the reason why they're not responding. You'll never have actual control over that kind of thing. The OP stated "Every single time" he's getting ghosted. I don't know how often he's contacting her but it's sounds off to continue contacting someone who is ghosting you.

The OP is playing the victim card through this entire thread especially when I gave him basic advice. Dude throwing a temper tantrum to the point he named calling her (now he edited it out). Like I said, her ignoring the dude sound justified just how he's acting. But I wish him well and hope it don't get him blackballed or a restraining order.

Would you stop trying to slander me in your comments? You’re the one that immediately jumped to several conclusions about me being a criminal of some sorts. So I ask again, if she has a quote “reason” for ghosting, why did she ghost you? I bet you won’t answer that one question. Why are you PROJECTING? Why would anything I’ve done or said get me a restraining order? Why do you keep putting things in bold text and grabbing pull quotes from my comments to frame out of context? Stop trying to slander me. I already said that she replies when I reach out to her but she always asks for another selfie or my LinkedIn and then radio silence. If you look at post history, this is over a span of several months maybe a year, not twice a day you fucking prick. How often do I ask about her? Not that much.

“Everyone is attached to their cell phone” —Yeah and you really think this is her main line and not an agent/friend that helps her? The purpose of this post was to see if this is common with her but you’ve just been hell bent on making me out to be a criminal. Apologize to me immediately.

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