Am I wrong when asking Providers...

[shion]

.....to clarify price inconsistency?

This provider ,I've been trying to meet up with. We finally set the date for this weekend.

I noticed the price...

.....to clarify price inconsistency?

This provider ,I've been trying to meet up with. We finally set the date for this weekend.

I noticed the price inconsistency in her ad. A $200 discrepancy. I inquired about it but she seemed clueless or stubborn about it even after I sent her screenshots.
I don't haggle but like as much clarification as possible.
we were first corresponding through email. When I brought up the discrepancy, I didn't get a reply.
So I texted her screenshots.
She texted back asking why did I send the screen shots????

I thought maybe I broke protocol or something but I explained my reasoning.

I then sent her another email about the discrepancy.

She reiterated the higher price as opposed to the lower one listed in her ad.

I'm turned off by the whole thing now and maybe she is too.


At least, your ad should reflect your pricing..especially if someone points it put to you.

Am I the one overreacting? if so I apologize on my behalf.

I just think her attitude towards it is off putting.

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[FishMonger]

its a free market, they name the price, you agree or disagree. there is no guarantee that whatever someone else paid, or whatever past prices may have been will be the price they quote you. there is no 'logic' here. they name the price, you agree or disagree. thats the deal.

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[shion]

its a free market, they name the price, you agree or disagree. there is no guarantee that whatever someone else paid, or whatever past prices may have been will be the price they quote you. there is no 'logic' here. they name the price, you agree or disagree. thats the deal.

But am I'm saying : State that exactly in your ad.
Don't quote 2 different prices in the same ad.
That's adds confusion

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[PorkysReturn]

You right but its a losing battle

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[HolyShitsHim]

How old is the old price ad?

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[FishMonger]

I'm not suggesting that I prefer it this way, but every ad is only a snapshot in the past of what it cost at that point. Its not a contract , its a stock ticker. think lobster on the menu, its market price and market price is just a number they make up.

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[PorkysReturn]

I'm not suggesting that I prefer it this way, but every ad is only a snapshot in the past of what it cost at that point. Its not a contract , its a stock ticker. think lobster on the menu, its market price and market price is just a number they make up.

i mean lets call it what it is, its messed up but theres nothing that can be done. He should just move on.

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[plrboy8857]

Rule of thumb: if you find a price discrepancy between to sources e.g. Ad vs her website always assume the higher price.
Even though you may be in every right to get clarification, it tends to cheapen you in the end. I say this because you’re playing in an industry/hobby that’s luxury. So providers on one end are getting clients that don’t care about money and just spend thousands on them and on the other end they’re getting clients that are asking questions in order to save a couple hundreds. You’re being compared to a very high benchmark. It doesn’t translate well.

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[shion]

How old is the old price ad?

It's in her ad NOW. In the actual

Here 's part of her ad:

"I am a dream woman waiting to please you! My rate is 400 for 60 min and 300 for 30. That is my minimum. I do not offer QV. "

Incall
1 Hour
US$500
Outcall
I Hr
$500

Am I missing something in asking for clarification?

How old is the old price ad?

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[tinman]

While it is one thing about a price discrepancy on the ad what is worst is when the provider decides to Jack up the price after she has you all worked up such as extra for BBJ extra for MSOG when you assumed that it was all inclusive as the ad implies it would be a GFE session. I understand if she asks for extra for cim or anal or even BBFS but upcharge for BBJ ? Come on ..

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[shion]

Rule of thumb: if you find a price discrepancy between to sources e.g. Ad vs her website always assume the higher price.
Even though you may be in every right to get clarification, it tends to cheapen you in the end. I say this because you’re playing in an industry/hobby that’s luxury. So providers on one end are getting clients that don’t care about money and just spend thousands on them and on the other end they’re getting clients that are asking questions in order to save a couple hundreds. You’re being compared to a very high benchmark. It doesn’t translate well.

Good point.

I didn't mind paying the higher. Its only a $200 gap.

But I wanted to know the damage Prior to meeting so as to avoid any awkward instances.

Gawd forbid, I put her payment in view, let her count it but she tells me a couple of hundred short ....and I go pull out phone showing the screen shots from her own ad.

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[king-sama4u2nv]

hmmmm.... I don't think your wrong here, but there's a gray area you've entered. If the first initial message is talking about her rates along with the inconsistency with them, then I get why she didn't email you back right away. The provider doesn't want to hear to hear anything other then you wanting to book in that first message, however, to mention this on the first message shows how confusing her prices are.

If she doesn't want messages letting her know about her prices, then she should learn how to proofread her post before making them live. So in all, no, I don't really think you did anything wrong.

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[shion]

No. The first was requesting to see her on a specific date.

This gas been in the planning for weeks.

We did Phone Verification Twice already.

I noticed the " Discrepancy " today and emailed/texted her since we were supposed to meet this Saturday.

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[manny]

i don't think you're wrong but the screenshot could be seen as a little confrontational. a simpler method would be asking to confirm her rates (*insert reason here: you're ocd, you've made a mistake before seeing an old ad, just confirming for both your peace of mind, etc.*) just don't mention the discrepancy. when you're just communicating with a provider over text, sensitivity is often way amped up so even something as innocent as pointing out a typo can be seen as offensive.

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[geot215]

.....to clarify price inconsistency?

This provider ,I've been trying to meet up with. We finally set the date for this weekend.

I noticed the price inconsistency in her ad. A $200 discrepancy. I inquired about it but she seemed clueless or stubborn about it even after I sent her screenshots.
I don't haggle but like as much clarification as possible.
we were first corresponding through email. When I brought up the discrepancy, I didn't get a reply.
So I texted her screenshots.
She texted back asking why did I send the screen shots????

I thought maybe I broke protocol or something but I explained my reasoning.

I then sent her another email about the discrepancy.

She reiterated the higher price as opposed to the lower one listed in her ad.

I'm turned off by the whole thing now and maybe she is too.


At least, your ad should reflect your pricing..especially if someone points it put to you.

Am I the one overreacting? if so I apologize on my behalf.

I just think her attitude towards it is off putting.

It’s called golden pussy syndrome lol they start to forget how customers are important to them

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[shion]

Update!!!!!!

We were supposed to have met this past Saturday but due to her perceived snobbery or my perceived haggling over the " discrepancy " ..we never did.
Neither party reached out.
Fast forward to yesterday, I get a reply from her about my initial email concerning the Donation inconsistency.
I didn't expect to hear from her again so I was surprised.

As follows...
Her: Hello, how can I help you?
Me( puzzled): ????
Her: What's your question?



I didn't respond to her last question. Mind you, I already brought up the discrepancy last week so why is she replying as if we haven't discussed this prior???

Also, we have been emailing each other including 2 phone verifications for a couple of weeks.
By her response, she comes across as if we haven't corresponded at all.


For a porn star, independent contractor , she comes across as unorganized or a scatterBrain.

Anyone?

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