I discovered a new world…

[el.mac]

Good morning, everyone.

I hope this is the right place to post.

I’m a guy living in Italy. I’ve always been a huge fan of the world of porn.

I have to...

Good morning, everyone.

I hope this is the right place to post.

I’m a guy living in Italy. I’ve always been a huge fan of the world of porn.

I have to admit that for years I lived in total ignorance of what there was to explore beyond “videos”; I was completely unaware that you could meet actresses, models, and celebrities, and that there were fantastic agencies and forums like these. Now that I’ve discovered it, maybe it’s a little too late for me, but the good thing is that unlike 15 years ago, I can afford a lot of things now
Ah, if only I’d known about this world sooner... I think I would have spent a fortune on all the actresses I had a crush on.

The incredible thing is that some of them are still around. I’ve got a couple of ideas floating around in my head—who knows if I’ll ever get the chance to make that happen. Reading some of the reviews really makes my head spin. It would definitely be difficult for me because I live in Italy, and for certain appointments I’d have to factor in travel, but it would definitely be worth it. I’ve read a lot over the past few months and learned a lot, such as the fact that it’s impossible to book a “top” escort unless you’ve been a client of that agency for at least a series of appointments with others first. For me, this would be very difficult—it’s not a matter of money but a matter of time, and the fact that I’m overseas.

Here in Europe, too, there are some big names, but they’re definitely not the ones I had a crush on when I was younger (except for one, who I occasionally run into here in Italy).

I don’t know if I’ll ever have the chance—and, more importantly, the courage—to embark on this adventure. I’m definitely really scared, both of getting ripped off and, of course, of making a fool of myself

Advice is certainly important, but the anxiety of taking that first step definitely remains. Who knows what will happen in the future... In the meantime, I’ll keep following you, reading reviews, and fantasizing about what this experience might be like.

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[Sexaddict]

This entire vertical really is something else, once you discover it, it changes your perspective fast.
No awkward dating dynamics, just clear expectations and great experiences if you approach it right.

I’ve been active in this space for about 11+ years now and seen a large number of providers (250+), and one thing I can say: take it step by step. The first booking is always the hardest mentally.

Stick to reputable agencies, do your research like you’re already doing, and don’t rush straight for the very top tier. Build a bit of experience first, it makes everything smoother and more enjoyable.

The anxiety is normal, but once you get past that first step, it becomes much more straightforward.

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[Berettaa]

Skip the independent girls that require deposits, even with reviews, ymmv.

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[Townbizz54]

Skip the independent girls that require deposits, even with reviews, ymmv.

Facts

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[el.mac]

For example i saw an adv of suzy gala who is on my strict wishlist. She’s in milan in april, i really don’t know what to do

I have a personal list of just 4/5 dreams, unfortunately 2 of them are not providing anymore for what i can understand, and 2 are very difficult to book even if moneys are not a problem.

They require a lot of effort and a travel in the usa, that i can however consider if i cam find the way to book.

Should i start for my very first time with a pro like susy gala?

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[Townbizz54]

For example i saw an adv of suzy gala who is on my strict wishlist. She’s in milan in april, i really don’t know what to do

I have a personal list of just 4/5 dreams, unfortunately 2 of them are not providing anymore for what i can understand, and 2 are very difficult to book even if moneys are not a problem.

They require a lot of effort and a travel in the usa, that i can however consider if i cam find the way to book.

Should i start for my very first time with a pro like susy gala?

I don’t know who that is
But if she’s on your list, do your research and go from there always good to start with one of your all-time favorites instead of just a random girl

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[inspectahjamescahtah]

This entire vertical really is something else, once you discover it, it changes your perspective fast.
No awkward dating dynamics, just clear expectations and great experiences if you approach it right.

I’ve been active in this space for about 11+ years now and seen a large number of providers (250+), and one thing I can say: take it step by step. The first booking is always the hardest mentally.

Stick to reputable agencies, do your research like you’re already doing, and don’t rush straight for the very top tier. Build a bit of experience first, it makes everything smoother and more enjoyable.

The anxiety is normal, but once you get past that first step, it becomes much more straightforward.

ELEVEN YEARS?!

How can I be on your level

OP my apologies I know this thread is about you but 11 years is a long ass time

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[el.mac]

This entire vertical really is something else, once you discover it, it changes your perspective fast.
No awkward dating dynamics, just clear expectations and great experiences if you approach it right.

I’ve been active in this space for about 11+ years now and seen a large number of providers (250+), and one thing I can say: take it step by step. The first booking is always the hardest mentally.

Stick to reputable agencies, do your research like you’re already doing, and don’t rush straight for the very top tier. Build a bit of experience first, it makes everything smoother and more enjoyable.

The anxiety is normal, but once you get past that first step, it becomes much more straightforward.

Thanks a lot for your reply.
250 providers is a number that i can not imagine even in my best dreams ))
To be honest i have some crush/dreams that i will make happens, even if it will be very difficult.
As you said, the first step is the hardest.
If my fav pornstars were here in europ this should be easiest.

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[inspectahjamescahtah]

Good morning, everyone.

I hope this is the right place to post.

I’m a guy living in Italy. I’ve always been a huge fan of the world of porn.

I have to admit that for years I lived in total ignorance of what there was to explore beyond “videos”; I was completely unaware that you could meet actresses, models, and celebrities, and that there were fantastic agencies and forums like these. Now that I’ve discovered it, maybe it’s a little too late for me, but the good thing is that unlike 15 years ago, I can afford a lot of things now
Ah, if only I’d known about this world sooner... I think I would have spent a fortune on all the actresses I had a crush on.

The incredible thing is that some of them are still around. I’ve got a couple of ideas floating around in my head—who knows if I’ll ever get the chance to make that happen. Reading some of the reviews really makes my head spin. It would definitely be difficult for me because I live in Italy, and for certain appointments I’d have to factor in travel, but it would definitely be worth it. I’ve read a lot over the past few months and learned a lot, such as the fact that it’s impossible to book a “top” escort unless you’ve been a client of that agency for at least a series of appointments with others first. For me, this would be very difficult—it’s not a matter of money but a matter of time, and the fact that I’m overseas.

Here in Europe, too, there are some big names, but they’re definitely not the ones I had a crush on when I was younger (except for one, who I occasionally run into here in Italy).

I don’t know if I’ll ever have the chance—and, more importantly, the courage—to embark on this adventure. I’m definitely really scared, both of getting ripped off and, of course, of making a fool of myself

Advice is certainly important, but the anxiety of taking that first step definitely remains. Who knows what will happen in the future... In the meantime, I’ll keep following you, reading reviews, and fantasizing about what this experience might be like.

1. A lot of the pornstars you see tend to be in the US, mainly because that's where the studios and other creators are based in, so economic opportunity draws them in.

2. I would start by knowing how to do your research and due diligence. When you see a provider you like online, make sure she has good reviews, and now that you have an account on here, go to the search bar and see what her reviews are on here as well. If you don't see one, feel free to ask! The thing about some sites like theeroticreview (TER) is that they can have manufactured reviews, which isn't great and are not authentic. Here, everyone in the EA community is open and honest, and bullshitters are called out pretty quickly (though that doesn't happen here often).

3. If you're in America and you feel you're ready, start with Trystagency. Tryst has an account here as well and he is open to any and all questions (well..not ALL questions. He's not going to do a colonoscopy on you) about virtually anything. However, I would encourage you to use the search bar first. The other thing about Trystagency is that all women are vetted and screened, i.e. make sure they aren't scammers, so trust is very very high. I would start with TA before you go onto other platforms like Porncompanions, which can be dodgy at times.

4. Going back to 3 a bit, there are women in Tryst's roster that make the first step very easy for you! If I were starting out, I would start out with a provider that is very comfortable and knows how to accommodate first timers, even if she's not your all time favorite. Starting out with your ATF is exciting but also very anxiety inducing, because you have this mental pressure of trying to impress her. My advice is get your provider cherry popped first with someone who you put on a relatively lower pedestal. I know that may sound harsh to any providers reading this, but this has helped me in the past, and also, not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.

5. If you can, go take a visit to Exxotica and AVN! Tryst and the moderators on here always provide timely and well-informed updates well in advance so you can plan accordingly way ahead of time. You can meet all sorts of pornstars and OnlyFans models there, and all you really need to do is just be polite, clean, smell nice, and respectful. That not only 1). takes any edge off about any insecurities you have about your performance with them (since you won't be performing--many pornstars there don't because standing for 10-12 hours at a booth can be very exhausting and many just want to go to sleep at the end of the night), and 2). you can screen them in real time whether said pornstar/provider matches your vibe. The last thing you want is to see someone you find attractive...only for her to not be at the same mental wavelength as you. Things can get awkward real fast.

6. I know you're overseas right now, so focus on making more money before coming here if you haven't already. America can be a really fun place, but it can also get very expensive very fast. Miami and Las Vegas, where many providers reside, are very expensive cities. You want to make sure you have a set budget to spend before coming here and you aren't bankrupt, or worse, in debt, when you fly back to Italy. Personally, I'm in quite a bit of debt and have taken a back seat this year from seeing anyone, though I do video calls here and there if the price is right. Definitely prioritize your overall physical, mental, social, spiritual, and financial health!

7. At the end, have fun! It's all an experience. Don't stress over things outside of your control. Relax and enjoy!

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[dfr345]

1. A lot of the pornstars you see tend to be in the US, mainly because that's where the studios and other creators are based in, so economic opportunity draws them in.

2. I would start by knowing how to do your research and due diligence. When you see a provider you like online, make sure she has good reviews, and now that you have an account on here, go to the search bar and see what her reviews are on here as well. If you don't see one, feel free to ask! The thing about some sites like theeroticreview (TER) is that they can have manufactured reviews, which isn't great and are not authentic. Here, everyone in the EA community is open and honest, and bullshitters are called out pretty quickly (though that doesn't happen here often).

3. If you're in America and you feel you're ready, start with Trystagency. Tryst has an account here as well and he is open to any and all questions (well..not ALL questions. He's not going to do a colonoscopy on you) about virtually anything. However, I would encourage you to use the search bar first. The other thing about Trystagency is that all women are vetted and screened, i.e. make sure they aren't scammers, so trust is very very high. I would start with TA before you go onto other platforms like Porncompanions, which can be dodgy at times.

4. Going back to 3 a bit, there are women in Tryst's roster that make the first step very easy for you! If I were starting out, I would start out with a provider that is very comfortable and knows how to accommodate first timers, even if she's not your all time favorite. Starting out with your ATF is exciting but also very anxiety inducing, because you have this mental pressure of trying to impress her. My advice is get your provider cherry popped first with someone who you put on a relatively lower pedestal. I know that may sound harsh to any providers reading this, but this has helped me in the past, and also, not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.

5. If you can, go take a visit to Exxotica and AVN! Tryst and the moderators on here always provide timely and well-informed updates well in advance so you can plan accordingly way ahead of time. You can meet all sorts of pornstars and OnlyFans models there, and all you really need to do is just be polite, clean, smell nice, and respectful. That not only 1). takes any edge off about any insecurities you have about your performance with them (since you won't be performing--many pornstars there don't because standing for 10-12 hours at a booth can be very exhausting and many just want to go to sleep at the end of the night), and 2). you can screen them in real time whether said pornstar/provider matches your vibe. The last thing you want is to see someone you find attractive...only for her to not be at the same mental wavelength as you. Things can get awkward real fast.

6. I know you're overseas right now, so focus on making more money before coming here if you haven't already. America can be a really fun place, but it can also get very expensive very fast. Miami and Las Vegas, where many providers reside, are very expensive cities. You want to make sure you have a set budget to spend before coming here and you aren't bankrupt, or worse, in debt, when you fly back to Italy. Personally, I'm in quite a bit of debt and have taken a back seat this year from seeing anyone, though I do video calls here and there if the price is right. Definitely prioritize your overall physical, mental, social, spiritual, and financial health!

7. At the end, have fun! It's all an experience. Don't stress over things outside of your control. Relax and enjoy!

Great advice. Making money and taking care of yourself is the most important priority. Women are ready for the taking once those things are taken care of.

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[el.mac]

1. A lot of the pornstars you see tend to be in the US, mainly because that's where the studios and other creators are based in, so economic opportunity draws them in.

2. I would start by knowing how to do your research and due diligence. When you see a provider you like online, make sure she has good reviews, and now that you have an account on here, go to the search bar and see what her reviews are on here as well. If you don't see one, feel free to ask! The thing about some sites like theeroticreview (TER) is that they can have manufactured reviews, which isn't great and are not authentic. Here, everyone in the EA community is open and honest, and bullshitters are called out pretty quickly (though that doesn't happen here often).

3. If you're in America and you feel you're ready, start with Trystagency. Tryst has an account here as well and he is open to any and all questions (well..not ALL questions. He's not going to do a colonoscopy on you) about virtually anything. However, I would encourage you to use the search bar first. The other thing about Trystagency is that all women are vetted and screened, i.e. make sure they aren't scammers, so trust is very very high. I would start with TA before you go onto other platforms like Porncompanions, which can be dodgy at times.

4. Going back to 3 a bit, there are women in Tryst's roster that make the first step very easy for you! If I were starting out, I would start out with a provider that is very comfortable and knows how to accommodate first timers, even if she's not your all time favorite. Starting out with your ATF is exciting but also very anxiety inducing, because you have this mental pressure of trying to impress her. My advice is get your provider cherry popped first with someone who you put on a relatively lower pedestal. I know that may sound harsh to any providers reading this, but this has helped me in the past, and also, not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.

5. If you can, go take a visit to Exxotica and AVN! Tryst and the moderators on here always provide timely and well-informed updates well in advance so you can plan accordingly way ahead of time. You can meet all sorts of pornstars and OnlyFans models there, and all you really need to do is just be polite, clean, smell nice, and respectful. That not only 1). takes any edge off about any insecurities you have about your performance with them (since you won't be performing--many pornstars there don't because standing for 10-12 hours at a booth can be very exhausting and many just want to go to sleep at the end of the night), and 2). you can screen them in real time whether said pornstar/provider matches your vibe. The last thing you want is to see someone you find attractive...only for her to not be at the same mental wavelength as you. Things can get awkward real fast.

6. I know you're overseas right now, so focus on making more money before coming here if you haven't already. America can be a really fun place, but it can also get very expensive very fast. Miami and Las Vegas, where many providers reside, are very expensive cities. You want to make sure you have a set budget to spend before coming here and you aren't bankrupt, or worse, in debt, when you fly back to Italy. Personally, I'm in quite a bit of debt and have taken a back seat this year from seeing anyone, though I do video calls here and there if the price is right. Definitely prioritize your overall physical, mental, social, spiritual, and financial health!

7. At the end, have fun! It's all an experience. Don't stress over things outside of your control. Relax and enjoy!

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me such a detailed response full of wise advice.

I’ve read everything very carefully, and I find your words to be very sensible.

The only thing I’m a little unsure about is starting with models other than my absolute favorites.

I realize it would be great practice, but my idea was more about fulfilling some dreams rather than starting a long-term hobby.

However, I do recognize that what you’re saying makes perfect sense.

My all-time favorites are:

Kortney Kane
Gia Dimarco
Peta Jensen
Jessa Rhodes

In the past, I also loved Christy Mack, Capri Cavanni, and Lela Star, but unfortunately, time has changed them.

Probably i’m still in time to realize some dreams.

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[dfr345]

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me such a detailed response full of wise advice.

I’ve read everything very carefully, and I find your words to be very sensible.

The only thing I’m a little unsure about is starting with models other than my absolute favorites.

I realize it would be great practice, but my idea was more about fulfilling some dreams rather than starting a long-term hobby.

However, I do recognize that what you’re saying makes perfect sense.

My all-time favorites are:

Kortney Kane
Gia Dimarco
Peta Jensen
Jessa Rhodes

In the past, I also loved Christy Mack, Capri Cavanni, and Lela Star, but unfortunately, time has changed them.

Probably i’m still in time to realize some dreams.

Kortney Kane is with Lourdes. Sign up with them ASAP. The rest I’m not so sure about, but you can try your luck. Welcome to the world and happy mongering!

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[el.mac]

Kortney Kane is with Lourdes. Sign up with them ASAP. The rest I’m not so sure about, but you can try your luck. Welcome to the world and happy mongering!

I saw it—I can't believe it.

I'm trying to check with Lourdes, but I'm not sure about this part.

You will also be required to pay a $1,000 retainer to ensure our girls' privacy. This retainer will apply to your future appointment made within 60 days. You may cancel your membership at any time.

Does that mean I have to pay $1,000 when I sign up, and that I have 60 days to make a reservation?

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[dfr345]

I saw it—I can't believe it.

I'm trying to check with Lourdes, but I'm not sure about this part.

You will also be required to pay a $1,000 retainer to ensure our girls' privacy. This retainer will apply to your future appointment made within 60 days. You may cancel your membership at any time.

Does that mean I have to pay $1,000 when I sign up, and that I have 60 days to make a reservation?

Yes, precisely.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

250 providers is a number that i can not imagine even in my best dreams

If you’re averaging twice a month, it’s attainable in a decade. I lost count after I hit triple digits. Now, I just have a vague estimate.

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[Townbizz54]

I saw it—I can't believe it.

I'm trying to check with Lourdes, but I'm not sure about this part.

You will also be required to pay a $1,000 retainer to ensure our girls' privacy. This retainer will apply to your future appointment made within 60 days. You may cancel your membership at any time.

Does that mean I have to pay $1,000 when I sign up, and that I have 60 days to make a reservation?

Yes and for what it’s worth100% legit
But you should definitely wait on that until you are 1000% sure you’re ready to see someone buy see they will not sent it back if you don’t see someone.

But also fuck lita stick with Mr tryst, trinity or aia (Brittany Andrews’s)

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[djbadboy]

Should i start for my very first time with a pro like susy gala?

Yes. She's just so hot and starting your hobbying with a pornstar is the perfect way to get started. Talking from experience. I am generally a confident man but with all the stuff I was reading before I got into the hobby I was slightly anxious on the day of the date, but we gelled so well from the first hello that I was so confident and relaxed. She wouldn't have been able to tell if it was my first time. Pornstars have that aura of putting you at ease even if you have butterflies.

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[Joel Goodson]

Join lourdes, fly to NYC, meet a few ladies, get your world rocked, and then welcome to the club lol

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[el.mac]

Yes, precisely.

Okay, but is the €1,000 still a non-refundable grant even if I make a reservation?

Or will I get it back if I make an appointment?

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[dfr345]

Okay, but is the €1,000 still a non-refundable grant even if I make a reservation?

Or will I get it back if I make an appointment?

It is a deposit towards the first booking you make with Lourdes/Lita.

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