Is asking BBFS to providers in Europe generally no-no? How do you ask if not directly?

[cranium_basher]

I'm scared to ask European providers about it when their profile didn't say anything because often some providers clearly stated on their profile no without...

I'm scared to ask European providers about it when their profile didn't say anything because often some providers clearly stated on their profile no without condom or ask without condom=block

Once with a provider I tried to gauge her opinion after sex like making a conversation "you know there are providers that accept BBFS but with prior test" but when she said "I don't trust test results", mean that she definitely will never accept BBFS

Sure I can gauge opinion of every provider like that but as a person who very rarely book the same provider on the second time, I much prefer BBFS on the first session

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[Sexaddict]

I think and I like to ask directly. Thought not in the first session with said providers - I like to wait till the 2nd or even third session to ask.
Be direct.

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[saucepanel]

For me it’s either one of these two options:
- Ask them when you’re meeting in case you’re planning on a repeat.
- Ask it indirectly: “Do you require testing for a date?” rather than “Are you open to bare sex?”. The first indicates you’re open to testing and take your health serious, the second gives an irresponsible feeling.

If either doesn’t open up possibilities, then it’s a hard no apparently. Good luck!

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[cranium_basher]

Ask it indirectly: “Do you require testing for a date?”

This is a good way to word it, thanks!

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[dfr345]

This is a good way to word it, thanks!

Saucepanel puts it perfectly, tactful and understated. I would also add that booking for longer meetings (multiple hours and/or overnights) significantly increases your chances of securing BBFS with a provider, should they offer it. YMMV.

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[dob18]

Ive found if you ask directly you're shut down. Many don't even do bbbj. Obviously feel it out before hand but when in Europe be prepared to need protection. I find bringing a certified std test with me goes a very long way.


Or, get lucky in the heat of the moment and go raw without expecting and then realize you'll need to get tested soon anyway it was a fun December trip to Scotland last year

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[cranium_basher]

get lucky in the heat of the moment and go raw without expecting and then realize you'll need to get tested soon anyway

Lol I've done this before hahaha
But experienced provider will prevent this to happen

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[dob18]

Lol I've done this before hahaha
But experienced provider will prevent this to happen

It's such a "Wtf were you thinking" moment and yet so dman hot? Testosterone is a hell of a drug

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