My week long wasted Texas vacation

[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

So idk if this should be in the review section or not so gonna post it here… it should be noted this girl I think suffers from partial insomnia/narcoplesy...

So idk if this should be in the review section or not so gonna post it here… it should be noted this girl I think suffers from partial insomnia/narcoplesy disorder still so don’t blame all her sleeping on wasted time just bad luck

This girl I “helped move to Texas” invited me to hang out with her for the holidays and I decided to give her a “real Christmas” since she “hasn’t had one in 7 years”

Airline tickets purchased +rental car early 5am flight Monday 29th to Jan 5th ($650 airfare) ($450 car rental through Turo)

Monday the 29th I had a good 6 hour delay so arrived around 5pm Texas time made a quick stop at local cvs to get some body wash +pomade +flowers + mouth wash


After arriving she and I embraced in a deep passionate kiss… we had a light dinner via Instacart and opened presents we then walked her dog and then laid down and went to sleep… I didn’t forcefully initiate a conversation about sex cause I had been up almost 30 hours but did ask “should I take a blue pill tonight” she’s like “you’re probably exhausted let’s just cuddle

Day 2 recap


After giving her breakfast in bed and we walked her dog we had a nice long chat afterwards she took a power nap cause I guess she had trouble sleeping the night before which I understood afterwards we went do dinner then took her dog to a park and when the sun set I got my first case of “jet lag” had a internal fight of figure out what time it was an time passing… after we got back she took a long shower I left a cute note under her pillow as she moved the pillows around she read it and said “I’d ask you to take a blue pill but I’m so tired and stressed, tomm night after nye when we celebrate we will in style” I was of course being the nice guy agreed and made out with her for a few minutes to let her know I’m very much looking forward to sexy time

Day 3 same type of shit but took time to both fix a clogged toilet and sink…she woke up and we didn’t leave till like 4pm where we took her dog to the park and ran 1 or 2 errands at the same time so after I came home and made her my grandma bbq chicken which she enjoyed then at about 11pm she went to the bathroom and was like “A”(she used my real name but not using it for safety reasons) I’m really sorry but I’m bleeding down there… me being the nice guy drove to the nearest open cvs about 20 minutes each way(lots of places closed early due to nye) arrived just in time for it to be 1158… she was kind enough to kiss/make out with me at 1201 am… never made it to the hotel room with the jacuzzi but didn’t get my $ back oh well ($400 out the window)

Day 4 same shit 2pm out the door a few errands then taking her dog to the dog park then we had dinner out and came back around 10 or 11pm where she passed out and I did shortly after

Day 5 same situation but this time used a canes gift card I got for Christmas from an aunt so we had dinner here
Day 6 same shit but we went to get groceries where of course she went a little wild I was just intending to buy us 2 steaks and some frozen pasta veggie meal thing and she filled the cart with like $80 worth of extra crap and she of course took a power nap while I made dinner for us both and clean the entire house for her…only to wake up at around 930pm where we both ate finally and she did her nails with some light cuddles and make outs

Edit for clarification: I stayed with her in her apartment all 7 days… just rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi to celebrate nye with her in style

Have my alarm set for 6am to make my flight back to Texas tomorrow wish me luck

Final tally
Uber to the airport $95
Airplane +bag fees =650


Car rental for a week =500


Christmas presents for her =400


Groceries for me +her=250


Jacuzzi room =400


Going out =im going at 200 a day limit/estimate so far been right on track x7 days =800

That 200 a day includes what I’ll spend on food etc for myself on my travel days like getting from lax to Dallas in terms of random stuff Ie food drinks etc and same on return trip




3200 estimate and a week wasted of my life almost didn’t even get to anything I wanted such as going to see jfk assassin site 5 miles from her pad

Also of note I fixed a plumbing issue of a clogged sink +toilet

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[NoLovewithGlove]

Sorry you experienced this, but consider this a lesson learned. Being a nice guy gets you taken advantaged of in this lifestyle of ours. This is where clear communication for your expectations from her would have served you better. Take the loss and move on. I’d cut all communication with her from now on.

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[lvg99]

She planned that 100%. Signed the guy that had basically the same thing happen when I took a mainstream pornstar and her bff to Maui earlier this year. Once you've already spent all the money no "need" to put out.

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[connman]

Sorry that your holiday didn't go well. On the positive side, your year can only get better.

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[plrboy8857]

This truly sucks! It’s always hard when the relation gets blurred. Would rather just be a client than anything more. That way at least I know my expectations.

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[oc.businessman.33]

In arrangements like this you need to communicate your expectations and have them agreed upon before you arrive. This would assist in avoiding what you experienced. Sorry this happened.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Sorry you experienced this, but consider this a lesson learned. Being a nice guy gets you taken advantaged of in this lifestyle of ours. This is where clear communication for your expectations from her would have served you better. Take the loss and move on. I’d cut all communication with her from now on.

Oh there was clear communication via text between us “sexy time for my Christmas present” and “sexy time to ring in the New Year right” she knew ahead of time about the jacuzzi hotel room I rented both of which she was in agreement to she actually mentioned the sex for Christmas present from her and jacuzzi room

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[NoLovewithGlove]

Oh there was clear communication via text between us “sexy time for my Christmas present” and “sexy time to ring in the New Year right” she knew ahead of time about the jacuzzi hotel room I rented both of which she was in agreement to she actually mentioned the sex for Christmas present from her and jacuzzi room

I’m sorry, then you really got screwed. That’s the problem with paying up front for things. You just never know.

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[lvg99]

Oh there was clear communication via text between us “sexy time for my Christmas present” and “sexy time to ring in the New Year right” she knew ahead of time about the jacuzzi hotel room I rented both of which she was in agreement to she actually mentioned the sex for Christmas present from her and jacuzzi room

Yeah no different than what I went through here too. Before the trip it was “we’ll make some OF content”, “bff won’t stop us from having private time”.

The lesson I have learned is not to trust what providers say, only what they do.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Yeah no different than what I went through here too. Before the trip it was “we’ll make some OF content”, “bff won’t stop us from having private time”.

The lesson I have learned is not to trust what providers say, only what they do.

Yea exactly lesson learned here… sad part for her is she’s possibly very fucked karmically she has to move out of this apartment she’s in now like the end of January or February and im 95% sure she’s gonna be asking me for help via $ to rent a U-Haul etc and we will see how helpful I am then

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[Townbizz54]

Hey at least you know you don’t wanna be in a relationship with her and saved yourself from that nightmare

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[shion]

So idk if this should be in the review section or not so gonna post it here… it should be noted this girl I think suffers from partial insomnia/narcoplesy disorder still so don’t blame all her sleeping on wasted time just bad luck

This girl I “helped move to Texas” invited me to hang out with her for the holidays and I decided to give her a “real Christmas” since she “hasn’t had one in 7 years”

Airline tickets purchased +rental car early 5am flight Monday 29th to Jan 5th ($650 airfare) ($450 car rental through Turo)

Monday the 29th I had a good 6 hour delay so arrived around 5pm Texas time made a quick stop at local cvs to get some body wash +pomade +flowers + mouth wash


After arriving she and I embraced in a deep passionate kiss… we had a light dinner via Instacart and opened presents we then walked her dog and then laid down and went to sleep… I didn’t forcefully initiate a conversation about sex cause I had been up almost 30 hours but did ask “should I take a blue pill tonight” she’s like “you’re probably exhausted let’s just cuddle

Day 2 recap


After giving her breakfast in bed and we walked her dog we had a nice long chat afterwards she took a power nap cause I guess she had trouble sleeping the night before which I understood afterwards we went do dinner then took her dog to a park and when the sun set I got my first case of “jet lag” had a internal fight of figure out what time it was an time passing… after we got back she took a long shower I left a cute note under her pillow as she moved the pillows around she read it and said “I’d ask you to take a blue pill but I’m so tired and stressed, tomm night after nye when we celebrate we will in style” I was of course being the nice guy agreed and made out with her for a few minutes to let her know I’m very much looking forward to sexy time

Day 3 same type of shit but took time to both fix a clogged toilet and sink…she woke up and we didn’t leave till like 4pm where we took her dog to the park and ran 1 or 2 errands at the same time so after I came home and made her my grandma bbq chicken which she enjoyed then at about 11pm she went to the bathroom and was like “A”(she used my real name but not using it for safety reasons) I’m really sorry but I’m bleeding down there… me being the nice guy drove to the nearest open cvs about 20 minutes each way(lots of places closed early due to nye) arrived just in time for it to be 1158… she was kind enough to kiss/make out with me at 1201 am… never made it to the hotel room with the jacuzzi but didn’t get my $ back oh well ($400 out the window)

Day 4 same shit 2pm out the door a few errands then taking her dog to the dog park then we had dinner out and came back around 10 or 11pm where she passed out and I did shortly after

Day 5 same situation but this time used a canes gift card I got for Christmas from an aunt so we had dinner here
Day 6 same shit but we went to get groceries where of course she went a little wild I was just intending to buy us 2 steaks and some frozen pasta veggie meal thing and she filled the cart with like $80 worth of extra crap and she of course took a power nap while I made dinner for us both and clean the entire house for her…only to wake up at around 930pm where we both ate finally and she did her nails with some light cuddles and make outs

Have my alarm set for 6am to make my flight back to Texas tomorrow wish me luck

Final tally
Uber to the airport $95
Airplane +bag fees =650


Car rental for a week =500


Christmas presents for her =400


Groceries for me +her=250


Jacuzzi room =400


Going out =im going at 200 a day limit/estimate so far been right on track x7 days =800

That 200 a day includes what I’ll spend on food etc for myself on my travel days like getting from lax to Dallas in terms of random stuff Ie food drinks etc and same on return trip




3200 estimate and a week wasted of my life almost didn’t even get to anything I wanted such as going to see jfk assassin site 5 miles from her pad

Also of note I fixed a plumbing issue of a clogged sink +toilet

Feel like I wanna myself for what happened to you

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[plrboy8857]

Yeah no different than what I went through here too. Before the trip it was “we’ll make some OF content”, “bff won’t stop us from having private time”.

The lesson I have learned is not to trust what providers say, only what they do.

You should have went with her alone. Screw the BFF. A female third wheel always messes things up.

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[shion]

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So idk if this should be in the review section or not so gonna post it here… it should be noted this girl I think suffers from partial insomnia/narcoplesy disorder still so don’t blame all her sleeping on wasted time just bad luck

This girl I “helped move to Texas” invited me to hang out with her for the holidays and I decided to give her a “real Christmas” since she “hasn’t had one in 7 years”

Airline tickets purchased +rental car early 5am flight Monday 29th to Jan 5th ($650 airfare) ($450 car rental through Turo)

Monday the 29th I had a good 6 hour delay so arrived around 5pm Texas time made a quick stop at local cvs to get some body wash +pomade +flowers + mouth wash


After arriving she and I embraced in a deep passionate kiss… we had a light dinner via Instacart and opened presents we then walked her dog and then laid down and went to sleep… I didn’t forcefully initiate a conversation about sex cause I had been up almost 30 hours but did ask “should I take a blue pill tonight” she’s like “you’re probably exhausted let’s just cuddle

Day 2 recap


After giving her breakfast in bed and we walked her dog we had a nice long chat afterwards she took a power nap cause I guess she had trouble sleeping the night before which I understood afterwards we went do dinner then took her dog to a park and when the sun set I got my first case of “jet lag” had a internal fight of figure out what time it was an time passing… after we got back she took a long shower I left a cute note under her pillow as she moved the pillows around she read it and said “I’d ask you to take a blue pill but I’m so tired and stressed, tomm night after nye when we celebrate we will in style” I was of course being the nice guy agreed and made out with her for a few minutes to let her know I’m very much looking forward to sexy time

Day 3 same type of shit but took time to both fix a clogged toilet and sink…she woke up and we didn’t leave till like 4pm where we took her dog to the park and ran 1 or 2 errands at the same time so after I came home and made her my grandma bbq chicken which she enjoyed then at about 11pm she went to the bathroom and was like “A”(she used my real name but not using it for safety reasons) I’m really sorry but I’m bleeding down there… me being the nice guy drove to the nearest open cvs about 20 minutes each way(lots of places closed early due to nye) arrived just in time for it to be 1158… she was kind enough to kiss/make out with me at 1201 am… never made it to the hotel room with the jacuzzi but didn’t get my $ back oh well ($400 out the window)

Day 4 same shit 2pm out the door a few errands then taking her dog to the dog park then we had dinner out and came back around 10 or 11pm where she passed out and I did shortly after

Day 5 same situation but this time used a canes gift card I got for Christmas from an aunt so we had dinner here
Day 6 same shit but we went to get groceries where of course she went a little wild I was just intending to buy us 2 steaks and some frozen pasta veggie meal thing and she filled the cart with like $80 worth of extra crap and she of course took a power nap while I made dinner for us both and clean the entire house for her…only to wake up at around 930pm where we both ate finally and she did her nails with some light cuddles and make outs

Have my alarm set for 6am to make my flight back to Texas tomorrow wish me luck

Final tally
Uber to the airport $95
Airplane +bag fees =650


Car rental for a week =500


Christmas presents for her =400


Groceries for me +her=250


Jacuzzi room =400


Going out =im going at 200 a day limit/estimate so far been right on track x7 days =800

That 200 a day includes what I’ll spend on food etc for myself on my travel days like getting from lax to Dallas in terms of random stuff Ie food drinks etc and same on return trip




3200 estimate and a week wasted of my life almost didn’t even get to anything I wanted such as going to see jfk assassin site 5 miles from her pad

Also of note I fixed a plumbing issue of a clogged sink +toilet

You flew to her???? And did all that cooking ?
She didn't even offered to let you stay at her place?

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Question

You flew to her???? And did all that cooking ?
She didn't even offered to let you stay at her place?

Sorry no I should edit first post for clarification I stayed with her all 7 days just rented the hotel room with a jacuzzi for a special sex experience to ring in the new year for both of us

But yes I cooked breakfast in bed for her every morning and also fixed a clogged toilet and sink, also I took her out for dinner or drinks most nights and drove her and her dog to a “off leash dog park” every day as well… only cost me a tank of gas in the rental car… I didn’t get to anything I wanted such as drive 20 minutes round trip from her place to visit jfk assassination sight with her etc mostly due to her “4 hour get ready shit”

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[Sexaddict]

Wow!
Yeah, what a wasteful woman!

She seems like the type that goes from one guy to the next in hopes of getting something out of them.

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[connman]

just rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi to celebrate nye with her in style

Have my alarm set for 6am to make my flight back to Texas tomorrow wish me luck

Final tally
Uber to the airport $95
Airplane +bag fees =650


Car rental for a week =500


Christmas presents for her =400


Groceries for me +her=250


Jacuzzi room =400


Going out =im going at 200 a day limit/estimate so far been right on track x7 days =800

That 200 a day includes what I’ll spend on food etc for myself on my travel days like getting from lax to Dallas in terms of random stuff Ie food drinks etc and same on return trip

She fucked up. I would have dated you

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[Swytypy]

If I thought doing everything to get nothing in return was the way to go, I'd have stayed married.

Seriously, as we've discussed privately, this really sucks for you and I'm sorry it happened. There should be a special kind of karma for people like her who intentionally scam good people.

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[shion]

Wow!
Yeah, what a wasteful woman!

She seems like the type that goes from one guy to the next in hopes of getting something out of them.

She just " friend-zones " guys who like her more than she likes them

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[hotplayboy]

She just " friend-zones " guys who like her more than she likes them

*sigh* no matter the relation, you have to have game to not get used like this

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