PSE Hot Takes

[Hentai_Hibiki]

What’s an opinion of yours that you think other clients or providers would be highly disagreeable with?

(No highly unethical or unsafe answers please)...

What’s an opinion of yours that you think other clients or providers would be highly disagreeable with?

(No highly unethical or unsafe answers please)

Mine off the bat would be,

I personally believe the clock should start for an incall session after the pre-shower. Mainly because the time is spent for companionship and not washing by yourself. however washing with the client is fair game.

This is not a hard requirement for me, but not counting it against me is a big plus towards being a repeat client with a longer session time.

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[Swytypy]

Women on tour who are seeing clients back to back should either say up front that they need you to leave 5-10 minutes before the hour is up or have their time budgeted to allow for some cleanup time in between. I don’t mind paying for a full hour and being asked to leave a little early to be respectful of her time as long as I know that in advance, but being rushed out as I’m getting dressed and having her shower, make the bed and get dressed in front of me in the same outfit she greeted me in while knowing it didn’t have to happen that way feels a little uncomfortable, especially after an otherwise wonderful time. Be honest up front. I’m a grown man. I understand.

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[td5]

Women on tour who are seeing clients back to back should either say up front that they need you to leave 5-10 minutes before the hour is up or have their time budgeted to allow for some cleanup time in between. I don’t mind paying for a full hour and being asked to leave a little early to be respectful of her time as long as I know that in advance, but being rushed out as I’m getting dressed and having her shower, make the bed and get dressed in front of me in the same outfit she greeted me in while knowing it didn’t have to happen that way feels a little uncomfortable, especially after an otherwise wonderful time. Be honest up front. I’m a grown man. I understand.

This is why I never see girls on tour. I don't want to be one of many guys in a day.

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[Swytypy]

This is why I never see girls on tour. I don't want to be one of many guys in a day.

I try to be first of the day whenever possible. But being in NY and not really able to travel much, I don’t have a choice but to see women on tour.

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[TopG____2001]

I personally think that if a provider is advertising as a Pornstar Companion and asking PSE prices than the client should be getting the most top tier experience at best. If she can’t do that, then it’s time to lower the rates or find a different career path. McDonald’s is always hiring BTW.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I personally think that if a provider is advertising as a Pornstar Companion and asking PSE prices than the client should be getting the most top tier experience at best. If she can’t do that, then it’s time to lower the rates or find a different career path. McDonald’s is always hiring BTW.

I mean that’s what the expectation of she’s advertising PSE service is, not just prices. Part of the price hike is the demand, if it’s too low they can be overwhelmed and overworked. Just a fact of the game that hotter and more popular girls cost more.

And unfortunately, not all girls are built to provide what they do on camera. They usually (and should) take a break between strenuous shoots.

That’s why it’s important if you can ask what she is offering so expectations are not misaligned.

I agree though that I wished more girls understood that we picked them for their extraordinary talents and performance skills.

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[EvenSteven]

It should not be seen as offensive or problematic to clarify if certain services are offered in a session. I'm not saying they should just engage in that dialogue with any joe-schmoe emailing them but after you've screened for a date, you should be able to ask/discuss services provided.

It makes no sense to me to have to drop a bunch of money only to show up for the date and she doesnt offer something I enjoy. I would like to know ahead of time if she does those activities so I can decide if I should see her or not. If I like BBFS and she only does CFS, I dont want to have to drop 1000-2000 only to find out when I get there those things are off the table.

Everyone is different and PSE mean's different things to different people. I wish there was more universal meaning in these things to save us having to ask but given that isnt the case, it shouldnt get you blocked or blacklisted for asking if you have reached out, screened and shown you are a serious client.

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[YaddaYadda]

This is why I never see girls on tour. I don't want to be one of many guys in a day.

I have a hard rule that if the provider offers 30min then i'm gonna pass, I dont care how many dudes they see in a day but if they are doing 30min back-to-back its kinda hard to hide that from hotel staff and there's no way in hell they are cleaning up in between sessions.

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[Sexaddict]

I personally believe the clock should start for an incall session after the pre-shower. Mainly because the time is spent for companionship and not washing by yourself. however washing with the client is fair game.

I couldn´t agree more

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I have a hard rule that if the provider offers 30min then i'm gonna pass, I dont care how many dudes they see in a day but if they are doing 30min back-to-back its kinda hard to hide that from hotel staff and there's no way in hell they are cleaning up in between sessions.

I also wish more providers offered 90 minute sessions instead of only 1 and 2 hour blocks. Lots of missed dollars for girls because I was willing to pay the linear increase amount.

No rushing and plenty of recovery time for 2nd round.

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[td5]

I try to be first of the day whenever possible. But being in NY and not really able to travel much, I don’t have a choice but to see women on tour.

You also see a LOT of girls lol which I (and most people here) are pretty jealous about. I see like 2-3 a year, just in the course of my travels. I like taking road trips anyway so it usually comes as a part of that.

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[Ithithos]

What’s an opinion of yours that you think other clients or providers would be highly disagreeable with?

(No highly unethical or unsafe answers please)

Mine off the bat would be,

I personally believe the clock should start for an incall session after the pre-shower. Mainly because the time is spent for companionship and not washing by yourself. however washing with the client is fair game.

This is not a hard requirement for me, but not counting it against me is a big plus towards being a repeat client with a longer session time.

If I pay extra for greek (or really any extra for that matter) and it doesn't workout, then I shouldn't be charged for that. With the case of anal, I fully get that sometimes it's just gonna be hard for the girl to relax and it's just not gonna workout without hurting her even if she's experienced with anal. I don't enjoy hurting girls so I don't wanna push it either. But if you charge me an extra 500-1000 cause I wanted to creampie your asshole and it doesn't end up happening, I should either get that money back or be able to use it towards something else.

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[Swytypy]

You also see a LOT of girls lol which I (and most people here) are pretty jealous about.

I’m just making up for lost time. I’m older than most of you guys and missed out on so much. Now I’m able to do this and trying to enjoy as much as I can for as long as I can. I spent the first 50+ years of my life being jealous of almost every guy I knew for having so much more luck with women than I could ever dream of, so I get it. I hope you all get to the point where you’re the ones that newer, younger guys get jealous of.

I see like 2-3 a year, just in the course of my travels. I like taking road trips anyway so it usually comes as a part of that.

I recently had a conversation with someone in DM who had only seen one PS ever and he was downplaying this to me, comparing himself to others like me. I told him that if he’s going to compare himself to others, he needs to also compare himself to the 99.9% of men who will never fuck a porn star, most of whom would love to, who would be extremely jealous of him if they knew, especially if they knew who she was. Same applies here. It’s 2-3/year for you but that’s more than literally almost every human male that ever existed. That’s a major accomplishment.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I also need to make a service announcement about a common word misusage:

Jealousy is the fear of losing something you have.
Envy is wanting what someone else has.

Most people are envious of what other people have.

Granted nowadays if a word gets used incorrectly by enough people it gets added as a definition. Just like how “literally” became synonym for “actually”.

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[ddde23]

What’s an opinion of yours that you think other clients or providers would be highly disagreeable with?

(No highly unethical or unsafe answers please)

Mine off the bat would be,

I personally believe the clock should start for an incall session after the pre-shower. Mainly because the time is spent for companionship and not washing by yourself. however washing with the client is fair game.

This is not a hard requirement for me, but not counting it against me is a big plus towards being a repeat client with a longer session time.

I agree. When I booked Richelle Ryan she insisted on taking a shower first and it took her at least 15 min to finish and get ready. And then I still had to take one. She also ended things earlier in order to have time to take another shower. Thats why I will never book a girl for outcall again, because with incall they are already ready which saves a lot of time

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

I agree. When I booked Richelle Ryan she insisted on taking a shower first and it took her at least 15 min to finish and get ready. And then I still had to take one. She also ended things earlier in order to have time to take another shower. Thats why I will never book a girl for outcall again, because with incall they are already ready which saves a lot of time

Oh that’s really shitty!

I find the reverse is true where incall makes you shower and outcall is not required because you do it beforehand.

She did you dirty man.

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[connman]

I agree. When I booked Richelle Ryan she insisted on taking a shower first and it took her at least 15 min to finish and get ready. And then I still had to take one. She also ended things earlier in order to have time to take another shower. Thats why I will never book a girl for outcall again, because with incall they are already ready which saves a lot of time

I find the reverse is true where incall makes you shower and outcall is not required because you do it beforehand.

Pro tip: shower together. Nothing better than a shower BJ.

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

Pro tip: shower together. Nothing better than a shower BJ.

I get it all the time with Asian escorts but how common is it with pornstars? Is it an easy ask?

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[ddde23]

Pro tip: shower together. Nothing better than a shower BJ.

many dont allow it

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

many dont allow it

I feel like that’s something I could only get with an ATF who I’ve seen enough to be comfortable with or possibly an overnight and I know I’m the only client for the rest of the evening.

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