Wrapping head around these up charges

[Rentnextdoor]

The provider i’m looking to see charges extra for bareback and extra for a creampie. I figured a creampie would go hand in hand with bareback, but i’m...

The provider i’m looking to see charges extra for bareback and extra for a creampie. I figured a creampie would go hand in hand with bareback, but i’m guessing she’s expecting me to pull out? Has anyone dealt with these extra charges before, and if so which do you choose? (unless you paid extra for both). Do you think it’s even worth it?

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[Townbizz54]

The provider i’m looking to see charges extra for bareback and extra for a creampie. I figured a creampie would go hand in hand with bareback, but i’m guessing she’s expecting me to pull out? Has anyone dealt with these extra charges before, and if so which do you choose? (unless you paid extra for both). Do you think it’s even worth it?

You would think. But they know we’re gullible. And no it’s not worth it. But it is what it is.

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[oc.businessman.33]

Every girl is different. Some charge for cream pies, some don't. Same goes for filming. Their body, their choice. Your wallet, your choice.

I typically pay extra for testing, bare, and anal.

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[drivas725]

A provider I one time had extra fees for kissing. Didn't tell me until I was already there. And I don't mean a small upcharge, it was like $100. I was like... No I'm good. Weird how a bj was included in the hourly rate but extra to let our lips touch

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[Townbizz54]

A provider I one time had extra fees for kissing. Didn't tell me until I was already there. And I don't mean a small upcharge, it was like $100. I was like... No I'm good. Weird how a bj was included in the hourly rate but extra to let our lips touch

Regular escorts never tell you until you’re half nanked thu know if they pull that shit before you get there we will
Use common sense

At least with pornstars you know going in and then can have fun knowing there not gonna ask for more half way through the date

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[drivas725]

Regular escorts never tell you until you’re half nanked thu know if they pull that shit before you get there we will
Use common sense

At least with pornstars you know going in and then can have fun knowing there not gonna ask for more half way through the date

This was a pornstar! Independent booking tho. At least with agency you get told everything straight up and not get it dropped on you once you're there

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[Briguy1875]

When I fill out a booking form or send an introductory email. The content of the message includes all the real world information they are looking for along with a picture of myself. (I’m an average looking 50 year old 5’7”). And most importantly to me is to let them know exactly the type of appointment I am seeking. And I always say “If you provide what I am seeking would love to get together. If you don’t I appreciate even more not getting back to me”.
If they do respond positively that they read my entire message game on. If I can’t tell if they read my message I re ask them to please make sure they provide what I am seeking.
One 2 many times I’ll show up give the donation to find out they didn’t read my message.
Because of the rates of 2026 I see 4 providers and I am not looking at this time to see anyone new to me.
I will again and always with a clear message of what the type of appointment I like.

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[Rentnextdoor]

Every girl is different. Some charge for cream pies, some don't. Same goes for filming. Their body, their choice. Your wallet, your choice.

I typically pay extra for testing, bare, and anal.

I agree with what you’re saying. my point is it feels like she’s charging me for something that goes hand in hand with something she’s also charging me for. Like imagine someone charged $500+ for DFK and then had another charge of $500 to use tongue. like huh lol

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[FishMonger]

Cream pies and bareback are not as connected as you think. I would say that no cip is almost common scenario. I am not saying it should be an upcharge , but some providers really don't even offer it for personal reasons. And if it's something you want included, I would recommend to include in request when asking for bbfs.

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[oc.businessman.33]

I agree with what you’re saying. my point is it feels like she’s charging me for something that goes hand in hand with something she’s also charging me for. Like imagine someone charged $500+ for DFK and then had another charge of $500 to use tongue. like huh lol

In my opinion, CIP isn’t something that should ever be assumed to come standard or “go hand in hand.” For many providers, allowing that comes with real considerations and risk.

Every woman’s body is different. For some, it can disrupt their pH balance, lead to infections, or require downtime, ultimately affecting their ability to work and earn. Others can’t rely on certain forms of birth control due to serious side effects, which adds another layer of responsibility and risk.

There’s also the broader aspect of personal health, trust, and boundaries. When a provider agrees to something like that, it’s not casual—it’s a calculated decision based on comfort, safety, and mutual respect.

So it’s important to recognize that what you’re asking for isn’t just an added preference, it’s something that carries weight. If it’s even on the table, it should be approached with understanding, proper communication, and a level of appreciation for what’s being offered.

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[Townbizz54]

The problem is terms and acronyms have become so twisted over the last 10 years. There is no longer a true definition of what the difference between GFE and PSE is and now every girl has their own definition.
10 years ago there was a clear definition of what GFE Gfe+ rbgfe pse ect actually meant.

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[Townbizz54]

The problem is terms and acronyms have become so twisted over the last 10 years. There is no longer a true definition of what the difference between GFE and PSE is and now every girl has their own definition.
10 years ago there was a clear definition of what GFE Gfe+ rbgfe pse ect actually meant

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[Townbizz54]

And for the record. I’m also of the belief that any girl can charge whatever price she wants to. I just don’t like the up charge game that they play with menu pricing.
At the end of the day, Kendra Sunderland (Tryst Agency)’s five grand for the first hour with everything on the table isn’t that bad of a deal all things considered

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