As
@king-sama4u2nv shared a few days ago,
a provider recently endured a terrifying encounter with a client in an apartment she had rented to work out of.
Situations like this are shocking, but sadly not so rare that one might think and hope for. And while it’s true that 98% of clients are good, respectful, well-behaved gentlemen, the small percentage that isn’t can be devastating. One need only look back a few decades to Copenhagen,
where a young street worker was picked up and later found murdered in cold blood — a grim reminder that all it takes is one encounter with the wrong person.
Just to name another example, there was a case back in 2009 that the police have now reopened, involving a sex worker in Amsterdam who suffered a chilling fate.
There are many more examples, both of the worst-case scenarios and of girls getting robbed, etc.
The reality is that unpredictable—and sometimes dangerous—these people exist everywhere.
In this industry, assuming trust without verification can carry consequences that are far too high. Screening isn’t about doubting the majority of decent clients; it’s about protecting against the rare but real outliers who can cause irreparable harm. What should be a safe, consensual encounter can, in those rare cases, spiral into something much darker.
For regulars, the question isn’t whether most clients are safe (they are), but whether you’re willing to roll the dice on that rare exception. Screening acts as a safety net — not out of paranoia, but out of caution. It preserves safety, respect, and positive experiences for everyone involved. Skipping that step may feel convenient, but history — and stories like the one from Copenhagen & Amsterdam — prove that ignoring it can have irreversible consequences.
