The two-pop talk is something that will never get old in the hobby. Everyone has their own opinion on it and will live and die by that opinion no matter what a lot of us have to say. It’s a subject that has split both sides of the hobby down the middle, making providers question why their counterparts act on it and clients wonder why some offer it and others don’t. Although, as I read through the many opinions sex workers have on two pops in a session, it’s possible that some of us are biting off more than we can chew.
So, a provider went on a sort of rant some time ago on the good ol’ SexWorkers Reddit group. Again, I advise members to peer into the veil there often just to see what things are like on the other side it’s really something. Anyway, the provider went on a rant about a client asking for two pops in a session. In this provider’s defense, she didn’t break down how much time the client booked. All she did was list the reasons why she dislikes MSOG, stating that it would leave the client embarrassed and put her in an awkward position.
As a provider, she specified that there are certain things that come with the job. After a client has climaxed once, she’s there to make him feel comfortable and at ease. She expressed frustration with the client wanting to go at it again, explaining that it creates an uncomfortable atmosphere as she tries to get the client up again in the 5–10 minutes it can take. Being in that space requires constant reassurance, stroking our ego (pun intended), while also working with a wet noodle in order to get it hard again. All the while you’re both laying there, she’s going above and beyond to try to get the client up. The catch of the entire thing is that the ambiance that was in the room when things started is gone. Instead, it’s replaced with the underlying factor that this is a transactional arrangement.
As much as I can see things from a client’s point of view, you can’t be in the hobby without seeing it from a provider’s. I can see how it would be awkward to be in that situation. Hell, as a client it can be just as fucking uncomfortable when I’m not able to perform. Still, I’m putting myself in that situation. In her rant, the provider wrote, “You just have to be realistic about your time and what your body can actually handle.” She’s right. As men, we know what we can and can’t handle. To book MSOG only to fall short after climaxing once puts things in a bad position. Some clients react differently to this. While some of us are nonchalant about it, others could get frustrated and act aggressively toward a provider, stirring up a whole other set of problems.
I want to give my opinion on this, but I believe the provider left out the most important part of her story. She didn’t specify the amount of time these clients were booking when asking for MSOG. I think the amount of time booked is the key to all of this. If a client is asking for MSOG and only booking an hour, that to me is a long shot. Not every man’s body is the same, but booking an hour and believing you’re going to get a second pop after the provider takes 5–10 minutes to get you back up doesn’t make sense to me. I book multiple hours to make sure that awkwardness doesn’t enter the space me and the provider created. Is my guy getting back up after five minutes? Fuck no. The little fucker would be lucky to get back up after ten. I know me, so I book two hours or more, and between that first and second climax, I’m talking with my provider, waiting for my boy to make his encore to the stage.
As a provider, she did make it clear that she knows this is part of her job. Everyone hates at least one thing about their job, and for her it’s getting our flaccid penises back to attention. I think a sense of entitlement can come over some of us, and it gets projected in an aggressive way. When our manhood is put in check, it’s kind of normal to react that way; sadly. Still, we all know the limits of what we can do.
Stop Asking for Two Pops!!!
So, a provider went on a sort of rant some time ago on the good ol’ SexWorkers Reddit group. Again, I advise members to peer into the veil there often just to see what things are like on the other side it’s really something. Anyway, the provider went on a rant about a client asking for two pops in a session. In this provider’s defense, she didn’t break down how much time the client booked. All she did was list the reasons why she dislikes MSOG, stating that it would leave the client embarrassed and put her in an awkward position.
As a provider, she specified that there are certain things that come with the job. After a client has climaxed once, she’s there to make him feel comfortable and at ease. She expressed frustration with the client wanting to go at it again, explaining that it creates an uncomfortable atmosphere as she tries to get the client up again in the 5–10 minutes it can take. Being in that space requires constant reassurance, stroking our ego (pun intended), while also working with a wet noodle in order to get it hard again. All the while you’re both laying there, she’s going above and beyond to try to get the client up. The catch of the entire thing is that the ambiance that was in the room when things started is gone. Instead, it’s replaced with the underlying factor that this is a transactional arrangement.
As much as I can see things from a client’s point of view, you can’t be in the hobby without seeing it from a provider’s. I can see how it would be awkward to be in that situation. Hell, as a client it can be just as fucking uncomfortable when I’m not able to perform. Still, I’m putting myself in that situation. In her rant, the provider wrote, “You just have to be realistic about your time and what your body can actually handle.” She’s right. As men, we know what we can and can’t handle. To book MSOG only to fall short after climaxing once puts things in a bad position. Some clients react differently to this. While some of us are nonchalant about it, others could get frustrated and act aggressively toward a provider, stirring up a whole other set of problems.
I want to give my opinion on this, but I believe the provider left out the most important part of her story. She didn’t specify the amount of time these clients were booking when asking for MSOG. I think the amount of time booked is the key to all of this. If a client is asking for MSOG and only booking an hour, that to me is a long shot. Not every man’s body is the same, but booking an hour and believing you’re going to get a second pop after the provider takes 5–10 minutes to get you back up doesn’t make sense to me. I book multiple hours to make sure that awkwardness doesn’t enter the space me and the provider created. Is my guy getting back up after five minutes? Fuck no. The little fucker would be lucky to get back up after ten. I know me, so I book two hours or more, and between that first and second climax, I’m talking with my provider, waiting for my boy to make his encore to the stage.
As a provider, she did make it clear that she knows this is part of her job. Everyone hates at least one thing about their job, and for her it’s getting our flaccid penises back to attention. I think a sense of entitlement can come over some of us, and it gets projected in an aggressive way. When our manhood is put in check, it’s kind of normal to react that way; sadly. Still, we all know the limits of what we can do.
Stop Asking for Two Pops!!!
