True illusion of intimacy/passion is hard to get, right?

[hotplayboy]

A woman can be great at sex but if I sit there quietly and not flirt or at least have an interesting conversation to have some spark going in her mind then...

A woman can be great at sex but if I sit there quietly and not flirt or at least have an interesting conversation to have some spark going in her mind then it is not going to feel super amazing. Like how a woman who you just seduced in club or street or date or better a partner who is in love with you fucks you. This makes the women sneak you in their house and fuck you while their family is downstairs, runs away with you, cheat for you.

This is similar to how women don’t do stuff and go above and beyond for a boring guy no matter how rich and handsome he is. But drips wet and let the broke asshole hit them raw.

When a woman enjoys sex (the sex they want not what they are just giving it to you out of some obligation), she screams, she whimpers, she talks dirty, she begs, she guides you, she encourages you to do things to her, she has multiple orgasms (Lot of the mainstream porn have this scripted and they do act it better but I’m sure real sex have this 10x better which sadly I have never experienced, I haven’t even experienced porn version of it, yet to meet a PS who is good at this [1]) because the guy she’s attracted to is fucking her, every act is enthusiastic and it becomes obvious that she is HAVING FUN.

I feel like no matter what you are paying, this cannot be bought. Probably this is why I like those POV step scenes where the woman is scripted to act and talk to actively lead like she is into me (she comes onto me)

I have a friend who befriends strippers, their managers, strangers on campus and bars, get their numbers, etc.

My questions:
> If you get what I’m saying, What are the skills I should work on in myself to be better at being a more emotionally attractive person to any ladies because I want to be at the receiving end of what I described above? [2]

> [1] Which are some providers who absolutely takes care of this thing without me having to be a seducer?

P.S.
[2] Apologies if this sounds like seeking a dating/flirting advice but I ask this with intention to use it with SB and other encounters so it is fulfilling for both of us, otherwise it is not enjoyable for me no matter how beautiful they are or sloppy the BJ is. I’m in good shape, I am and look young, I groom, smell good, communicate well with her or her booker over email, etc.

Funny how one wrong step earns you a creep label in this world

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[sezz66]

I've been there my dude lol. You're overthinking it. Just relax and spend a little more time deciding if she is what you want. She's not the only one who gets to do the choosing. Cut yourself some slack. You won't get it perfect, but if you just treat the women like normal people you'll do fine.

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[Sexaddict]

True illusion of intimacy is difficult to get, that said, there are girls that comes pretty damn close and not just PS but regular girls as well.

A few weeks ago, I had sex with a regular girl, like a non-provider and yes it was alright but I actually prefer the sex I have with providers.
No obligations to do anything extra for the girl, you pay her fee, do your thing and then you're on your way again.
9/10 times you'll never see the provider again - unless she becomes your ATF.

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[connman]

I've been there my dude lol. You're overthinking it. Just relax and spend a little more time deciding if she is what you want. She's not the only one who gets to do the choosing. Cut yourself some slack. You won't get it perfect, but if you just treat the women like normal people you'll do fine.

I agree with everything said here. Relax and have fun, the rest will take care of itself.
Also, it can be difficult in a short client/provider relationship to get what you are looking. Longer dates allow you the time to relax, talk, and get to know each other and start to develop a comfort level allowing both of you to relax and have fun. I find it helpful to look at a girls socials prior to meeting to find out what her interests are. This will give you conversation topics and will help her get comfortable with you. She now knows you as more than the next john.

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[sezz66]

One more thing here, it's really important to recognize we're talking about the illusion of intimacy/passion. Before you even start you already know it's not real. So if what you're craving is real intimacy and passion, nothing you find here is going to satisfy you for long.

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[Briguy1875]

There is a good YouTube video about the provider point of view. If you want to maximize the quality of the time be yourself, be in the moment, treat it like a real date, ask questions that are fun (favorite places to visit, foods, hobbies) and most importantly treat the provider as a real person because she is.
The don’ts are more important don’t pry, talk about your wife, ex, or your crap. If you want to treat it as a therapy session chances are so will she. If you don’t think about the pay dynamic the more it will be a fantasy/real date.
My mindset going in is listen, communicate well, and have a great time.

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[Briguy1875]

True illusion of intimacy is difficult to get, that said, there are girls that comes pretty damn close and not just PS but regular girls as well.

A few weeks ago, I had sex with a regular girl, like a non-provider and yes it was alright but I actually prefer the sex I have with providers.
No obligations to do anything extra for the girl, you pay her fee, do your thing and then you're on your way again.
9/10 times you'll never see the provider again - unless she becomes your ATF.

Agreed, the most important part is finding the provider who you think you will connect with. In an initial email vibe what type of appointment you are looking for and be direct. There are providers who like a transactional appointment and there are providers who prefer gfe. If you get a positive email response that usually means that the provider gets what you want and understands what your fantasy is. You’ll be able to vibe this as well.
If you like the gfe experience and want the fantasy of a girlfriend be prepared yourself to give it. Book multiple hours to allow the time. Ask questions about types of beverages and food they prefer and have. Have a gift. Start the fantasy and add the touch of real.
You can’t expect a gfe experience unless you are willing to treat it as one.

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