I want to share some honest reflections based on firsthand conversations with several women in the industry, particularly in Europe and North America, though the same applies to many parts of the world. Specifically, I’m referring to the incredible women from Asia and South America who are offering their services abroad at competitive rates.
First, let’s clear up a common misconception: around 95% of these women are not in this line of work because they chose to. Most of them made an informed decision to pursue one of the highest-paying opportunities available to them. And they’re doing it on their own terms.
Typically, the arrangement is a 50/50 split between the woman and the organizer who helps coordinate travel and accommodations. I avoid the term “pimp” because it comes with unfair and outdated assumptions. In reality, these individuals often act more like managers or facilitators—and mutual respect is the foundation of the partnership.
Yes, a small number—perhaps (very likely) 5% or fewer—are working to pay off some form of debt. But this is not the norm, and it’s important to understand that most of these women are financially savvy and fully in control of their situation.
As for how they're treated—these women are treated very well. There’s a strong incentive for everyone involved to ensure the girls are comfortable, safe, and happy. Why? Because if the women don’t earn well, neither does the person managing the tour. It’s a mutually beneficial setup, and professionalism and respect are the rule—not the exception.
These women earn at least $2,500 per month, often much more—far beyond what they could expect to make in their home countries. For example, I once had a sugar babe from Paraguay—a country where the average monthly wage is about $400. She used her earnings to buy land and build her own home, something few in her country can achieve. And she did it without ever being mistreated or pressured - into anything.
When I first entered the hobby, I used to wonder, “But what about the girls? Are they okay?” And now, after learning the truth, I can confidently say that in 9 out of 10 cases, they’re not just okay—they’re thriving.
These women are free to leave at any time, even if they're on an ongoing tour. There’s no force, no pressure—just a professional arrangement where everyone wins.
A friend of mine in Canada is a friend of some girls in Canada. Just last week, he took them shopping at a Gucci store. That’s the kind of treatment many of them receive—they're appreciated, respected, and in many cases, treated like royalty.
At the end of the day, it's important to challenge the negative stereotypes and recognize that many of these women are independent, and empowered—making smart financial moves and building a better future on their own terms.
That’s all I wanted to share.
I know the game is totally different for pornstars.
First, let’s clear up a common misconception: around 95% of these women are not in this line of work because they chose to. Most of them made an informed decision to pursue one of the highest-paying opportunities available to them. And they’re doing it on their own terms.
Typically, the arrangement is a 50/50 split between the woman and the organizer who helps coordinate travel and accommodations. I avoid the term “pimp” because it comes with unfair and outdated assumptions. In reality, these individuals often act more like managers or facilitators—and mutual respect is the foundation of the partnership.
Yes, a small number—perhaps (very likely) 5% or fewer—are working to pay off some form of debt. But this is not the norm, and it’s important to understand that most of these women are financially savvy and fully in control of their situation.
As for how they're treated—these women are treated very well. There’s a strong incentive for everyone involved to ensure the girls are comfortable, safe, and happy. Why? Because if the women don’t earn well, neither does the person managing the tour. It’s a mutually beneficial setup, and professionalism and respect are the rule—not the exception.
These women earn at least $2,500 per month, often much more—far beyond what they could expect to make in their home countries. For example, I once had a sugar babe from Paraguay—a country where the average monthly wage is about $400. She used her earnings to buy land and build her own home, something few in her country can achieve. And she did it without ever being mistreated or pressured - into anything.
When I first entered the hobby, I used to wonder, “But what about the girls? Are they okay?” And now, after learning the truth, I can confidently say that in 9 out of 10 cases, they’re not just okay—they’re thriving.
These women are free to leave at any time, even if they're on an ongoing tour. There’s no force, no pressure—just a professional arrangement where everyone wins.
A friend of mine in Canada is a friend of some girls in Canada. Just last week, he took them shopping at a Gucci store. That’s the kind of treatment many of them receive—they're appreciated, respected, and in many cases, treated like royalty.
At the end of the day, it's important to challenge the negative stereotypes and recognize that many of these women are independent, and empowered—making smart financial moves and building a better future on their own terms.
That’s all I wanted to share.
I know the game is totally different for pornstars.
